Weights at home. What to buy.

This is a good post but a little difficult to answer as you both have different body types and are both trying to achieve different goals. You really dont have much to start with. I do question why if you are 70lbs overweight why it is you want to lift so heavy? I would think you would want to do lighter weights, higher reps, with maybe a 45 sec break in between sets. I would reccomend some band work into your routine as it can really burn out the muscles and you can do so many variations of exercise with such a cheap device.

For him, if hes looking to gain weight he may want to get more weights to work with. At least do the basics like pushups, pull ups, squats, deadlift, bench press and shoulder press. If you can just start with these exercises you will most certainly see a difference. Both of you would be wise to start a very strict diet plan that fits your individual needs which are differnt. This is where you will see the most benefit.

I lift heavy and got everything used on Craigslist, I would suggest an Olympic bar with various plates and a squat rack as a good start.
I don't use videos. Watch YouTube to work on your form and start light. Get your form down first so you don't hurt yourself, and start with the bar only (it's 45 pounds by itself)
You can do a lot with just these to start; squats, rows, overhead press, power cleans.

Second the vote for Craigslist.

Figure out whether you want to go with KBells or Bar/DBells and then commit to setting up a space for a home gym.

DietVanillaCoke wrote: »

Thanks everyone! I will definitely keep an eye out online

My main reason for lifting heavy was that a lot of girls I spoke to online said it's a great time to start now and try to hold onto the muscle I have and try not to gain it later (Not sure exactly what they meant) but they said to up my protein to about 112gms a day (I'm around 207-208lbs now) I eat about 1400-1600calories. I was going to wait until i got down to around 180lbs as I was worried I might hurt my knees but I can lift a 50lbs bag of soil with no issues, so i figured I may as well start to learn now while my partner learns.

I think learning how to lift correctly will probably be challenging for me XD But I imagine youtube will be a major help there =D

Thanks again.

What they meant is when losing weight, you lose fat and muscle. If you start lifting now at a higher weight, and up your protein, you will retain as much muscle as you can and lose mostly fat.

If you just dieted down, muscle be damned, the only way to build muscle is to eat at a surplus (gain weight) & lift weights.

Sumiblue wrote: »

Power cage, bench Olympic bar & weights. I got all of that on Craigslist & use it 4-5x week.

^^spot on

TresaAswegan wrote: »

Do you have a gym near by you could use for a month or two to try out some of the equipment you're considering, and if lifting is something you will enjoy and stick with long term? (They may even have a free intro with a trainer to show you the equipment and get you started with form etc.) Another pro, you can also you the cardio equipment there.
A lot of people spend hundreds of dollars on equipment for it to remain unused, or sell it on Craigslist.
I recently watched a video by Dave Tate from Elite FTS (they sell lifting equipment) and he suggested that for people who already have an established gym routine but are considering a home gym, buy one thing and see if you will stick with lifting at home before you invest a lot of money in it.

This is good advice. I was going to suggest the same thing. I belonged to Planet Fitness when I started Strong Lifts 5x5. Did it for several months and could tell I would stick with lifting and that PF would make me crazy with its limited equipment. Then I bought my own. Not everyone loves lifting. Or, maybe dumbbells or kettlebells would be a better fit. It's always best to try something out before spending the money, if you can. It will help you figure out just what you want.