SEX DRIVE, After loosing all that weight?

Look_Its_Kriss wrote: »

JaydedMiss wrote: »

crystalmorrison378 wrote: »

My sex drive sky rocketed there for a little while.. I've lost 77lbs with 23 more to go. I was feeling really sexy at 1 point.. but the closer I get to my goal weight the more disgusted I am with how my body looks.. meaning... the loose skin on my belly. I still have quite a bit of weight on my belly to lose plus I have the loose skin.. not attractive it bothers me.. it doesn't bother my husband tho. But when things are getting heated in the bedroom I start thinking to myself "how can he stand to look @ me?" Ugh

I have this. When i was thinner but still chubby i was filled out and nice and curve. Now when i lay i have a loose skin flap with a bit of fat still left in it that just sags down xD I can tuck it into my panties when their on but i definatly think about it in certain positions or whatever and it can kill the mood quickly XD Going to try losing the weight a bit more see if it improves or gets beter im hoping to god it improves XD Not the end of the world i suppose

Edit: just noticed i lost 80 pounds now and have 10-15 to go so were similar stats Hope for the best for us both

Oddly that was me too, i remember taking this really nice nude photo and sending it to my man when i was probably in the 200's but it looked really good, course i dont have the photo now so maybe my opinion might be different but i remember feeling super confident in it, etc

Now im 141 pounds and i would rather light myself on fire then get in front of the camera.. ive gone out of my way to buy special clothing, i avoid certain camera angles, My first time wearing a little maids outfit for my man after my weight loss was awful.. it had a sheer fabric across the belly and i have a chubby stomach still with loose skin and the short little skirt showed the loose skin on my thighs and it had an open back and i just felt so awkward and yet he LOVED it.. wanted me to stand at a distance and let him get a good look at me lol.. and my first comment when he asked me to do that was .. "really...?" haha.. i couldn't understand it.. i am very uncomfortable in my own skin

Amazing how that works isnt it? Guy im seeing wants me all dressed up and i dont mind wearing sexy tight dresses for him and heels but some stuff is just awful XD But he loves it. I look best in high waisted leggings now i look skinny as hell when my pouch is held in. Admitedly i look hot and thin when i stand its just a little pouch i can tuck in and then my ribs basically stick out and my tummy looks flat. But when i bend in any direction it appears and says hello -.- I honestly have to wonder how it hides so well whe ni stand it makes no logical sense its not small... Guess ill have to hold my head up high, For an entirely different reason xD God i hope it doesnt get worse.

Pro tip though, Candle light hides all ;D I try to think of myself in my good angles and try to forget about the bad ones. Its difficult at times but you definatly need to. You worked hard you deserve to feel hot . But yeah im not that shy about it its kind of like a battle trophy. Just super gross one XD