2017 Adopt a Noob Discussion

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  • RigSel
    RigSel Posts: 10 Member
    *UP FOR ADOPTION - one NOOB Asian Female*

    -THE SITCH: Over the last 8+ years, gained 2 kids (almost 8 & 3) and about 25 lbs. Love the former but the latter NOT SO MUCH. Lost time for myself, gained some bad (old) eating habits.
    -KICK IN THE PANTS MOMENT: realizing I'm turning 40 in 27 days (but who's counting) - I want to be a Fab40 not a Fat40. I've earned every one of those years and want to kick off the second half of my life in the best shape physically and mentally.
    - STATs: 5'5" /161-163 lbs (depends on time of day)
    - GOAL: 132 - 135 lbs - this was the weight where I was the happiest. I was eating sensibly and working out a few times a week but not making myself crazy watching everything I ate. I have started food logging again but after a few weeks, it gets really old.

    Looking for a mentor to inspire me to find time for myself again, suggest healthy south asian foods if possible (I've tried salads but at the end of the day, my diet has to be culturally appropriate to be a lasting change), and to hold me accountable for slacking. Fingers crossed that this Golden Unicorn holding a Four-Leaf Clover exists!
  • StephAStephan
    StephAStephan Posts: 22 Member
    I would love a mentor. Here's my blurb:
    Brand new to this as of today. 32 year old female who has always been naturally thin. Had two back-to-back (very) recent miscarriages which changed my body drastically. Am seeking advice on nutrition and fitness from another female who is also TTC as I go through the process of testing and treatment with a reproductive endocrinologist. Let me know!
  • kingchimera31
    kingchimera31 Posts: 9 Member
    In need of a mentor/tutor. I've tried losing weight about 3 years ago to the Xbox Biggest Loser and did a pretty good job until we got downstairs neighbors and they started to complain about the jumping around. I've had a lot of difficult obstacles since then and gained all my pounds back and then some. I'm at 240 right now and would like to get down to a desired weight of 180/190. I work at a casino so I have a graveyard shift and I also have a son that I pick up from school everyday so it cuts into my sleep. I'm also a huge super nerd so nothing really phases me as far as nerdiness goes. Would like to do some cosplay someday when I get to my goal weight.
  • angsamp
    angsamp Posts: 7 Member
    I'd love to be adopted!!

    I'm a 31 yo female. I'm an attorney so I sit most of the day at work, and my evenings are spent chasing my 2 yo and 8 yo stepson. Over the last 3 years I've gained 40 pounds (the last 10 were only since November). Weight loss is a huge struggle for me. I've dieted, counted calories and macros, gone paleo, etc. I find my biggest problems to be 1-motivation/will power and 2-Binge eating. This is my last time trying to lose the weight because I'm determined to be successful. I'm sick of worrying about how bad I look all the time. I currently weigh 160 and am on the very high end of the overweight BMI scale. I need to lose 40 pounds and even had my doctor tell me so today. As for exercise, for the past year I had a trainer 3 days a week. Again, I wasn't really losing weight, but I gained a lot of muscle and strength and was at least looking more toned. Trainer quit in November. I have a treadmill and workout videos so now my exercise will be at home.

    I'd love a mentor who has struggled with binge eating and overcome it, also someone who has successfully done workouts at home. I know what I NEED to do, but I fall off the wagon so easily and need help staying motivated even when I hit a plateau.
  • instamodel
    instamodel Posts: 2 Member
    Please adopt me :)
    I'm a newbie.
    I have used MFP. But then derailed after I lost the weight. :s , I'm 23 and BMI Is 30. :/

    I would really like a mentor to show me the proper way of clean eating, how to lose and maintain weight most important.
    Also some tips on nutrition and what to eat , meal prep would be extremely helpful.

    Please add me.!! :blush::)
  • c_ward1983
    c_ward1983 Posts: 22 Member
    I would love to be adopted / mentored. My biggest challenges are finding the time to work out in a hectic schedule, avoid stress eating and making healthy eating choices, and dealing with very little sleep.

    I'm 33 years old, Male, looking to start off by loosing 30lbs
  • haibrookiebear
    haibrookiebear Posts: 1 Member
    I'd love to be adopted. I've been trying to lose weight but along with losing weight I always lose motivation, I wanna get back down to 125 and I currently weigh 155. If anybody is willing to help me send me a friend request and message me. I would really really appreciate it.
  • Sameerr10
    Sameerr10 Posts: 7 Member
    About me,

    My name is sameer and i am 28 years old, and i am new to MFP, my height is 5.8 and my current weight is 100.8 kg and i am from Dubai ( U.A.E) ,and i really want to get rid of this weight and I would be very happy if i will get a nice mentor.
    There was a time i was very active in my exercises, i was regular to gym and soccer playing but due to my shift duties and less rest i got lazy and stopped working out and gained huge amount of weight. (23kgs)



    i am really hard working person , i just need right guidance to achieve my goal and i hope i will get a right mentor here.

    thanks,
    sameer
  • TashSeals
    TashSeals Posts: 1 Member
    I need to be adopted :)

    Here's a little bit about why and what my goals are.

    My name is Natasha , I am 21 years old. I am 5'2 ,175 pounds and feeling overwhelmed by the weight i have gained. My healthy weight is 155 pounds. I am a single mother to a two year old but after having my daughter i still cannot loose the weight. I am now doing IF (fasting) . I am tracking my weight, calories, steps, and exercise. I have successfully lost 6 pounds already but i want to loose the last 20 needed to be at my goal. I am confident i can do it but i really want someone to push me as well.
  • tgardi
    tgardi Posts: 54 Member
    I don't know about adopted. I mean I'm kinda old for that, and I wouldn't get you much on your taxes. But I definitely could use someone checking on me periodically. I turn 40 in 70 days. (Not that I'm counting) I had this idea a few months ago I'd lose 40 pounds by my 40th. I've lost 9 and a half lol. So I don't think that's happening. But I'm focused on making a healthier life style. I spent 10 years in the Marine Corps and now I'm a cop. I work a desk assignment so I have to motivate myself to get moving and eat right. Been too easy to go in on the office lunch order.
  • lisaannet6
    lisaannet6 Posts: 3 Member
    Would love to be adopted! :) I'd love the Mentor/Buddy to keep me accountable to hit my goals by 6/1! 49 yrs old and hypothyroid....Thanks and looking forward to a Mentor to help me achieve my goals for 2017!
  • 1seetheart
    1seetheart Posts: 2 Member
    I want to be adopted!!!
    Oh, I'd love to be a mentor! Here's my profile:

    I'm a 23 year old - 5', 118 lb. (bulk) lifting lover! I started off thinking the key to fitness was being a cardio bunny and eating as minimally as possible, until I hit 95 lbs. and still was not at my "ideal" body. Did my research, started eating more protein, lifting heavy and now a year-and-a-half later, here I am. I have achieved success through nutrition education, a little assistance from a trainer (and my orthopedic doc, thanks to foot problems) and my own curated lift program. I have an extremely busy schedule with a 3-hour commute, 9-hour work day and doing homeowner/girlfriend errands, but I always make time for fitness and health. I'm a proud fur mama to the funniest duo, Ote (4 lb. Chihuahua) and Dutch (145 lb. - still growing - Bullmastiff). All my lifts are powered by Starbuck's!

  • 1seetheart
    1seetheart Posts: 2 Member
    I would love to get adopted!
  • canteronkat
    canteronkat Posts: 126 Member
    Would love new friends add me & give me advice
  • jahend08
    jahend08 Posts: 10 Member
    I'd love a mentor; I'm a 32 year old mom of 3 and promise this will be the time that I lose all the weight for good. I'm so determined; but would love some encouragement/advice along the way!
  • clarinetkid4ever
    clarinetkid4ever Posts: 3 Member
    I need to be adopted too!

    230 pounds currently, I wish to lose about 80+ pounds but I am starting with a 30 pound goal just to get myself motivated to lose more. I am also a mother of two beautiful girls and my wish is to play more outside with them. I need help with exercises I can do because last year I injured my knee and still have to wear a brace to hold the patella in place. I have been cleared to do light exercises with it but still unsure what that means.
  • BrandNewMan1970
    BrandNewMan1970 Posts: 373 Member
    I would be able to help someone along. I am 47, male married with college kids. 2..5 years ago I got upwards of 250 and decided to really go at it. I am down 75lbs and in the greatest shape of my life. It's hard but it's also easy. Daily dedication.
  • Olivia
    Olivia Posts: 10,137 MFP Staff
    Continued thanks for all of the mentors who are signing up!!! Your names have been added to the opening post. Keep em coming!

    For people who are posting that want to be adopted, please review the list in the opening post and reach out to one of them to ask if they will mentor you.
  • ellielove2017
    ellielove2017 Posts: 8 Member
    Would love to be adopted!! I'm 21 with an ultimate goal of 150. To reach that goal I have to lose 20 pounds. I know it's not a lot, but it's a stubborn 20 pounds!! I work out okay, but I would love some guidance to workouts. I also would love some help with food and food choices. I cook when I'm at school, but I would love to cook some delicious healthy food! Logging my food, even though it's only been a few days, has been so helpful with not over eating, but I definitely want to lose the weight. Message me! :)
  • RastaLousGirl
    RastaLousGirl Posts: 2,119 Member
    edited January 2017
    I am going to go ahead and put my self out there, and say I would love to be adopted..
    Due to unhealthy eating habits and bed rest on pregnancy, I gained approximately 80 lbs this past two years. My short term goal is to lose 1-2 lbs per week (CICO, clean eating, workout regime), and long term is about 120 lbs or so. My wedding is February 2018, which has really jump started my motivation, but I need more than that. I want to feel healthy for a long time not just a year.
  • lldavidson63
    lldavidson63 Posts: 3 Member
    I need a mentor too. I was here about a year ago but didn't stick with it. It's time for me to make a change, so I'm back.
    I'm 53 years old and have a lot of weight to lose. If someone would like try help me, that would be great.

    Lori.
  • Djproulx
    Djproulx Posts: 3,084 Member
    I have accepted two requests for mentoring, so not looking to adopt more people at this time.
  • SheenaBall
    SheenaBall Posts: 46 Member
    Hi, I'm not super new to MFP or weight loss, but I could definitely use the right mentor for support. I am a 32F and my husband and I live in Mongolia (and it's nothing like Mongolian BBQ you get in America). I started MFP years ago at 195 lbs, lost 30 but while I was working 80+ hours a week put it back on quickly. Prior to MFP I did Livestrong, and before that, paper journals. Last year I rejoined MFP after finding out living in Mongolia is not as magical as living in Nepal where I lost 50 pounds (as a vegetarian living at high altitude with a Parasite) but was cycling in my weight so I got serious. I lost that 30 pounds easily right away again (about 90 days) but then with a busy summer stayed there the rest of the year. But I go visit America in November and want to be 120-125 when I get there and have a goal to lose 1 pound a week. I prefer my mentor to be female, as I also struggle with some health issues like endometriosis, an injured ankle, and a lot of back and joint pain (very recently). But I don't believe in excuses, believe in 100% honesty and integrity, track diligently measuring with a scale and using my Apple Watch for calories burned, believe in the 3500 calorie math and am not afraid to be honest with myself. I require grace - with that one serving of chocolate per day, best if in the form of Oreos. It's my comfort away from home and a psych thing for me. No more food after the Oreos and I'm pretty satisfied with that. I'm hoping for a cheerleader who will also remind me that it's not just about calories but healthy choices and getting some protein too, and who will understand when I post a quick calories with that note of "I have no idea how much sheep's fat I was responsible to consume today at that meeting". Hopeful for a good match - I'd be really appreciative of someone to connect with - primarily for motivation and accountability.
  • FitnTrimSteve
    FitnTrimSteve Posts: 664 Member
    I would appreciate being adopted by a mentor. I'm 46 with asthma so exercising is a bit of a challenge (though I'm improving that little by little). I've tried WW multiple times with little success. CW=244.6 GW=195. My biggest trouble area is in stress/boredom eating late at night. Ideally, I'd like to lose about 1.5lbs per week on average.

    My main goal is to drop 50 pounds and build some functional body strength with increased lung strength by eating lean meats, fruits and veggies and doing a combination of cardio and body weight strength training.
  • Olivia
    Olivia Posts: 10,137 MFP Staff
    Djproulx wrote: »
    I have accepted two requests for mentoring, so not looking to adopt more people at this time.

    Awesome! Thank you so much @Djproulx for adopting two folks. I will remove your name from the mentor list in the OP. Thanks again!
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    @Alex
    Remove my name too as I've adopted 3 :smile: .
    Thanks, Ruth
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