Not overweight, but want to lose 5 - 10lbs

tinabell153
tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
edited November 17 in Health and Weight Loss
I let myself go back to bad habits about 7 months ago and gained 10lbs. My wedding is coming up in May and I want to lose the extra weight to fit in my dress. I've been eating healthy, drinking lots of water, drinking protein shakes, and working out almost daily. I'm not seeing any results. I've lost 0 inches and 0 lbs.

I'm at a loss and want to just give up! Anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to kick start this stubborn weight that won't budge??
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  • LessCookiess
    LessCookiess Posts: 538 Member
    So let me get this start you're trying to lose 10 pounds before your wedding in May?
  • Afura
    Afura Posts: 2,054 Member
    If you give up you're definitely not going to lose anything. You don't have to eat any special way except at a deficit. Make sure MFP is set to have you lose .5lb/week (it's frustrating but an appropriate deficit with only 10lb to lose), weigh your foods (for the protein shake liquids, measure them) because you want to be as accurate as possible.
  • LessCookiess
    LessCookiess Posts: 538 Member
    malibu927 wrote: »
    You've mentioned nothing about counting calories. Start there. And don't be disappointed if you don't lose all ten pounds by then, as you're looking at 5-9 weeks depending on when your wedding is. You may be better off investing in some Spanx.
    Sounds about right!
  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    So let me get this start you're trying to lose 10 pounds before your wedding in May?

    I want to lose the 10lbs, but not necessarily before the wedding. I was 105lbs when I bought the dress and I'm 114lbs now. But any weight loss is going to help it fit better!!
  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    malibu927 wrote: »
    You've mentioned nothing about counting calories. Start there. And don't be disappointed if you don't lose all ten pounds by then, as you're looking at 5-9 weeks depending on when your wedding is. You may be better off investing in some Spanx.

    I've been tracking calories, but not consistently. I'll work harder at it! I did buy a body suit from Spanx and it makes the dress fit, but I'd like to lose however much I can before May. I have 7 weeks before the wedding and 8 before the honeymoon!
  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    Afura wrote: »
    If you give up you're definitely not going to lose anything. You don't have to eat any special way except at a deficit. Make sure MFP is set to have you lose .5lb/week (it's frustrating but an appropriate deficit with only 10lb to lose), weigh your foods (for the protein shake liquids, measure them) because you want to be as accurate as possible.

    This is a good point. I have it set to lose 1lb a week. Maybe if I lower to .5lbs I will start seeing a change!
  • happysherri
    happysherri Posts: 1,360 Member
    Weigh all your food - buy a food scale, if you don't have one. I weighed meat - what I thought looked like 4 ounces it was truly 6 ounces (I am not good at eyeballing portions and ounces). Continue to eat healthy foods and I've seen big results with strength training, add that to your program (if you haven't). Take on a workout partner that will motivate you. I love my gym partner. Push forward
  • TimothyFish
    TimothyFish Posts: 4,925 Member
    Afura wrote: »
    If you give up you're definitely not going to lose anything. You don't have to eat any special way except at a deficit. Make sure MFP is set to have you lose .5lb/week (it's frustrating but an appropriate deficit with only 10lb to lose), weigh your foods (for the protein shake liquids, measure them) because you want to be as accurate as possible.

    This is a good point. I have it set to lose 1lb a week. Maybe if I lower to .5lbs I will start seeing a change!

    Uh...no. You want to go the other way. Aim for a larger weight loss so you make up for the inaccuracies in your logging that are keeping you from have a calorie deficit.
  • kenzienal
    kenzienal Posts: 205 Member
    You could try intermittent fasting. 16:8 ?

    Eat in a 8hr window bracket, and then fast for 16 hours. I have chosen to eat only between 12pm and 8pm. Basically just skipping breakfast and any mornings snacks.

    Last week I lost 2 pounds just from skipping 4-5 meals in the entire week. Just wasnt hungry so I didnt eat.

    So I have decided to try IF now regularly to knock these final 15lbs.
  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    savithny wrote: »
    I don't understand how adding caloric beverages (protein shakes) is supposed to help lose weight?

    I usually do half a scoop, which is only 60 calories and in almond milk which is 20 calories, so it's not adding too much. Plus I make sure to log it.
  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    kenzienal wrote: »
    You could try intermittent fasting. 16:8 ?

    Eat in a 8hr window bracket, and then fast for 16 hours. I have chosen to eat only between 12pm and 8pm. Basically just skipping breakfast and any mornings snacks.

    I've tried this and I felt really deprived. I'm an avid snacker, so fasting is really difficult for me. If I'm hungry (stomach growling) I'm gonna eat lol.
  • kenzienal
    kenzienal Posts: 205 Member
    kenzienal wrote: »
    You could try intermittent fasting. 16:8 ?

    Eat in a 8hr window bracket, and then fast for 16 hours. I have chosen to eat only between 12pm and 8pm. Basically just skipping breakfast and any mornings snacks.

    I've tried this and I felt really deprived. I'm an avid snacker, so fasting is really difficult for me. If I'm hungry (stomach growling) I'm gonna eat lol.

    TOTALLY understand that. What works for one, might not work for another.

    Ive found that im incredibly hangry when I eat 3 meals a day(Im not a snacker, snacks tend to turn into mini meals of bad things for me), versus much less hungry when i only eat two. I don't know how that works, but I hope it sticks around.

    Cause when I am hangry.... my boyfriend avoids me at all costs lol.
  • ugofatcat
    ugofatcat Posts: 385 Member
    I am in the same boat and trying to lose about 10 pounds.

    Lately I have been carefully tracking as I eat or before, using a food scale. I weigh myself every few days. I haven't been losing at all, so I averaged out my calorie consumption each day. It is about 2,200, so if I want to lose I need to cut back from that. I am trying to do between 1,800-2,000 a day, but it is hard! I like food and I get hungry.
  • Tennisskater
    Tennisskater Posts: 66 Member
    I am in same boat,
    Hers how I am doing it... I took out all carbs except veggies, limit fruits, increase fiber and protein, and make sure I get enough th fats during the day. The first few days I ate a lot of apples and then the cravings totally stopped and I use my calories for protein and veggies now. I have no blood sugar swings and so I truly eat only when I am hungry. I am so much healtheier and veggies taste amazing.
    I started about 3 weeks ago and have lost 3-4 pounds so far.
  • heatherj0y
    heatherj0y Posts: 5 Member
    I'm with Tennisskater, I don't seem to lose weight unless I only eat veges and low calorie protein like fish, eggs and chicken.

    It's boring but I do find frozen veges very convenient
  • trigden1991
    trigden1991 Posts: 4,658 Member
    I am in same boat,
    Hers how I am doing it... I took out all carbs except veggies, limit fruits, increase fiber and protein, and make sure I get enough th fats during the day. The first few days I ate a lot of apples and then the cravings totally stopped and I use my calories for protein and veggies now. I have no blood sugar swings and so I truly eat only when I am hungry. I am so much healtheier and veggies taste amazing.
    I started about 3 weeks ago and have lost 3-4 pounds so far.

    One does not need to lower carbs to lose weight. Weight loss comes from energy balance (CICO).
  • animatorswearbras
    animatorswearbras Posts: 1,001 Member
    I let myself go back to bad habits about 7 months ago and gained 10lbs. My wedding is coming up in May and I want to lose the extra weight to fit in my dress. I've been eating healthy, drinking lots of water, drinking protein shakes, and working out almost daily. I'm not seeing any results. I've lost 0 inches and 0 lbs.

    I'm at a loss and want to just give up! Anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to kick start this stubborn weight that won't budge??

    Firstly congratulations! Been there, I reckon you can do this if you set to 1 pound a week and tighten up that logging and I mean even on a weekend no slacking get some digital scales, log every stolen chip and measure with a spoon measure every bit of dressing on your salad, spread on your butty and milk in your tea no eyeballing if you can help it, 10's probably ambitious but you might get 4-7 pounds off if you knuckle down. (also remember if you've increased your exercise recently you may have gained water weight for muscle repair which will eventually drop but is temporarily masking fat loss)

    The protein might help you feel less hungry but CICO is the main aim. Also how are you estimating your exercise burns? If its MFP's calculations it might be crediting you too many cals, I'd half the exercise cals you eat back until you get a handle on what you are actually burning especially if you're not losing that could be the problem. 7 weeks is a bit of a funny one as it's a short period of time so try not to freak out about water weight fluctuations, also try not to fall into the trap of unsafe crash dieting either you need at least 1200 cals net if you want to look healthy for your big day (because you're short 1200 should be fine IMO)

    Good luck *chucks confetti*
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    edited March 2017
    I let myself go back to bad habits about 7 months ago and gained 10lbs. My wedding is coming up in May and I want to lose the extra weight to fit in my dress. I've been eating healthy, drinking lots of water, drinking protein shakes, and working out almost daily. I'm not seeing any results. I've lost 0 inches and 0 lbs.

    I'm at a loss and want to just give up! Anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to kick start this stubborn weight that won't budge??

    You're not overweight and you want to lose 10 pounds before your wedding in May? Were you underweight before you gained ten pounds?

    Bottom line: you won't lose 10 pounds by May, and if you do you will probably be too sick to attend your wedding.

    Go to your wedding, have a great time, and don't worry about that ten pounds.
  • Queenmunchy
    Queenmunchy Posts: 3,380 Member
    savithny wrote: »
    I don't understand how adding caloric beverages (protein shakes) is supposed to help lose weight?

    I usually do half a scoop, which is only 60 calories and in almond milk which is 20 calories, so it's not adding too much. Plus I make sure to log it.

    A great example of weighing for accuracy is this "scoop." What you'd want to do is weigh that scoop - 14g would typically be 1/2 scoop as determined on the label, but read the brand you have.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    kenzienal wrote: »
    You could try intermittent fasting. 16:8 ?

    Eat in a 8hr window bracket, and then fast for 16 hours. I have chosen to eat only between 12pm and 8pm. Basically just skipping breakfast and any mornings snacks.

    Last week I lost 2 pounds just from skipping 4-5 meals in the entire week. Just wasnt hungry so I didnt eat.

    So I have decided to try IF now regularly to knock these final 15lbs.

    Fasting has nothing to do with weight loss, it's just a style of eating that is sustainable for some people.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Afura wrote: »
    If you give up you're definitely not going to lose anything. You don't have to eat any special way except at a deficit. Make sure MFP is set to have you lose .5lb/week (it's frustrating but an appropriate deficit with only 10lb to lose), weigh your foods (for the protein shake liquids, measure them) because you want to be as accurate as possible.

    This is a good point. I have it set to lose 1lb a week. Maybe if I lower to .5lbs I will start seeing a change!

    No, this is not how weight loss works.
  • Charabz69
    Charabz69 Posts: 52 Member
    Have you taken your measurements? Reason I'm asking is that you mention you are working out every day, muscle does actually weigh more than fat, it's not a myth. CICO is by far the best policy, sounds like you are doing all the right things. Log EVERYTHING, keep doing what you are doing and enjoy these last few weeks of the build up, the Big Day itself is over in a heartbeat. Good Luck x
  • cardioxxbunnyxx
    cardioxxbunnyxx Posts: 39 Member
    You sound just like me.. I am trying to loose just 5 pounds, (115 but I want to LOWER by bf % and get to 110 lbs.)
    May sound like you body is at a plateu? In order to lose those last few pounds, You have to create a deficent between cals consumed and cals burned. I'm at a loss since I've cut out pretty much all the complex carbs, sugar & bad fats.. My body doesn't want me to drop those last 5 pounds... So maybe that is what your body is doing.

    As you stated, "I want to loose 5 to 10 pounds," There is a very big difference between 5 pounds and 10 pounds.
    Muscle also weighs more than fat, keep that in mind. Maybe your body can drop those last 5 pounds, but then 10 may be too drastic for you.

    For a more informative answer to your question, I would need a better idea of you height and frame (bone size) structure, (small framed, medium or large.) That can help you get a more realistic weight for you, as all those things (height, frame) plays a big part in it as well.
  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,427 MFP Moderator
    Charabz69 wrote: »
    Have you taken your measurements? Reason I'm asking is that you mention you are working out every day, muscle does actually weigh more than fat, it's not a myth. CICO is by far the best policy, sounds like you are doing all the right things. Log EVERYTHING, keep doing what you are doing and enjoy these last few weeks of the build up, the Big Day itself is over in a heartbeat. Good Luck x

    While muscle is more dense than fat, it's also very difficult to gain. Women, under optimal conditions, can gain about 1 lbs a month. And that is with a surplus and a solid progressive overload lifting program.
  • tinabell153
    tinabell153 Posts: 292 Member
    I let myself go back to bad habits about 7 months ago and gained 10lbs. My wedding is coming up in May and I want to lose the extra weight to fit in my dress. I've been eating healthy, drinking lots of water, drinking protein shakes, and working out almost daily. I'm not seeing any results. I've lost 0 inches and 0 lbs.

    I'm at a loss and want to just give up! Anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to kick start this stubborn weight that won't budge??

    Firstly congratulations! Been there, I reckon you can do this if you set to 1 pound a week and tighten up that logging and I mean even on a weekend no slacking get some digital scales, log every stolen chip and measure with a spoon measure every bit of dressing on your salad, spread on your butty and milk in your tea no eyeballing if you can help it, 10's probably ambitious but you might get 4-7 pounds off if you knuckle down. (also remember if you've increased your exercise recently you may have gained water weight for muscle repair which will eventually drop but is temporarily masking fat loss)

    The protein might help you feel less hungry but CICO is the main aim. Also how are you estimating your exercise burns? If its MFP's calculations it might be crediting you too many cals, I'd half the exercise cals you eat back until you get a handle on what you are actually burning especially if you're not losing that could be the problem. 7 weeks is a bit of a funny one as it's a short period of time so try not to freak out about water weight fluctuations, also try not to fall into the trap of unsafe crash dieting either you need at least 1200 cals net if you want to look healthy for your big day (because you're short 1200 should be fine IMO)

    Good luck *chucks confetti*

    Thank you! hahaha
    I think I'm going to invest in a scale. I have an apple watch that I use to track burned calories during a workout and a Fitbit for calories I burn throughout the day. Who knows if they're accurate though. I'm going to avoid any and all crash diets, as I've seen people go through them and it isn't pretty.

    I'll continue to log as strictly as possible and continue my workouts and see how it goes!
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