goals and rewards

blessingsfromabove721
blessingsfromabove721 Posts: 161 Member
edited November 17 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi all! I am 31 , 5'7 and weigh 297lbs. My goal is around 155-160lbs. I've heard that it helps to make one big goal and small goals. so what are/ were some of your goals with your weight loss? what did you reward yourself with? just looking for ideas :) thank you!

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  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    I made 5 lb goals along the way. I didn't actually do any rewards for those. But I did routinely buy new clothes as I shrank down in size. A lot of people wait until the end of weight loss to buy clothes. If it is fiscally possible, I am a fan of getting them along the way.
  • HeyShaunie
    HeyShaunie Posts: 13 Member
    Hi! I don't think I've given any thought to a big goal, but for my small goal it's to bring my lunch to work everyday in the month of March. To reward myself I'll buy a new bathing suit for my trip to Puerto Rico and come up with a new small goal in April. Good luck to you!!
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    edited March 2017
    i go by 5 pounds. I dont "reward" self but i do nice things for myself that dont involve food, Beter yet if it gets me out walking. Think long walk to a far dollar store for nail polish, Pretty and keeps me away from food while im doing it and they dry. Or a long walk to the store for some cherry tomatoes or a tub of strawberries. yumm, I also stash money away monthly if i lost what i hoped, And at the end ill use that money (money i saved on eating out and smokingg mainly anyway) ill go on a shopping spree for clothes :D
  • _runnerbean_
    _runnerbean_ Posts: 640 Member
    Last time I did mfp I put one euro in a pot every time I lost 1pound weight. When I reached my goal I bought a pandora charm for my bracelet.
    You could do a mini goal of 10% body weight lost as a start, or celebrate 10lb lost (a massage or manicure are good non-food treats to aim for). Good luck with your new lifestyle
  • kayeroze
    kayeroze Posts: 146 Member
    I have 5 and 10 lb goals that are more along the lines of things I've wanted to buy but haven't. One does include clothes shopping, but others are like dye my hair, new kitchen knife set, etc. And I have a cork board with push pins that represent each pound I want to lose that I can move to the weight loss section. Physically seeing that helps me out and gets me excited to do more.
  • susanp57
    susanp57 Posts: 409 Member
    In about 5 lbs I will have a nice gin and tonic. Possibly two.
  • brittyn3
    brittyn3 Posts: 481 Member
    I had 10 lbs goal. First 10 - sunglasses, 2nd 10 - running shoes, 3rd 10 - new bag. Goal weight - finish my sleeve.

    I also have mini goals of 5 from time to time, such as, next 5 - personal day!
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    I've not gone with the 5 and 10 lb marks, but set different goals based on % lost, or crossing a BMI threshold or that kind of thing. Right now I'm trying to get to 247.5, which is 25% of my starting weight gone. I should be there but I got stuck at 250 ish for almost 2 weeks. After that, my goals are 27.5% and 30% gone. My long term goal is 33% gone, but I will still be overweight at that point.
  • leanjogreen18
    leanjogreen18 Posts: 2,492 Member
    I have 10lb goals but no rewards.

    I do however have fitness goals and rewards. For example after 6 months of consistent exercise I bought a Fitbit. After reaching milestones (miles or certain hikes) I get socks, workout clothes etc.
  • megzchica23
    megzchica23 Posts: 419 Member
    Because of health issues going down in weight is hard. And even if I'm losing, I have water retention and bloating from these issues which makes it difficult to get accurate weight readings. I am trying to not make weight my priority this time so much as my health and feeling better and dealing with my health issues and getting off medication. So I like to reward myself for sticking to my calorie limits and exercise goals. Like last weekend I told myself if I made it past 10,000 steps I could have a candy bar.
  • denato1
    denato1 Posts: 54 Member
    I do 10, 25, 50lb goals. For the 10 and 25 I don't really reward. For my 50lb I bought a gear s3 watch, 100lb I was thinking of finishing my sleeve. But nothing is set in stone.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    edited March 2017
    I wasn't so much focused on the scale...I was focused primarily on health markers and fitness. I didn't have a particular weight goal in mind...more of a composition/BF% objective and really, just wanted to improve some nasty health markers more than anything.

    I never really had rewards...I remember going to my 12 week checkup for my cholesterol (that was the time frame my Dr. gave me to make progress or be prescribed pills) and I had taken it from the 160s to around 140...I was ecstatic and recall tears of happiness as I drove myself to the gym to celebrate with deadlifts. In another 12 weeks I was in the normal range...after about a year I was around 90 and a whole host of other bad markers were resolved. That all was reward enough for me. I have two young boys at home, and staying healthy and alive for them and my wife for a very long time is my highest priority.

    The only reward I really gave myself was a new bike. I started riding about 9 months or so into things when I started training for a sprint triathlon...I had an old and heavy Wal-mart type mountain bike that just sucked to ride. I challenged myself to ride at least 500 miles that summer (which at the time was a fairly big deal) and that if I did I would have a good idea of whether or not I really wanted to cycle and would get myself a proper bike. Ended up buying a decent entry level CX bike that September that was my primary ride for a couple of years...ultimately ended up riding primarily road so upgraded from that to a carbon road bike a couple years ago. I still use the CX bike for trail rides and the like.
  • megzchica23
    megzchica23 Posts: 419 Member
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    I wasn't so much focused on the scale...I was focused primarily on health markers and fitness. I didn't have a particular weight goal in mind...more of a composition/BF% objective and really, just wanted to improve some nasty health markers more than anything.

    I never really had rewards...I remember going to my 12 week checkup for my cholesterol (that was the time frame my Dr. gave me to make progress or be prescribed pills) and I had taken it from the 160s to around 140...I was ecstatic and recall tears of happiness as I drove myself to the gym to celebrate with deadlifts. In another 12 weeks I was in the normal range...after about a year I was around 90 and a whole host of other bad markers were resolved. That all was reward enough for me. I have two young boys at home, and staying healthy and alive for them and my wife for a very long time is my highest priority.

    The only reward I really gave myself was a new bike. I started riding about 9 months or so into things when I started training for a sprint triathlon...I had an old and heavy Wal-mart type mountain bike that just sucked to ride. I challenged myself to ride at least 500 miles that summer (which at the time was a fairly big deal) and that if I did I would have a good idea of whether or not I really wanted to cycle and would get myself a proper bike. Ended up buying a decent entry level CX bike that September that was my primary ride for a couple of years...ultimately ended up riding primarily road so upgraded from that to a carbon road bike a couple years ago. I still use the CX bike for trail rides and the like.
    That is awesome! Health and good doctor visits is my main focus too. I want to get my blood pressure down, I do not like being on medications.

    I use to be so much healthier before I moved to Oklahoma. In Colorado I didn't even have a car. I biked or walked everywhere. On days off I went for hikes. Here I can't survive without a car my job is too far. I really miss being able to do that. Now I have an exercise bike because unless I drive there just isn't a good place to ride.
  • Afura
    Afura Posts: 2,054 Member
    Because I have a lot of weight to lose, it made goals a little better. No timeframe on the goals either so no stress over making or not making it. I have things for big goals like taking a one day trip somewhere (or overnighter), a fitness band, a bike, a good piece of jewelry, etc.
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
    I establish goals and rewards that create a positive feedback loop. Last year it was upgrading a mtn bike and getting my son a new mtn bike if he beat his 100m time. This year I'm upgrading a lot of gear and home projects depending on how well the wife and I do at a Spartan Race.

    I also create other motivational goals - as a craft beer enthusiast I have a stout holding in a bourbon cask and will tap this when I get down to 220.
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    CSARdiver wrote: »
    I also create other motivational goals - as a craft beer enthusiast I have a stout holding in a bourbon cask and will tap this when I get down to 220.

    Where? I'll cut off my left leg to get to 220 and join you :)
  • denato1
    denato1 Posts: 54 Member
    Itsvkiller being a craft Brewer and not drinking what I brew
  • RAinWA
    RAinWA Posts: 1,980 Member
    When I was losing I set kind of silly goals - weigh less than my husband, weigh less than my drivers license says... you get the idea. It helped me to not focus on how much I had to lose.

    I didn't really do reward type stuff though. Just losing kept me motivated!
  • zdyb23456
    zdyb23456 Posts: 1,706 Member
    How do you decide you made a goal? My weight fluctuates quite a bit. Would it be the first time you hit the 5/10 pound loss mark? Or would you need to see the loss consistently for a few days?

    I think I'd like to reward myself for losing 5 pounds. I need some motivation to put the snacks down in the evening.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,611 Member
    With weight loss, I could do more cycling.

    So my reward for losing weight was cycling so much more. :)


    As for goals, my first weight loss goal was 16 weeks. Then I took a month break. My second weight loss goal was 16 weeks. And then my goals became cycling goals.
  • kpkitten
    kpkitten Posts: 164 Member
    I'm trying to avoid food-related goals, but sometimes it's hard to think of something!
    I had a microfibre gym towel for my first stone (14lbs) lost. I've already bought my Fitbit Alta for my second stone, which I should reach in the next couple of weeks.
    3 will be one or two pretty straps for the Fitbit.
    4 is currently planned as a massage as I might reach it around the time of a friend's birthday so I can treat the 2 of us - but that's dependent on me feeling confident enough at that weight!
    5 is halfway to goal (70lbs down, 70 to go!) and I'm not sure what to do for this one. Probably a shopping trip, but it depends on me having the money and being a different enough dress size! Plus it'll probably be mid-autumn so I might fit my winter wardrobe OK.
    Haven't thought about the others yet, but I know that when I get to goal, I would like to do a photoshoot and have some pictures of me looking happy and healthy!
  • CiaIgle
    CiaIgle Posts: 72 Member
    edited March 2017
    After 23 Kgs lost, I still don't do specific rewards after achieving my goals (already achieved).

    But sometimes (2-3 times a week) I "reward" my reminding calories at night with my favorite ice cream or similar :smile:

    So I don't feel I am working for a reward, I am just "justifying" the extra calories.
  • MariaHammer750
    MariaHammer750 Posts: 86 Member
    For an immediate reward, I put a quarter in a jar every day that I exercise and another quarter for every day I stay within my caloric limit. I give myself $1.00 for every week that I lose...anything. It's adding up and I have $12.75 in it. I plan to buy something I wouldn't normally spend a lot of money on like an expensive purse or jewelry. I like the idea of having it be something I can take along with me often so I can look at it and be reminded of how hard I worked to get it. Good luck!
  • TheFatLadyPortrait
    TheFatLadyPortrait Posts: 21 Member
    I have little weight-related goals sprinkled at very small intervals to keep me motivated, but my first major goal was to be able to go to "fantastic beasts and where to find them" without my cane. The last time I had been to the movies last spring I had been in euch bad shape I had to rest in the lobby before making the walk to the auditorium showing my movie. In november I reached my goal and went to fantastic beasts. No cane, made the walk and stood in line for concessions, no problem. So that goal was its own reward.

    I took a long break from active weight loss after that and instead mostly tried not to gain too much over the winter. Now that spring is setting back in I am putting away a little money every successful week and when I reach my next big weight goal I am gonna buy myself something nice. Not sure what yet, but probably either a really nice collectible figure or a game console.

  • TimothyFish
    TimothyFish Posts: 4,925 Member
    I "reward" myself more now than I did when I was losing weight. I like to ride my bicycle to an eating place. Last week I ate at Bird Cafe in downtown Fort Worth. There's a cookie shop across the street. The Cheesecake Factory is also on that corner. It is a fifteen mile bicycle ride from my house and sometimes I'll have ridden farther than that already. In hot weather I like to stop at Melt Ice Creams. I also ride up to the Stockyards frequently. There is all kinds of good stuff there. But my "rewards" aren't about reaching milestones. I use them to give me a destination. Having a destination makes it more likely that I will put in a long distance ride. And I have to eat something. I'm either going to eat at a cafe or I'm going to eat food I'm carrying in my pocket. The great thing is that by the time I get home I've burn enough calories to make up for whatever I ate anyway.
  • peachsquad
    peachsquad Posts: 3 Member
    My first goals are to lose 35 lbs and fit in all my "new" jeans (aka ones I bought last summer and didn't try on and then realized that they were too small). I don't have a concrete end weight in mind, but I am about to start saving money per pound lost. We're hoping to buy a home next year and my weightloss savings will go towards a new mattress and frame. I don't reward myself for small losses, though I am proud. I just embrace my cheat days and purchase fitness items I need (new headphones, shoes, etc).
  • missmagnoliablossom
    missmagnoliablossom Posts: 240 Member
    I have rewards for every ten pounds lost, as well as big milestones - getting to a new BMI level, etc. Mostly just stuff that I really want but never buy myself - facials, expensive-ish shoes, etc. The big goal reward is a trip to California to bask my smaller self in some sun. :)
  • TheCupcakeCounter
    TheCupcakeCounter Posts: 606 Member
    My rewards are pedicures and massages (I'm doing more working out so the feet and muscles are getting a beating)
  • croftie4
    croftie4 Posts: 221 Member
    I put £10 in a jar for each lb I drop so when I reach my goal I'll have money for new clothes.

    If I'm being honest I didn't realise how much I had to drop and didn't know I would love the gym and heavy kettlebells so as a result i've already got almost £300 and 15-20lbs to go but will defo re-evaluate. In the mean time I've used charity shops for the sizes in between.

    The jar can't be broken until the end
  • TxTiffani
    TxTiffani Posts: 799 Member
    edited April 2017
    I second using second-hand stores. I've even thought about putting away the savings in a jar ($30-50 for jeans at regular store and only $5 at goodwill=$25-45 in the jar) and using that for some new items when I get to goal:) Just got my nails done at 10lbs down:D
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