what embarrassing moment made you want to lose weight?

Nothing i im unable to become a father if i dont loose wait an want nothing more then to become a father

I didy notice I gained weight but it seemed like it was just a bit and then I saw a picture of me from behind and was shocked because apparently I have gained a lot of weight.

I had to do team building in my final year of high school and one of the tasks was finding a way to get your whole team across this so called 'toxic lake' but you only had one pair of boots. People in my team didn't say it but I knew by small hints that I was too heavy to be carried and ended up having to carry another one of the girls. To this day I don't like being picked up because I think I'm too heavy despite my boyfriend lifting me for 2 seconds and tell me I'm not heavy.

I saw photos of myself from my prom and I had never realised how big I used to be until I look back at them today

I love all of you for sharing.

I've had a few...not even trying to get on amusement park rides for fear of finding out I won't fit. Being profoundly uncomfortable trying not to be the person infringing on someone else's space on planes and public transportation. Avoiding tie shoes because of the struggle to tie them.

But the big one is getting asthma. Granted, it's caused by my allergies, but it gets exasperated by my weight big time.

Planned a trip to Cancun with some friends, and the travel agent making the plane reservation asked if I would need a seat belt extender. I have never on my life ever wanted to throat punch someone so bad, but I didn't know if I wanted to punch myself or her. I just knew it was time for a change, AGAIN. Lost 83 pounds 9 years ago and have since found 70 of it hanging around behind me.

Since 2yr my friends gave me 5 new names as I'm fat....so I want to lose my weight as fast as...

Getting winded when I would walk up ONE flight of stairs or get winded when I would hurry across the street when people would stop to let me cross. Plus I was just uncomfortable all the time, always tired, and it sucked not being able to do things with my friends.

My husband and I were at a block party, it was getting late and the crowd was getting younger and a little rowdy. A group of younger individuals came up behind us and a woman smacked my butt and said "nice mommy *kitten*". I was horrified but I can look back at it and laugh. Who in their right mind does that to a stranger???

Since my teens, I'd been the fattest/biggest in most groups of girls/women, so I was really used to it (was usually the tallest too). I had also always been pretty active and able to keep up with everyone, walked faster, exercised a lot, could lift heavy things, etc.

It wasn't until a business trip when I was 31 and at my heaviest, that I realized I couldn't actually keep up as well with my companion (average weight female boss a few years older than I was). I was really winded on stairs and had pain in my shins and ankles were swelling from normal daily activities. I was disgusted and realized it was time to change.

Had the pregnant moment, with full belly touching, and didn't stop me. Although in hindsight, it hurt that my mum, trying to defend me, played it off as my IBS playing up and bloating me. I mean we both knew I was fat, but she didn't want anyone to make me feel bad about it. And a little while ago, after I lost the bulk of the weight my dad was talking to an old family friend about me, basically saying 'omg she was such a heifer', gee thanks, Dad, nice to know you felt that way (as he never said anything to my face).

The actual moment came when I got on the scale at my doctor's office for something else and seeing the scale go to almost 16st. I was a scale dodger because mine was so inaccurate, as far as I was concerned I was still 14st! But yeah, I was trying to get my health in order for other reasons and I was literally a timebomb myself. 10st 9lbs now and no longer a danger zone.

Last July went to docs for annual. I didn't look at my weight as was ashamed. During our visit, she blurted out my weight which I swore I heard her say 211! I've never ever been in the 200s. My heart sank, I felt ashamed and effing miserable. She also said my cholesterol was high, so was my blood sugars, pre diabetic it could go either way. Funny as how I didn't care about that, just the # she said. I'm 5'4 btw. About a month later after starting my new lifestyle I called the docs and asked what my weight was at my visit. Nurse said 191. So it wasn't 211, but still a fat *kitten* at 191. I now weigh 149, been struggling to get between 140-145. Can't wait to see my 1 year anniversary results, July 1, 2017 even though I know this is a forever effort.

Ah...... I remember it like it was yesterday!! I was kicked off a ride at Six Flags Fiesta Texas!! The Damn Safety harness wouldn't latch!!! Talk about a walk of shame!!