True Confessions - Don't Judge
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^--- Really pretty pp0
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I'm so sick of being single, lonely, ugly and totally ashamed of myself for the way that women behave towards me as a result of that, that I've removed all women from my friends list on here and completely battened down the hatches to hide for my own good
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I'm so sick of being single, lonely, ugly and totally ashamed of myself for the way that women behave towards me as a result of that, that I've removed all women from my friends list on here and completely battened down the hatches to hide for my own good
You are none of those things ...will see you when you poke your head out of the hatch then ..
Hiding won't solve anything either ..
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I confess: I wish I could be more selfish, however I constantly put others first which sometimes wears me down0
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I'm so sick of being single, lonely, ugly and totally ashamed of myself for the way that women behave towards me as a result of that, that I've removed all women from my friends list on here and completely battened down the hatches to hide for my own good
There are some awesome women out there.. You might be single and lonely, but you are not ugly and have no reason to ever be ashamed of who you are.. When you start lifting yourself up to a higher esteem, hopefully you will see that a 'woman' can compliment you as a person..
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I posted a selfie. Dirty hair, don't care.3
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I confess that today I think I look gorgeous. I am actually starting to look like something other than a round blob.6
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I am feeling overwhelmed... have so many goals, so little time and sooooo little energy. My goals are ten feet over my head and i am afraid i will never be the person i really wanna be. I work hard, am a single mom, have 4 beautiful kids in every sport imaginable, two extra 18 yr olds living in my basement, and i cannot remember the last time i had fun or did anything for me. I feel guilty at the thought of going to the gym 3 times a week, when my kiddos miss me because i work all the time. How can I get over this guilt to transform myself into something magical? I also feel guilty because i feel like i need a man, but i know i dont. I cant put the kids through anything like that ever again. I know i am going to be single until they are all grown and out of the house...which is a very long time. I don't wanna need anyone ugh!!! Don't worry, I got this!!! I just have moments of doubt every once in a while. My goals are:
I wanna lose the fluff around my belly and thighs
I want to be able to run a 5k in the summer
I want to make healthy dinners every night for the kids
I want to exercise 3 hours a week ( hard core ) so i can be around longer for my kids
I want to make a plan to advance my career so i am not struggling ( never got a penny of child support --he's over 36,000 behind)
I want to find an effective way to get all 6-8 kids living with me ( lol they may not be mine but if they live with me ) i want help keeping up the house so i dont clean for hours every moment i am off work. I am not mean and dont like yelling.
I also want to finish my darn basement... you tube videos here we come
and last but not least, I want to be able to take me and all my kids and all my "adopted" kids on a wonderful dreamy vacation.4 -
mjhuisheere wrote: »I am feeling overwhelmed... have so many goals, so little time and sooooo little energy. My goals are ten feet over my head and i am afraid i will never be the person i really wanna be. I work hard, am a single mom, have 4 beautiful kids in every sport imaginable, two extra 18 yr olds living in my basement, and i cannot remember the last time i had fun or did anything for me. I feel guilty at the thought of going to the gym 3 times a week, when my kiddos miss me because i work all the time. How can I get over this guilt to transform myself into something magical? I also feel guilty because i feel like i need a man, but i know i dont. I cant put the kids through anything like that ever again. I know i am going to be single until they are all grown and out of the house...which is a very long time. I don't wanna need anyone ugh!!! Don't worry, I got this!!! I just have moments of doubt every once in a while. My goals are:
I wanna lose the fluff around my belly and thighs
I want to be able to run a 5k in the summer
I want to make healthy dinners every night for the kids
I want to exercise 3 hours a week ( hard core ) so i can be around longer for my kids
I want to make a plan to advance my career so i am not struggling ( never got a penny of child support --he's over 36,000 behind)
I want to find an effective way to get all 6-8 kids living with me ( lol they may not be mine but if they live with me ) i want help keeping up the house so i dont clean for hours every moment i am off work. I am not mean and dont like yelling.
I also want to finish my darn basement... you tube videos here we come
and last but not least, I want to be able to take me and all my kids and all my "adopted" kids on a wonderful dreamy vacation.
dang.... I was just hoping to clean out the garage this weekend.
that's a lot; a whole lot.
it sounds like you need to workout at home (put that basement to good use)
your priorities seem to be in order. you sound like a wonderful person!
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Motorsheen wrote: »mjhuisheere wrote: »I am feeling overwhelmed... have so many goals, so little time and sooooo little energy. My goals are ten feet over my head and i am afraid i will never be the person i really wanna be. I work hard, am a single mom, have 4 beautiful kids in every sport imaginable, two extra 18 yr olds living in my basement, and i cannot remember the last time i had fun or did anything for me. I feel guilty at the thought of going to the gym 3 times a week, when my kiddos miss me because i work all the time. How can I get over this guilt to transform myself into something magical? I also feel guilty because i feel like i need a man, but i know i dont. I cant put the kids through anything like that ever again. I know i am going to be single until they are all grown and out of the house...which is a very long time. I don't wanna need anyone ugh!!! Don't worry, I got this!!! I just have moments of doubt every once in a while. My goals are:
I wanna lose the fluff around my belly and thighs
I want to be able to run a 5k in the summer
I want to make healthy dinners every night for the kids
I want to exercise 3 hours a week ( hard core ) so i can be around longer for my kids
I want to make a plan to advance my career so i am not struggling ( never got a penny of child support --he's over 36,000 behind)
I want to find an effective way to get all 6-8 kids living with me ( lol they may not be mine but if they live with me ) i want help keeping up the house so i dont clean for hours every moment i am off work. I am not mean and dont like yelling.
I also want to finish my darn basement... you tube videos here we come
and last but not least, I want to be able to take me and all my kids and all my "adopted" kids on a wonderful dreamy vacation.
dang.... I was just hoping to clean out the garage this weekend.
that's a lot; a whole lot.
it sounds like you need to workout at home (put that basement to good use)
your priorities seem to be in order. you sound like a wonderful person!
I wish you well.
I was gonna buy a pizza and lay around the house this weekend...I'm still gonna tbh.2 -
well, right now i am having an awesome late breakfast with eggs and sausage and as I look around, I have to laugh... 4 teenagers that aren't mine, hanging in my kitchen, eating all my food, while my 16 yr old daughter is out working... and my young 3 are jamming to The Band Perry while playing minecraft... it really is great! I just put alot of pressure on myself... lol my crazy virgo trait. Life is pretty darn awesome!2
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True confessions? No judgement? OK, I am in:
When boarding an airplane, I fart while I’m walking through first class on my way to my coach seat.
Remember no judgement ;-)5 -
haha OMG-- hope you called safety! you are rotten lmao0
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@LigtingLady5 Hopeful this will put a smile on your face:
I spent a long part of my life being in or working for the Army. In my early Army career, I was made to do some amazing punishments. Having learned a thing or two while being a lower enlisted and learning the errors of my ways, the Army decided it was time for me to be placed in a role of greater responsibilities. As a young Sargent, I had one soldier that was a total meat head. This SM (Service Member) was a total f---up to put it gently. Couldn’t be on time, couldn’t show up dressed to standards, constantly forgot professional courtesies, so on. Finally I had it, as his Squad Leader, I pulled him aside and commenced to rim him a new one, then stopped myself.
“No. You know what? I’m done yelling at you. It doesn’t work. Stay right here; don’t go anywhere.” I stormed off into the company building. The phrase, “stay right here, don’t go anywhere” is typically the precursor to something horrible happening when said in anger. Eventually I emerged carrying a small-ish potted tree, which I handed to the service member.
“You will keep this tree alive. You will carry this with you wherever you go in uniform. You will take it to PT (Physical Training), you will take it to chow, you will take it to work. If anyone asks you why you’re carrying this f—ing tree around, you will tell them, ‘It’s to replace the oxygen I stole from everyone else.’ “
It was one of my more memorable experiences. That young man grew into a fine soldier and was with us and kept the tree alive throughout his enlisted tour. He left us a couple a years later for West Point Preparatory School. He completed the academy and was commission as an officer in the Army.
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I'm so sick of being single, lonely, ugly and totally ashamed of myself for the way that women behave towards me as a result of that, that I've removed all women from my friends list on here and completely battened down the hatches to hide for my own good
The way women behave towards you shows what type of women they are, it has no reflection on you. There are some really nice women on here, you must be talking to the few nasty ones that are here. You're not ugly, but if you keep putting yourself down it will be harder to get out the rut. Join some classes, make some friends/acquaintances, at least then you won't be so lonely and you may actually meet someone special when they see what a bright happy person you can be. Best wishes for 2017 x1 -
I confess. I went to buy butter and ended up trying on a dress I now want1
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I confess I am mostly getting fit and losing the weight so people will be jealous of me.
Hehehe, my evil plan is already working.....2 -
Monkey_Business wrote: »@LigtingLady5 Hopeful this will put a smile on your face:
I spent a long part of my life being in or working for the Army. In my early Army career, I was made to do some amazing punishments. Having learned a thing or two while being a lower enlisted and learning the errors of my ways, the Army decided it was time for me to be placed in a role of greater responsibilities. As a young Sargent, I had one soldier that was a total meat head. This SM (Service Member) was a total f---up to put it gently. Couldn’t be on time, couldn’t show up dressed to standards, constantly forgot professional courtesies, so on. Finally I had it, as his Squad Leader, I pulled him aside and commenced to rim him a new one, then stopped myself.
“No. You know what? I’m done yelling at you. It doesn’t work. Stay right here; don’t go anywhere.” I stormed off into the company building. The phrase, “stay right here, don’t go anywhere” is typically the precursor to something horrible happening when said in anger. Eventually I emerged carrying a small-ish potted tree, which I handed to the service member.
“You will keep this tree alive. You will carry this with you wherever you go in uniform. You will take it to PT (Physical Training), you will take it to chow, you will take it to work. If anyone asks you why you’re carrying this f—ing tree around, you will tell them, ‘It’s to replace the oxygen I stole from everyone else.’ “
It was one of my more memorable experiences. That young man grew into a fine soldier and was with us and kept the tree alive throughout his enlisted tour. He left us a couple a years later for West Point Preparatory School. He completed the academy and was commission as an officer in the Army.
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nolan44219 wrote: »Monkey_Business wrote: »@LigtingLady5 Hopeful this will put a smile on your face:
I spent a long part of my life being in or working for the Army. In my early Army career, I was made to do some amazing punishments. Having learned a thing or two while being a lower enlisted and learning the errors of my ways, the Army decided it was time for me to be placed in a role of greater responsibilities. As a young Sargent, I had one soldier that was a total meat head. This SM (Service Member) was a total f---up to put it gently. Couldn’t be on time, couldn’t show up dressed to standards, constantly forgot professional courtesies, so on. Finally I had it, as his Squad Leader, I pulled him aside and commenced to rim him a new one, then stopped myself.
“No. You know what? I’m done yelling at you. It doesn’t work. Stay right here; don’t go anywhere.” I stormed off into the company building. The phrase, “stay right here, don’t go anywhere” is typically the precursor to something horrible happening when said in anger. Eventually I emerged carrying a small-ish potted tree, which I handed to the service member.
“You will keep this tree alive. You will carry this with you wherever you go in uniform. You will take it to PT (Physical Training), you will take it to chow, you will take it to work. If anyone asks you why you’re carrying this f—ing tree around, you will tell them, ‘It’s to replace the oxygen I stole from everyone else.’ “
It was one of my more memorable experiences. That young man grew into a fine soldier and was with us and kept the tree alive throughout his enlisted tour. He left us a couple a years later for West Point Preparatory School. He completed the academy and was commission as an officer in the Army.
That's an awesome story.
@nolan44219 can you give me the cheat sheet version. You know blonde....paragraphs...ouch my head0 -
nolan44219 wrote: »Monkey_Business wrote: »@LigtingLady5 Hopeful this will put a smile on your face:
I spent a long part of my life being in or working for the Army. In my early Army career, I was made to do some amazing punishments. Having learned a thing or two while being a lower enlisted and learning the errors of my ways, the Army decided it was time for me to be placed in a role of greater responsibilities. As a young Sargent, I had one soldier that was a total meat head. This SM (Service Member) was a total f---up to put it gently. Couldn’t be on time, couldn’t show up dressed to standards, constantly forgot professional courtesies, so on. Finally I had it, as his Squad Leader, I pulled him aside and commenced to rim him a new one, then stopped myself.
“No. You know what? I’m done yelling at you. It doesn’t work. Stay right here; don’t go anywhere.” I stormed off into the company building. The phrase, “stay right here, don’t go anywhere” is typically the precursor to something horrible happening when said in anger. Eventually I emerged carrying a small-ish potted tree, which I handed to the service member.
“You will keep this tree alive. You will carry this with you wherever you go in uniform. You will take it to PT (Physical Training), you will take it to chow, you will take it to work. If anyone asks you why you’re carrying this f—ing tree around, you will tell them, ‘It’s to replace the oxygen I stole from everyone else.’ “
It was one of my more memorable experiences. That young man grew into a fine soldier and was with us and kept the tree alive throughout his enlisted tour. He left us a couple a years later for West Point Preparatory School. He completed the academy and was commission as an officer in the Army.
That's an awesome story.
@nolan44219 can you give me the cheat sheet version. You know blonde....paragraphs...ouch my head
lol Cliff Notes version:
Monkey Business was in charge of a total screw up and that screw up became a good soldier and went on to complete one of the toughest and most prestigious military academies in the United States.0 -
nolan44219 wrote: »nolan44219 wrote: »Monkey_Business wrote: »@LigtingLady5 Hopeful this will put a smile on your face:
I spent a long part of my life being in or working for the Army. In my early Army career, I was made to do some amazing punishments. Having learned a thing or two while being a lower enlisted and learning the errors of my ways, the Army decided it was time for me to be placed in a role of greater responsibilities. As a young Sargent, I had one soldier that was a total meat head. This SM (Service Member) was a total f---up to put it gently. Couldn’t be on time, couldn’t show up dressed to standards, constantly forgot professional courtesies, so on. Finally I had it, as his Squad Leader, I pulled him aside and commenced to rim him a new one, then stopped myself.
“No. You know what? I’m done yelling at you. It doesn’t work. Stay right here; don’t go anywhere.” I stormed off into the company building. The phrase, “stay right here, don’t go anywhere” is typically the precursor to something horrible happening when said in anger. Eventually I emerged carrying a small-ish potted tree, which I handed to the service member.
“You will keep this tree alive. You will carry this with you wherever you go in uniform. You will take it to PT (Physical Training), you will take it to chow, you will take it to work. If anyone asks you why you’re carrying this f—ing tree around, you will tell them, ‘It’s to replace the oxygen I stole from everyone else.’ “
It was one of my more memorable experiences. That young man grew into a fine soldier and was with us and kept the tree alive throughout his enlisted tour. He left us a couple a years later for West Point Preparatory School. He completed the academy and was commission as an officer in the Army.
That's an awesome story.
@nolan44219 can you give me the cheat sheet version. You know blonde....paragraphs...ouch my head
lol Cliff Notes version:
Monkey Business was in charge of a total screw up and that screw up became a good soldier and went on to complete one of the toughest and most prestigious military academies in the United States.
well done Monkey Business!!!
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I hate, just hate when well thought out plans change. I think I suck sometimes at adjusting and my plan B needs to be thought out better!0
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I hate, just hate when well thought out plans change. I think I suck sometimes at adjusting and my plan B needs to be thought out better!
oh no hope you figure plan B out
I'm wondering if our New Years plans will pan out. Having a sick child to drag around doesn't seem like a smart thing to do0 -
I went for two weeks without lifting and lifted the past two days and I am sore as *kitten*!0
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I confess I like One Direction and am kind of excited for some of their solo careers0
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I've been sipping on a Snapple for a few days and there's still half in my fridge bc I decided there were too many calories in it. :P It seems stupid every time I think about it. I also put back a giant Hershey bar at the checkout last night bc I wanted it for New Years but my bf was against it and I looked at the calories and put it back.... I hate when he makes me feel guilty for having something on a special occasion. I wonder if I'll be able to have cake on my birthday bc I've already suggested a pumpkin bread that my mom made that I think would be even better with glaze on it and he was like, "why does it need glaze?" BC I WANT IT??????????? If I want to make a bad decision can I just make it???? I did get some cheap wine though so that's it for New Years.0
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