What's YOUR weakness when it comes to the opposite gender?
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kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »Well since most comments from the ladies seems to be mostly about personality. I'm gonna go on the side of looks lol.
Broad shoulders. Strong back. And toned arms and abdomen.
Personally it's really nice/refreshing to see this reply, I'm a huge believer that everybody looks for something physically too!
I mean, I think it's obvious that we would all rather date somebody that we like the personality of (otherwise it's a no go from the start isn't it) - just, I refuse to believe that physical attraction doesn't play a part for anybody!
Yea I am huge on personality too of course. But if the guy is not attractive to me then I wouldn't be interested. Not saying he has to be attractive to everyone else. Just to me.
I wish I could tell you how many times I've tried explaining this exact thing to people!
I think people tend to think it's being shallow. But everyone has something that they aren't willing to give on.
True, my issue is that I think people tend to 'settle' instead of searching for what it is they look for in somebody - I've never been prepared to do that. I have a specific idea of what I like in a girl.
Maybe some people it doesn't matter to but, I've learned that for me at least - personality alone just doesn't make the cut!
Then again, I think it ties in with my lifestyle - naturally I want somebody with a similar lifestyle and those people tend to be athletic/lean. So, I guess it's that too!
I get it. When you find the right person, you'll know. No need to settle. That's for sure
I get it too. It's not shallow persay. You care about the outside as well as the inside.... both are needed for true attraction.2 -
kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »Well since most comments from the ladies seems to be mostly about personality. I'm gonna go on the side of looks lol.
Broad shoulders. Strong back. And toned arms and abdomen.
Personally it's really nice/refreshing to see this reply, I'm a huge believer that everybody looks for something physically too!
I mean, I think it's obvious that we would all rather date somebody that we like the personality of (otherwise it's a no go from the start isn't it) - just, I refuse to believe that physical attraction doesn't play a part for anybody!
Yea I am huge on personality too of course. But if the guy is not attractive to me then I wouldn't be interested. Not saying he has to be attractive to everyone else. Just to me.
I wish I could tell you how many times I've tried explaining this exact thing to people!
I think people tend to think it's being shallow. But everyone has something that they aren't willing to give on.
True, my issue is that I think people tend to 'settle' instead of searching for what it is they look for in somebody - I've never been prepared to do that. I have a specific idea of what I like in a girl.
Maybe some people it doesn't matter to but, I've learned that for me at least - personality alone just doesn't make the cut!
Then again, I think it ties in with my lifestyle - naturally I want somebody with a similar lifestyle and those people tend to be athletic/lean. So, I guess it's that too!
I get it. When you find the right person, you'll know. No need to settle. That's for suremerrysailor88 wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »Well since most comments from the ladies seems to be mostly about personality. I'm gonna go on the side of looks lol.
Broad shoulders. Strong back. And toned arms and abdomen.
Personally it's really nice/refreshing to see this reply, I'm a huge believer that everybody looks for something physically too!
I mean, I think it's obvious that we would all rather date somebody that we like the personality of (otherwise it's a no go from the start isn't it) - just, I refuse to believe that physical attraction doesn't play a part for anybody!
Yea I am huge on personality too of course. But if the guy is not attractive to me then I wouldn't be interested. Not saying he has to be attractive to everyone else. Just to me.
I wish I could tell you how many times I've tried explaining this exact thing to people!
I think people tend to think it's being shallow. But everyone has something that they aren't willing to give on.
True, my issue is that I think people tend to 'settle' instead of searching for what it is they look for in somebody - I've never been prepared to do that. I have a specific idea of what I like in a girl.
Maybe some people it doesn't matter to but, I've learned that for me at least - personality alone just doesn't make the cut!
Then again, I think it ties in with my lifestyle - naturally I want somebody with a similar lifestyle and those people tend to be athletic/lean. So, I guess it's that too!
I get it. When you find the right person, you'll know. No need to settle. That's for sure
I get it too. It's not shallow persay. You care about the outside as well as the inside.... both are needed for true attraction.
I tend to find that for the most part, its people that have settled that consider it shallow.
I'd rather anybody that was with me - were physically attracted to me as well as emotionally 1 -
It's a tough situation when you've settled and now you're resentful and project it on others.0
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AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »Well since most comments from the ladies seems to be mostly about personality. I'm gonna go on the side of looks lol.
Broad shoulders. Strong back. And toned arms and abdomen.
Personally it's really nice/refreshing to see this reply, I'm a huge believer that everybody looks for something physically too!
I mean, I think it's obvious that we would all rather date somebody that we like the personality of (otherwise it's a no go from the start isn't it) - just, I refuse to believe that physical attraction doesn't play a part for anybody!
Yea I am huge on personality too of course. But if the guy is not attractive to me then I wouldn't be interested. Not saying he has to be attractive to everyone else. Just to me.
I wish I could tell you how many times I've tried explaining this exact thing to people!
I think people tend to think it's being shallow. But everyone has something that they aren't willing to give on.
True, my issue is that I think people tend to 'settle' instead of searching for what it is they look for in somebody - I've never been prepared to do that. I have a specific idea of what I like in a girl.
Maybe some people it doesn't matter to but, I've learned that for me at least - personality alone just doesn't make the cut!
Then again, I think it ties in with my lifestyle - naturally I want somebody with a similar lifestyle and those people tend to be athletic/lean. So, I guess it's that too!
I get it. When you find the right person, you'll know. No need to settle. That's for suremerrysailor88 wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »Well since most comments from the ladies seems to be mostly about personality. I'm gonna go on the side of looks lol.
Broad shoulders. Strong back. And toned arms and abdomen.
Personally it's really nice/refreshing to see this reply, I'm a huge believer that everybody looks for something physically too!
I mean, I think it's obvious that we would all rather date somebody that we like the personality of (otherwise it's a no go from the start isn't it) - just, I refuse to believe that physical attraction doesn't play a part for anybody!
Yea I am huge on personality too of course. But if the guy is not attractive to me then I wouldn't be interested. Not saying he has to be attractive to everyone else. Just to me.
I wish I could tell you how many times I've tried explaining this exact thing to people!
I think people tend to think it's being shallow. But everyone has something that they aren't willing to give on.
True, my issue is that I think people tend to 'settle' instead of searching for what it is they look for in somebody - I've never been prepared to do that. I have a specific idea of what I like in a girl.
Maybe some people it doesn't matter to but, I've learned that for me at least - personality alone just doesn't make the cut!
Then again, I think it ties in with my lifestyle - naturally I want somebody with a similar lifestyle and those people tend to be athletic/lean. So, I guess it's that too!
I get it. When you find the right person, you'll know. No need to settle. That's for sure
I get it too. It's not shallow persay. You care about the outside as well as the inside.... both are needed for true attraction.
I tend to find that for the most part, its people that have settled that consider it shallow.
I'd rather anybody that was with me - were physically attracted to me as well as emotionally
I don't think having physical traits you find attractive is shallow. But I also know those can change, or become less important, if you find someone that checks all the personality and emotional boxes. My husband doesn't have all of the physical traits I find attractive, but I still think he's the sexiest man alive because he has all the non physical traits I wanted, and it made the physical attraction so much more. I don't feel like I settled at all... I feel like I hit the jackpot. 4 -
kassierodriguez1 wrote: »Well since most comments from the ladies seems to be mostly about personality. I'm gonna go on the side of looks lol.
Broad shoulders. Strong back. And toned arms and abdomen.AdamAthletic wrote: »
Personally it's really nice/refreshing to see this reply, I'm a huge believer that everybody looks for something physically too!
I mean, I think it's obvious that we would all rather date somebody that we like the personality of (otherwise it's a no go from the start isn't it) - just, I refuse to believe that physical attraction doesn't play a part for anybody!
I agree 100%, but looks wise it its harder for me to define...I don't have a "type" I guess, I just know it when I see it.
Personality attributes are easier for me to define. I just posted this a page or two back but...
- kindness and wit
- men's hips
- I'll add in a healthy looking body, skin, hair, nails, teeth and being clean and well groomed0 -
I don't like to see them cry. that's my kryptonite1
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Short pretty petite / curvy women .......I'm 6'2" & i like my ladies 5'5" & under ......& yes it is a pain carrying a tape measure around with me 3
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littlepaintergirl wrote: »A Genuine heart. A real passion for things that matter. a willing to be all and give his all. If I see he's pure and selfless. Sweet, quick witted, a crooked grin and a good sense of humor, I'm so done for
Whoops! And let me not forget..dark hair rawr.
This. I like all this but in a woman. And for her to lift. 0 -
nails done and long flowy hair gets me everytime!0
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Beards, muscles and nice hair.0
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At this current day and time... Jamie Dornan...
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She can make me laugh at myself...
That for some reason is probably the biggest weakness I have
Combine that with a little sarcasm and I'm done... Lol
However note, it takes real skill to make someone laugh at themselves without being insulting. Although I have met a few on here that seem to just do it naturally...2 -
your quirks. Which means I have to get to know you and see those quirks first hand to find someone attractive.1
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AdamAthletic wrote: »kassierodriguez1 wrote: »Well since most comments from the ladies seems to be mostly about personality. I'm gonna go on the side of looks lol.
Broad shoulders. Strong back. And toned arms and abdomen.
Personally it's really nice/refreshing to see this reply, I'm a huge believer that everybody looks for something physically too!
I mean, I think it's obvious that we would all rather date somebody that we like the personality of (otherwise it's a no go from the start isn't it) - just, I refuse to believe that physical attraction doesn't play a part for anybody!
Actually I married and divorced tall and muscular with long dark hair and blue eyes. Before that I dated short and thin with short blonde hair and brown eyes. I'm currently dating short and stocky with a buzzed head and hazel eyes. One was clean shaven, one had a beard and one had a goatee. I'm happier right now because we have a lot shared interests. If there is something physical I go for I haven't figured it out yet.1 -
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That's awesome lol0 -
I'm a sucker for a good sence of humor and a great smile 0
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