How to get big for GIRLS?
unnichaacko
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I am a puny human, about 90-93 lbs having no mass eating about 2700-3500 calories. No matter what I do, can't seem to gain much. Even in holidays, I gained about 5lbs and lost it once I started my training. It is daunting to eat about this much unless it's unhealthy but once I eat unhealthy, my performance gets worse and I feel bloated and mostly sick.
What a girl to do to get big?
What a girl to do to get big?
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First of all, I would highly recommend you start accurately weighing your food if not already. You will likely find that you overestimate your intake. Also, you may be eating a lot one day, and picking the next and not even realize it ! (I was always super guilty of this).
This post will help you with food ideas and methods to help you gain
community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10326769/are-you-a-hard-gainer-please-read/p1
Lots of food options there if you are not into ice cream or donuts (not that there is anything wrong with that, I eat ice cream every night but it works for me and makes me feel great and not overly full)
Also, how active are you outside of weight training? You may need to cut down a bit on the cardio to help you gain6 -
lol that was fast!
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The same way guys do - eat calories more than you burn. You probably aren't eating as many calories as you think you are. I thought I ate approx 2500 calories a day until I started tracking and weighing food, and realized that I only ate 1600 calories a day. Oops3
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Also, make sure as you gain weight, you up your calorie intake, because you'll be burning more. for the same activities2
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This is a typical day for me,
Breakfast : 10 medium bananas + 3 dates + 1tsp cinnamon
Mid morning snack : 1 mango (about 350g)
Lunch : 2 papayas + 1/4th of a watermelon
Evening snack : 4/5 tangerines + 500gm grapes
Dinner : 1/2 cup (dry) white rice + sriracha + 2 cup boiled/steamed veggies
Training : Recently I have started Stronglift 5*5 (It has been only a week), I cycle for about an hour in the morning, and my basic training includes progressive calisthenics and parkour which takes about 2 to 3 hours daily. Other than that, I sit and animate the entire day and I sleep about 5 hours every day.1 -
I see a lot of carbs.. no protein or fat there. While carbs are super important on a bulk, so are the other macronutrients. I try to at least aim for 0.8g protein per lb bodyweight and 0.3-0.45g fat per lb. Then fill the rest with carbs. You are likely filling up on water and fiber from all the fruit so maybe need to balance your diet a bit better.
Not sure what dietary restrictions you have but protein sources like tofu, legumes, beans, seitan, whole grains, quinoa, freekeh, hempseed, chia, etc. Or a vegan protein supplement if you need
Fats: nuts, nut butters, seeds, avocado, oils (olive, coconut), coconut milk etc.7 -
I see a lot of carbs.. no protein or fat there. While carbs are super important on a bulk, so are the other macronutrients. I try to at least aim for 0.8g protein per lb bodyweight and 0.3-0.45g fat per lb. Then fill the rest with carbs. You are likely filling up on water and fiber from all the fruit so maybe need to balance your diet a bit better.
Not sure what dietary restrictions you have but protein sources like tofu, legumes, beans, seitan, whole grains, quinoa, freekeh, hempseed, chia, etc. Or a vegan protein supplement if you need
Fats: nuts, nut butters, seeds, avocado, oils (olive, coconut), coconut milk etc.
It's just that I am a super lazy person when it comes to cooking. And fruits are basically something you buy and eat whenever you are hungry. Sometimes I feel lazy just to peel and slice the mangoes, so I tend to go for the fruits like bananas where I just have to peel it. Must take protein in consideration.2 -
unnichaacko wrote: »I see a lot of carbs.. no protein or fat there. While carbs are super important on a bulk, so are the other macronutrients. I try to at least aim for 0.8g protein per lb bodyweight and 0.3-0.45g fat per lb. Then fill the rest with carbs. You are likely filling up on water and fiber from all the fruit so maybe need to balance your diet a bit better.
Not sure what dietary restrictions you have but protein sources like tofu, legumes, beans, seitan, whole grains, quinoa, freekeh, hempseed, chia, etc. Or a vegan protein supplement if you need
Fats: nuts, nut butters, seeds, avocado, oils (olive, coconut), coconut milk etc.
It's just that I am a super lazy person when it comes to cooking. And fruits are basically something you buy and eat whenever you are hungry. Sometimes I feel lazy just to peel and slice the mangoes, so I tend to go for the fruits like bananas where I just have to peel it. Must take protein in consideration.
Oh I see.. I wasn't sure if you were doing raw till 4 or something but best advice I can give you is meal prep! I am a busy mom so believe me I know the feeling of being too lazy to eat. I even made meals and portioned them out.. You can do like a coconut Thai dish (lots of cals from the coconut milk) with veggies then freeze it in portions and you can serve it over rice or noodles. Or if you are on the go.. homemade granola is great, or a smoothie with the protein powder and nut butters etc.2 -
unnichaacko wrote: »This is a typical day for me,
Breakfast : 10 medium bananas + 3 dates + 1tsp cinnamon
Mid morning snack : 1 mango (about 350g)
Lunch : 2 papayas + 1/4th of a watermelon
Evening snack : 4/5 tangerines + 500gm grapes
Dinner : 1/2 cup (dry) white rice + sriracha + 2 cup boiled/steamed veggies
Training : Recently I have started Stronglift 5*5 (It has been only a week), I cycle for about an hour in the morning, and my basic training includes progressive calisthenics and parkour which takes about 2 to 3 hours daily. Other than that, I sit and animate the entire day and I sleep about 5 hours every day.
You need fat and protein in your diet.... it's too high in sugar and carbs.
Also 10 bananas??? I hope that is a typo.
Instead of 10 bananas, try a banana with some PB and some eggs... for example.1 -
unnichaacko wrote: »This is a typical day for me,
Breakfast : 10 medium bananas + 3 dates + 1tsp cinnamon
Mid morning snack : 1 mango (about 350g)
Lunch : 2 papayas + 1/4th of a watermelon
Evening snack : 4/5 tangerines + 500gm grapes
Dinner : 1/2 cup (dry) white rice + sriracha + 2 cup boiled/steamed veggies
Training : Recently I have started Stronglift 5*5 (It has been only a week), I cycle for about an hour in the morning, and my basic training includes progressive calisthenics and parkour which takes about 2 to 3 hours daily. Other than that, I sit and animate the entire day and I sleep about 5 hours every day.
I don't think this is anywhere near 2700 calories. Measure your liquids and weigh your solids and semi-solids.
ETA: It looks like your training (2-3 hours/day minimum) would burn a lot of calories as well. I would recommend trying to track those exercise calories and eating them back. With all the training (weights, cycling, calisthenics, parkour) you're doing daily I'm not sure how you have any energy at all given the sample meal you posted. I'd be completely drained.0 -
unnichaacko wrote: »This is a typical day for me,
Breakfast : 10 medium bananas + 3 dates + 1tsp cinnamon
Mid morning snack : 1 mango (about 350g)
Lunch : 2 papayas + 1/4th of a watermelon
Evening snack : 4/5 tangerines + 500gm grapes
Dinner : 1/2 cup (dry) white rice + sriracha + 2 cup boiled/steamed veggies
Training : Recently I have started Stronglift 5*5 (It has been only a week), I cycle for about an hour in the morning, and my basic training includes progressive calisthenics and parkour which takes about 2 to 3 hours daily. Other than that, I sit and animate the entire day and I sleep about 5 hours every day.
why ten bananas????
how many calories a day is that/0 -
Like others said, accurate measuring of food. Many women forget about enough protein, depending on your height but I'd say 100-125 grams. LIFT at least 5 days a week, you only need 1 hour of lifting a day to make those gains if you have a good lifting program.0
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unnichaacko wrote: »This is a typical day for me,
Breakfast : 10 medium bananas + 3 dates + 1tsp cinnamon
Mid morning snack : 1 mango (about 350g)
Lunch : 2 papayas + 1/4th of a watermelon
Evening snack : 4/5 tangerines + 500gm grapes
Dinner : 1/2 cup (dry) white rice + sriracha + 2 cup boiled/steamed veggies
Training : Recently I have started Stronglift 5*5 (It has been only a week), I cycle for about an hour in the morning, and my basic training includes progressive calisthenics and parkour which takes about 2 to 3 hours daily. Other than that, I sit and animate the entire day and I sleep about 5 hours every day.
You need fat and protein in your diet.... it's too high in sugar and carbs low in protein and calories.
Also 10 bananas??? I hope that is a typo.
Instead of 10 bananas, try a banana with some PB and some eggs... for example.
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unnichaacko wrote: »I see a lot of carbs.. no protein or fat there. While carbs are super important on a bulk, so are the other macronutrients. I try to at least aim for 0.8g protein per lb bodyweight and 0.3-0.45g fat per lb. Then fill the rest with carbs. You are likely filling up on water and fiber from all the fruit so maybe need to balance your diet a bit better.
Not sure what dietary restrictions you have but protein sources like tofu, legumes, beans, seitan, whole grains, quinoa, freekeh, hempseed, chia, etc. Or a vegan protein supplement if you need
Fats: nuts, nut butters, seeds, avocado, oils (olive, coconut), coconut milk etc.
It's just that I am a super lazy person when it comes to cooking. And fruits are basically something you buy and eat whenever you are hungry. Sometimes I feel lazy just to peel and slice the mangoes, so I tend to go for the fruits like bananas where I just have to peel it. Must take protein in consideration.
scrambled eggs and a bagel do not take that long to cook ...0 -
you need the following to get big and this advice applies to men and woman
1. eat in a calorie surplus of 250 to 500 calories per day.
2. get on a structured lifting program with progressive overload built in.
3. make sure that you meet your macro requirements.
4. make sure that you get adequate nutrition, sleep, and hydration.
5. take beginning measurements and continue to do so every three to four weeks.
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You need to eat MORE. Even if it means eating the foods you deem as "unhealthy". Your body will Thankyou for the change!!! Everything changes when you reach a healthy weight...your sleep, your mood, your hair..nails..skin....1
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OP, it seems like the root of your issue comes from your lack of preparing meals. I'm not after nearly the same number of calories, but here's some ideas for quick-prep foods with minimal cleaning:
-Protein shakes made with milk. You can blend in fruit if you want, or if cleaning a blender is a PITA for you, eat it on the side. Or protein bars, but protein shakes are probably more economical and easier to consume more calories with.
-Sandwiches. Go heavy on spreads like peanut butter and mayo.
-Not sure if you're vegetarian/vegan? My grocery store usually has rotisserie chicken already cooked, get one of those and eat off it for a couple of days.
-Pick one day a week and cook two big meals, then portion them out into individual servings. Only one day of cooking and cleaning, the rest of the week you're just reheating and eating.
-Get a crockpot. Chop up a couple of things, dump it all in, let it slow cook the rest of the day. Buy the liners so you don't have to scrub the crockpot later.
-Frozen meals.
-Edamame - high in protein, quick to prepare.2 -
The typical day is estimated at 2300 calories. Woefully deficient in protein, fat and iron.
I included it all under "breakfast" for my own convenience.
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I believe OP is vegan from another post I read so maybe a protein powder made with almond milk would help, if she doesn't want to prepare tofu, beans, seitan, or any of the other vegan protein options.
As for fat, avocados are easy to eat once ripe. You can make avocado toast for breakfast, have a protein shake with it and a piece of fruit to have a more rounded out meal macronutrient wise.0 -
ModernRock wrote: »The typical day is estimated at 2300 calories. Woefully deficient in protein, fat and iron.
I included it all under "breakfast" for my own convenience.
Wow. If OP eats like that every day, it would be hard to think of a much unhealthier, incomplete and unbalanced diet. OP desperately needs more fats and protein.2 -
Keep in mind your results are a direct result of your efforts. Laziness leads to little to no results. Also, protein and fsts are vital nutrients and shouldnt be neglected. Fats controll hormones and protein builds muscle. If your diet isnt optimal, your results wont be either. If getting fit was easy, everyone would do it. So in the end, you need to evaluate what is important to you and put effort into.4
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Add some nut or seed butters, perhaps? Banana with pb(or any other butter is delish!) You basically need to just eat more(esp protien and fat) and if you can't eat much more, cut back on the cycling or parkour. Make sure you are following 5x5 program correctly. MLO makes a very affordable vegetable protein powder that can easily be mixed with soymilk for an extra meal/snack. I would not recommend almond milk because it has fewer calories and almost no protein.1
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I've never seen anything like that!
Please, eat protein.1 -
I totally read this as "how to get big FOR girls." I thought it was some dude trying to make some gains for the ladies.
It would be the same for women as men. Eat, eat, and eat some more, and lift heavy weights. You also need to eat more protein. Try setting your macros at 40/30/30 and see if that works for you.2 -
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It's quite disappointing how people treat someone if she is eating ten bananas. I don't disagree I need more protein but there's all sort of eating pattern. I would never think of bashing someone for eating meat. It's really disappointing. Thank you all anyways. Also, if you have never seen anything like that, I hope I have been all sort of enjoyment here. Thank you.2
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i can't get pass that 10 bananas for the morning! WOW! !! never seen or heard that before!
Got nothing else to add, ladies have already covered all the bases!
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unnichaacko wrote: »It's quite disappointing how people treat someone if she is eating ten bananas. I don't disagree I need more protein but there's all sort of eating pattern. I would never think of bashing someone for eating meat. It's really disappointing. Thank you all anyways. Also, if you have never seen anything like that, I hope I have been all sort of enjoyment here. Thank you.
Don't get upset you are getting good responses
You have explained why you eat the way you do so that's that
You also accepted you need to eat more protein
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