What Should I do With a Negative Person?

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  • cessi0909
    cessi0909 Posts: 654 Member
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    Being supportive and a cheerleader goes both ways. Sounds to me like you should be talking to her, in an open and honest way of how you are feeling and working to get an understanding of how she is feeling.
  • gnoble1001
    gnoble1001 Posts: 4 Member
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    Congrats on your life style change and weight loss! You wife sounds scared to death of loosing the new you, she's having difficulty relating. Get some professional help and remember what it was like when you were in her shoes.
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
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    pinuplove wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    shame OP never came back...

    Hopefully he realized he sounded like a jackapple and is busy ordering flowers for his wife.

    Maybe she realized and filed for divorce. Smh
  • BABetter1
    BABetter1 Posts: 618 Member
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    elisa123gal wrote: »
    okay...so you vented here. Please don't say those awful things to your wife. Don't let the confidence you've gained in getting control of your weight and reaching goals turn into arrogance and intolerance for those who yet to find the willpower to change.

    All of us married folks on here deal with our partners working against us at times..even our parents and loved ones do it. .. They feel threatened when someone close to them changes..it can be scary.. they can feel left behind.. or life isn't the same...and they also realize that they are stuck and they act out.

    just be sure you put as much effort into being kind and understanding of your wife as you do at tackling all your goals.

    100% this.

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