People with unrealistic expectations

BuffingButtons
BuffingButtons Posts: 25 Member
edited November 17 in Health and Weight Loss
It’s unrealistic of people to expect to lose weight so quickly. It takes months, if not years, to gain weight. For most it is a slow progression and isn’t really paid attention to until you are 10+ pounds heavier. It’s irresponsible for companies to not highlight the realistic expectation of losing weight in a healthy way. Companies advertise the quick fixes, but studies have shown that diets tend to fail in the end as they are just a temporary fix. The popular diets on daytime TV and magazine advertisements are catchy, but they are not reflective of the true lifestyle change that it takes to lose weight.

I try to encourage anyone around me to do math before they start a lifestyle change. 3,500 calories is what it took to gain 1 pound. If you’ve gained 10 pounds, you’ve eaten an excess of 35,000 calories. A bowl of cereal is approximately 150 calories. You’ve eaten an extra 233 bowls of cereal. Do you realize how long it took you to eat an extra 233 bowls of cereal? It is going to take you that long to lose it. I try to encourage realistic calorie expectations to lose weight. It’s ridiculous for people to target 700-800 calories a day to lose weight (unless that is your end-of-day after deducting HIIT). It won’t work, guaranteed. It’s unhealthy and you’ll burn out. It is not sustainable.

If I want to lose the 10 pounds I’ve gained by eating an extra 233 bowls of cereal and I calculate a lifestyle change of consuming 1,500 calories a day, I should lose 10 pounds in 24 days. But see, it really isn’t that easy. When you factor in what your 1,500 calorie allowance actually is composed of on a nutrient level, the “cheats” you consume and any exercise, it skews the math. Life gets in the way and your 1,5000 target can be difficult to adhere to on a daily basis. If you don’t realistically consider you are going to eat a cookie or two, you are going to fail. If you exercise daily and it becomes a chore to you, you’ll find excuses to stop. If you are on a diet that doesn’t allow, let’s say, carb or sugar, is that how you are going to live the rest of your life? If not, how are you going to adjust your life to accommodate carb and sugar when you are no longer dieting?

My point is that losing weight is a lot more than just picking a diet that is the latest fad or erroneously coming up with a target calorie amount. Do the math, educate yourself and realize that this needs to be a healthy lifestyle change. All things constant, if you eat one less bowl of cereal a day, you’ll lose the 10 pounds in less than a year without having to do anything. Choose to eat healthy and exercise because it is important to you and you’ll find more time to enjoy life.

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  • inertiastrength
    inertiastrength Posts: 2,343 Member
    It's a really simple mathematical formula that some people feel (for one reason or another) that they are exempt from. Couldn't agree more
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    so you're saying that netting 700 calories is ok?! :huh:
  • inertiastrength
    inertiastrength Posts: 2,343 Member
    so you're saying that netting 700 calories is ok?! :huh:

    if you want to die lol
  • lthames0810
    lthames0810 Posts: 722 Member
    If all we are talking about is losing the 10 lbs we gained in a year, then I agree that it will take longer than many people evidently think, but it can realistically be lost in far less than a year in a sustainable way.

    But many people here have gained far more than that over a span of decades. It creeps on at the rate of one or two pounds a year. It can be lost in only a year or two without resorting to drastic measures.
  • inertiastrength
    inertiastrength Posts: 2,343 Member
    If all we are talking about is losing the 10 lbs we gained in a year, then I agree that it will take longer than many people evidently think, but it can realistically be lost in far less than a year in a sustainable way.

    But many people here have gained far more than that over a span of decades. It creeps on at the rate of one or two pounds a year. It can be lost in only a year or two without resorting to drastic measures.

    When I did the math on how I went from 160-240 in a 5 years i was frightened at how much I was actually eating lol I wish it was 2lbs a year haha
  • lthames0810
    lthames0810 Posts: 722 Member
    fascha wrote: »
    If all we are talking about is losing the 10 lbs we gained in a year, then I agree that it will take longer than many people evidently think, but it can realistically be lost in far less than a year in a sustainable way.

    But many people here have gained far more than that over a span of decades. It creeps on at the rate of one or two pounds a year. It can be lost in only a year or two without resorting to drastic measures.

    When I did the math on how I went from 160-240 in a 5 years i was frightened at how much I was actually eating lol I wish it was 2lbs a year haha

    Well yes that is often the case. With me it was from 130 lbs at the age of 30 to 200 lbs at the age of 60. And I'm grateful that I don't need to change much in order to lose at a satisfactory rate.
  • readytobeatfat54
    readytobeatfat54 Posts: 91 Member
    fascha wrote: »
    It's a really simple mathematical formula that some people feel (for one reason or another) that they are exempt from. Couldn't agree more

    I try to educate those who feel they are exempt. I think people feel exempt due to a lack of understanding. Yes, the morbidly obese person eating 6000 calories a day will lose quickly (initially) on CICO, but that person has a situation which only applies to them. Realize the example is extreme, but people often focus on rarities and extremes and think that they too can attain that--when in no way will it apply to them.
  • Leah_62803
    Leah_62803 Posts: 292 Member
    I don't know if it's because I'm older or fatter or have been fat for longer....but I think I'm finally ok with the fact that it will take awhile to lose this weight. I'm also finally ok with setting a higher goal.

    All my failed attempts were trying to get down to 120 lbs as fast as I could from 165-170. It seemed so far away. I'd lose 5-10 lbs and then crash and burn and gain everything back. A few years ago I was put on a medication that "helped" me balloon up to 195. I was in denial for a long time that I was that big. I stayed around that weight for a couple years and even another pregnancy. One day a few months ago I decided to make little changes, nothing big at all. I lost 10 lbs in about 4 months. A few years ago that would have been way too long to wait for 10 measly lbs. Now suddenly I'm feeling like that's just fine.
    I guess I've sort of been trying to lose weight as fast as I can for the last 10 years...not very fast!
  • Libby283
    Libby283 Posts: 288 Member
    I gained 22 lbs since Christmas. I want those 22 lbs gone in the same amount of time.
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    fascha wrote: »
    It's a really simple mathematical formula that some people feel (for one reason or another) that they are exempt from. Couldn't agree more

    I try to educate those who feel they are exempt. I think people feel exempt due to a lack of understanding. Yes, the morbidly obese person eating 6000 calories a day will lose quickly (initially) on CICO CALORIE COUNTING, but that person has a situation which only applies to them. Realize the example is extreme, but people often focus on rarities and extremes and think that they too can attain that--when in no way will it apply to them.

    You don't gain, lose etc. on CICO. It is not a way of eating.

    Pet peeve and all that.
  • WinoGelato
    WinoGelato Posts: 13,454 Member
    Libby283 wrote: »
    I gained 22 lbs since Christmas. I want those 22 lbs gone in the same amount of time.

    Not a reasonable goal, and in order to achieve it, you risk loss of lean body mass and other adverse effects. You want the weight gone, but do you want sagging skin? Hair loss? Brittle nails?

    0.5 lb/week is a reasonable goal. In the meantime you can begin strength training and reap additional fitness benefits that will also provide improvement in body composition.
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