Hi I'm trying to lose weight
mydaughters9380
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Hi I'm trying to lose weight I'm wondering if people cud give me a few tips as I'm struggling to lose the weight I'm exercising and eating better but still no weight loss
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Hi! You might get more traffic if you post this in the "general diet and weight loss" thread.
ETA: Or the "getting started" thread. Check the threads already posted at the top of those categories and you'll find lots of useful information already out there. Best of luck to you!0 -
Thanks i have done that now didn't realise it was wrong thread x0
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step 1 buy a food scale... step 2: use the food scale; step 3; stop eating take out, step 4: use the MFP tools to create a balanced diet; step 5: don't think of dieting as a temporary "thing" step 6: replace time in front of the TV with physical activity.
Congratulations on your decision to become part of this community... your journey will not... and should not be easy. If it were there would be far fewer out of shape overweight people... so be ready for the bumpy road ahead... there are NO quick fixes... anything worth having is worth putting the time and effort it takes to achieve... google S.M.A.R.T goals... get a sharpie and write this in your bathroom mirror: "I AM WORTH THE EFFORT I PUT IN the idea here is that you will teach yourself how to eat better so that you don't continue to gain weight...that you reduce at a healthy rate and find ways to increase your physical activity so that you don't end up on a cycle of deprivation. seek balance in all aspects, balanced diet, work/life balance, reduce stress...
this doesn't take luck... just hard work and the ability to forget your short comings, to learn from them and to forgive yourself when you slip, new healthy habits take time to crystalize... I had a gym membership for 3 years before I finally started going 4 days a week... but now I drop everything to make sure I get those 4 days in... to me they are as important as eating or breathing...So... go easy on yourself and ease into the changes you need to make.6 -
mydaughters9380 wrote: »Hi I'm trying to lose weight I'm wondering if people cud give me a few tips as I'm struggling to lose the weight I'm exercising and eating better but still no weight loss
I have something you should consider...
Retrain your thinking
What do i mean by this?
What happens to 99% of people that diet and exercise to "lose" weight? They gain back the weight they "lost".
Why is that?
As human beings, we have been taught and conditioned that when something is lost, it needs to be found. Word association, quick...what's the first thing you think of when you hear the word...lost?
Found.
Without thinking, we sabotage ourselves when we say we want to lose weight. If you successfully want to shed the pounds, you need to get rid of the excess body fat.
See what i did there? It's not the weight you want to lose or get rid of, but the excess body fat. I mean, if you really want to "lose weight" cut off your leg! Lol, right? Hell, if you had a Genie and he granted you 3 wishes I can guarantee the first thing the Genie would do is make your head disappear. BAM, 10lbs gone! Why? Because you were not specific in what you wanted to achieve.
Retrain your way of thinking and focus on what you're want to accomplish. Believe in this goal just as much as you believe in anything else.
What have you got to lose2 -
Also, you need to be up front with us. How long have you been exercising and dieting? Have you noticed your clothes fitting different? Have you tried putting on an article of clothing that was too small a few months back?0
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I have been properly exercising for 4 weeks and been counting my calories aswell.....yes I have put a pair of jeans on that was tight but now started to feel bit better to wear.1
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Food scale...........as mentioned above.
Weight loss is not about "eating better" it's about eating less. But, eating better should help you stay full longer, and give you more nutrition for lower calories. So eating better is good....not mandatory.
Exercise is great for health & fitness, but don't count on it for weight loss. Calorie burns are often not as much as people think.
Not losing weight......how long has it been? Weight will fluctuate from day to day (sodium, time of month, sore muscles, waste, etc). How close are you to goal? Closer to goal = slower weight loss.0 -
mydaughters9380 wrote: »I have been properly exercising for 4 weeks and been counting my calories aswell.....yes I have put a pair of jeans on that was tight but now started to feel bit better to wear.
You're on the right path.
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BishopLord wrote: »mydaughters9380 wrote: »I have been properly exercising for 4 weeks and been counting my calories aswell.....yes I have put a pair of jeans on that was tight but now started to feel bit better to wear.
You're on the right path.
It's hard enough for women to add muscle while eating at a surplus, progressive heavy lifting......1 pound a month maybe? But eating at a deficit (to lose fat).....my guess would be water weight.1 -
Hello ! I need a little help , I want to lose weight I'm 160 and 5^4 in height , a few meal plans or an idea of what I should eat each day would really help , I walk 3-4 miles per day and work on my arms when I get back , Thank you Melissa0
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melissarodriguez3378 wrote: »Hello ! I need a little help , I want to lose weight I'm 160 and 5^4 in height , a few meal plans or an idea of what I should eat each day would really help , I walk 3-4 miles per day and work on my arms when I get back , Thank you Melissa
You probably want to start your own thread, Melissa0 -
BishopLord wrote: »mydaughters9380 wrote: »I have been properly exercising for 4 weeks and been counting my calories aswell.....yes I have put a pair of jeans on that was tight but now started to feel bit better to wear.
You're on the right path.
It's hard enough for women to add muscle while eating at a surplus, progressive heavy lifting......1 pound a month maybe? But eating at a deficit (to lose fat).....my guess would be water weight.
Thanks i am eating at a deficit to lose weight xx0
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