For the guys on MFP: is this his way of jokingly flirting or just chit chat
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LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel for you, OP, I was just in a similar situation. My male coworker kept asking me how my day was and casually mentioning the weather but it made me super uncomfortable. I went to my district manager who didn't think my concern was an overreaction at all and I am in the process of getting a restraining order. Good luck and carry pepper spray!!*
*Disclose to your workplace you have it on you and I'm sure it will be ok to use if necessary.
Is there more to this story because asking how was your day and casually mentioning the weather is chit chat, not harassment. From the way you wrote it, it does sound like over-reacting.
See above... still think I'm overreacting?! That was very rude and judgmental of you to say without knowing me or my struggles.
Its coming into focus... I was on the fence with this one... I was confused, you didn't seem the type that guys like. I get it now though.
She's the most beautiful woman I've ever met3 -
_MotherSuperior_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel for you, OP, I was just in a similar situation. My male coworker kept asking me how my day was and casually mentioning the weather but it made me super uncomfortable. I went to my district manager who didn't think my concern was an overreaction at all and I am in the process of getting a restraining order. Good luck and carry pepper spray!!*
*Disclose to your workplace you have it on you and I'm sure it will be ok to use if necessary.
Is there more to this story because asking how was your day and casually mentioning the weather is chit chat, not harassment. From the way you wrote it, it does sound like over-reacting.
See above... still think I'm overreacting?! That was very rude and judgmental of you to say without knowing me or my struggles.
Its coming into focus... I was on the fence with this one... I was confused, you didn't seem the type that guys like. I get it now though.
What does that even mean?
Clearly she's
But more importantly, she has boobs.Escloflowne wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel for you, OP, I was just in a similar situation. My male coworker kept asking me how my day was and casually mentioning the weather but it made me super uncomfortable. I went to my district manager who didn't think my concern was an overreaction at all and I am in the process of getting a restraining order. Good luck and carry pepper spray!!*
*Disclose to your workplace you have it on you and I'm sure it will be ok to use if necessary.
Is there more to this story because asking how was your day and casually mentioning the weather is chit chat, not harassment. From the way you wrote it, it does sound like over-reacting.
See above... still think I'm overreacting?! That was very rude and judgmental of you to say without knowing me or my struggles.
Its coming into focus... I was on the fence with this one... I was confused, you didn't seem the type that guys like. I get it now though.
She's the most beautiful woman I've ever met
Wait one second.... @_riddikulus_ is a woman? I totally support transgender rights.0 -
LiftingRiot wrote: »_MotherSuperior_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel for you, OP, I was just in a similar situation. My male coworker kept asking me how my day was and casually mentioning the weather but it made me super uncomfortable. I went to my district manager who didn't think my concern was an overreaction at all and I am in the process of getting a restraining order. Good luck and carry pepper spray!!*
*Disclose to your workplace you have it on you and I'm sure it will be ok to use if necessary.
Is there more to this story because asking how was your day and casually mentioning the weather is chit chat, not harassment. From the way you wrote it, it does sound like over-reacting.
See above... still think I'm overreacting?! That was very rude and judgmental of you to say without knowing me or my struggles.
Its coming into focus... I was on the fence with this one... I was confused, you didn't seem the type that guys like. I get it now though.
What does that even mean?
Clearly she's
But more importantly, she has boobs.Escloflowne wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel for you, OP, I was just in a similar situation. My male coworker kept asking me how my day was and casually mentioning the weather but it made me super uncomfortable. I went to my district manager who didn't think my concern was an overreaction at all and I am in the process of getting a restraining order. Good luck and carry pepper spray!!*
*Disclose to your workplace you have it on you and I'm sure it will be ok to use if necessary.
Is there more to this story because asking how was your day and casually mentioning the weather is chit chat, not harassment. From the way you wrote it, it does sound like over-reacting.
See above... still think I'm overreacting?! That was very rude and judgmental of you to say without knowing me or my struggles.
Its coming into focus... I was on the fence with this one... I was confused, you didn't seem the type that guys like. I get it now though.
She's the most beautiful woman I've ever met
Wait one second.... @_riddikulus_ is a woman? I totally support transgender rights.
Where do you live?0 -
Never mind, I'll find it myself
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Kevoofthehoradrim wrote: »
I have a boyfriend please step away you have 10 seconds to comply
Lol cute0 -
I feel both violated and flattered all at once...0
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_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel both violated and flattered all at once...
Violated?0 -
JeromeBarry1 wrote: »James is attempting to seize ownership and control of you. It is NOT flirting. It is NOT chit-chat. It is life and death dangerous.
Thank God they're not at the gym too.1 -
Rules of Sexual Harrassment in the Workplace3 -
Rules of Sexual Harrassment in the Workplace
LiftingRiot wrote: »_MotherSuperior_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel for you, OP, I was just in a similar situation. My male coworker kept asking me how my day was and casually mentioning the weather but it made me super uncomfortable. I went to my district manager who didn't think my concern was an overreaction at all and I am in the process of getting a restraining order. Good luck and carry pepper spray!!*
*Disclose to your workplace you have it on you and I'm sure it will be ok to use if necessary.
Is there more to this story because asking how was your day and casually mentioning the weather is chit chat, not harassment. From the way you wrote it, it does sound like over-reacting.
See above... still think I'm overreacting?! That was very rude and judgmental of you to say without knowing me or my struggles.
Its coming into focus... I was on the fence with this one... I was confused, you didn't seem the type that guys like. I get it now though.
What does that even mean?
Clearly she's
But more importantly, she has boobs.Escloflowne wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »_riddikulus_ wrote: »I feel for you, OP, I was just in a similar situation. My male coworker kept asking me how my day was and casually mentioning the weather but it made me super uncomfortable. I went to my district manager who didn't think my concern was an overreaction at all and I am in the process of getting a restraining order. Good luck and carry pepper spray!!*
*Disclose to your workplace you have it on you and I'm sure it will be ok to use if necessary.
Is there more to this story because asking how was your day and casually mentioning the weather is chit chat, not harassment. From the way you wrote it, it does sound like over-reacting.
See above... still think I'm overreacting?! That was very rude and judgmental of you to say without knowing me or my struggles.
Its coming into focus... I was on the fence with this one... I was confused, you didn't seem the type that guys like. I get it now though.
She's the most beautiful woman I've ever met
Wait one second.... @_riddikulus_ is a woman? I totally support transgender rights.
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Probably jokingly flirting in a chit chat way.....same for the women too0
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Commando35 wrote: »Probably jokingly flirting in a chit chat way.....same for the women too
Thanks for answering!0
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