Someone discouraged me.

Fatvaporizer · January 2017

So I was talking about how I had been working out consistently trying to lose weight, along with cutting back on what I ate/dieting, and the person started this whole lecture about how exercise is useless and that only watching what you eat matters to lose weight. So I said, so you're saying cardio and all that is useless to lose weight, what's the point of gyms and such? He was like people just want to make money.

I then pointed out that I actually did drop a lot of pounds from consistent exercise and diet over time. And he said well, that's all just because of your diet, and tried convincing me not to exercise anymore, but instead just diet and do zero cardio/workouts. I got a bit angry at this point as it seemed like he just said all the months of working out didn't contribute to any weight loss, and it was just my diet/eating less.

I concluded and asked him where he got his information from and he said a few videos on YouTube say exercise does not make you lose weight and it all depends on diet alone.

What's your take on this? I found it discouraging and somewhat felt I was being sabotaged of my weight loss. Thanks for your feedback and I apologize if this thread comes off a bit ranty.

PS: No offense but this person himself was trying to lose weight but always said he had no time to 'work out.'

Alatariel75 · January 2017

You Tube is not a source.

blambo61 · January 2017

I would work out even if I didn't lose weight. Who wants to be weak both in muscular strength or cardio capacity. Exercise burns cals while your doing it and there is some more cals burned building and maintaining muscle. You can easily eat back all those calories and that is when it won't help you lose weight, but it allows you to eat more and not have a negative effect which goes a long ways to helping you stick to a diet.

Machka9 · January 2017

Why would you feel sabotaged? Someone expressed his opinion ... you nod and smile and say, "sure, sure" ... you do what you want to do, what you know works for you.

Or in my case, I'd stare blankly at anyone suggesting I don't exercise ... and then burst into laughter.

kelisueray · January 2017

I think the straight up answer to this dude is CICO and that you can do it either by solely focusing on nutrition or nutrition and exercise.

Therealobi1 · January 2017

The mistake you made is further the conversation with them, you should have just laughed them off and said ok.. there are some people you can't reason with
How can a reasonable human being tell someone exercise is useless
Regardless of losing weight or not, Exercise has so many benefits, please don't give it up

cerise_noir · January 2017

I eat at a calorie deficit to lose weight.

I exercise to improve my mood, strength and cardiovascular health.

Why are you giving someone so much power over you?

Lounmoun · January 2017

You can lose without exercise. You can also lose with diet and exercise.
Do what you prefer.

Orphia · January 2017

Keep it up, you're doing great!

You don't have to exercise to lose weight. Paralysed people can still eat less calories than their body burns to live, and lose fat.

Some people gain weight running marathons. BUT, they would get to eat a HUGE amount more than a non-marathoner before gaining an ounce.

I run and walk a lot. This earns me lots more lovely calories to eat. I'd feel sorry for your friend, but he's not worth bothering about.

Good luck, and well done!

Ready2Rock206 · January 2017

Don't give someone that much control over your feelings. Who cares what someone else says? Just keep up the good work and your results will show in the end.

NeuronsNeuronsNeurons · January 2017

Benefits of exercise (why I workout even when I don't want to): you are allowing your immune system to circulate and work effectively, increasing bone density, toning your body, improving and stabilizing mood, reducing stress, building muscle, encouraging healthy bowel activity/eliminating waste from your body, getting better quality sleep, improving your short term memory, and as an added bonus get a great complexion and get to eat another snack or two.

You may both lose weight but one of you will be much healthier in the end.

tddy2 · January 2017

You can lose weight without exercising but the results are not nearly as good. Exercising leaves you feeling great and puts everything back where it belongs so you look great. Nod and smile at the know it alls and do it your way. Don't let them get you down, you are doing great. When I started my weight loss journey they told me that it would never work. Then they said I would never lose it all. Then they said I would gain it all back. 8 years later I am still 110lbs down. I feel great and I look great. People can be stupid and mean. You can do this!

SLLRunner · January 2017

Never, never give your power away to someone like that.

He was just expressing his opinion, and we all have a few here and there. You Tube is not the best source of information either.

It's true, one does not have to exercise to lose weight but one must exercise to gain strength, stamina and enhance health (unless there is some health reason they cannot exercise).

I could not live without my weight lifting and my running.

jdhcm2006 · January 2017

Technically he isn't 100% wrong. You can lose weight with diet alone because all you need is to burn more calories then you consume. You can accomplish that by simply decreasing the amount of calories you eat.

But exercise will help with it, provided you don't eat all of those calories+ back and are no longer in a deficit.

Personally, I exercise bc I like it. I don't know how I lived life without pole. I truly love doing it. And I really enjoy lifting as well. Plus exercise gives me a few more calories to work with, so I can eat a little more than if I was just decreasing calories alone.

Also, never let anyone dictate what you can or cannot do. Your life is your own. You do with it what you will. You have to be your own inspiration and to hell with everyone else.

jelleigh · January 2017

Exercise has loads of benefits, but strictly speaking you don't HAVE to exercise to lose weight. A lot of people say that weight loss is 20% exercise and 80% diet. That being said, body recomp ia probably mostly reliant on exercise . Ive heard a lot of people say similar things about the cardio . I think that like other posters have said, cardio (or other exercise for that matter) helps on the Calories Out part of CICO. And exercise (esp cardio) is important for cardiovascular health etc. What good is it to be skinny but unhealthy right ? So keep on doing what you are doing.

For myself, I actually found it really helpful to realize how much more important diet is than exercise in weight loss because I could spend a lot of time and effort working out, and easily ruin the weight loss effects just by not understanding the import of how I eat. Now I focus on eating nutrituous food and staying under my calorie goal and exercise is a 'bonus' towards toning, cardiovascular health, etc. It also helps keep me on track so that if I don't get to a workout, I don't end up throwing in the towel and eating badly too. Maybe your friend was a little like me that way . (Not that that means he should discourage you from something that is obviously working for you). I've noticed that, in general, if people find something that works for them, they think EVERYONE MUST do it their way. But there are a lot of paths to the same goal so if you found one you like, then just keep going!

CourtneyAlonzo · January 2017

Obviously what he's saying isn't true. More often than not dieting is more effective than exercising but that doesn't mean you don't need to do it. Exercise boosts your mood and metabolism and has endless health benefits. Personally I feel better if I eat an extra 300 calories and burn an extra 300 calories than if I just don't eat it to begin with, even if technically speaking the numbers are the same. That guy's probably just a a jerk, don't let the negativity get under your skin.

Falcon · January 2017

2 months ago a trainer I meet with once a month, tried to get me on the core trainer and I couldn't do one rep.

2 months later after the other core exercises stopped working. I decided to get on the Core trainer and could do four reps. Now I'm up to seven and using a four pound ball with a wall sit.

I find I'm digesting faster and the more muscles you have, the easier it is to burn fat.

Results speak for themselves. It's his own fault for not finding time to exercise. Don't let it get you down.

Keep going and ignore the other guys complaints.

ninerbuff · January 2017

While he's not incorrect (on CICO), exercise isn't USELESS for weight loss. It helps to create calorie deficit and the more active a person is, the higher their RMR. RMR is important for fat loss because "at rest" is when you burn the highest percentage of fat for fuel.

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lemurcat12 · January 2017

Of course exercise can be a means to help with weight loss.

Also, it's independently good for you and will likely result in you looking better when you'd lost the weight (and personally I think it's very important to keep up now I'm a healthy weight). So telling you not to exercise is ridiculous.

Your friend is wrong.

But so what? Why would that make you feel discouraged?

callsitlikeiseeit · January 2017

well, he is right and not.

in order to lose weight, all you NEED is a calorie deficit.

Now, the healthiest way to achieve that is through diet AND exercise. the exercise contributes to overall fitness- blood pressure, cardiovascular health, muscle retention, etc. And assists in a deficit, allowing you to eat slightly more (ideally, more nutrient dense foods), or to squeeze in food or drinks that might not be as easy to do so, if creating a deficit through diet alone.

elphie754 · January 2017

Fatvaporizer wrote: »

So I was talking about how I had been working out consistently trying to lose weight, along with cutting back on what I ate/dieting, and the person started this whole lecture about how exercise is useless and that only watching what you eat matters to lose weight. So I said, so you're saying cardio and all that is useless to lose weight, what's the point of gyms and such? He was like people just want to make money.

I then pointed out that I actually did drop a lot of pounds from consistent exercise and diet over time. And he said well, that's all just because of your diet, and tried convincing me not to exercise anymore, but instead just diet and do zero cardio/workouts. I got a bit angry at this point as it seemed like he just said all the months of working out didn't contribute to any weight loss, and it was just my diet/eating less.

I concluded and asked him where he got his information from and he said a few videos on YouTube say exercise does not make you lose weight and it all depends on diet alone.

What's your take on this? I found it discouraging and somewhat felt I was being sabotaged of my weight loss. Thanks for your feedback and I apologize if this thread comes off a bit ranty.

PS: No offense but this person himself was trying to lose weight but always said he had no time to 'work out.'

Sorry to be bearer of bad news, but he is right. You can exercise all you want, but if you aren't eating in a calorie deficit, you won't lose weight. Exercise has its benefits, but not needed to lose weight.

Someone discouraged me.

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