Is getting a lap dance considered cheating?
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It's not cheating technically but I have had problems with this and I am not okay with it. It is just my two cents. You should discuss with him and set rules.1
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MrStabbems wrote: »ahhh but what about emotional cheating? what if he confides in this stripper his inner most thoughts and feelings but not you?
Is there a lot of deep conversations being had in the champagne room?
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StarvingDiva wrote: »MrStabbems wrote: »ahhh but what about emotional cheating? what if he confides in this stripper his inner most thoughts and feelings but not you?
Is there a lot of deep conversations being had in the champagne room?
@israttt111 answered this yesterday.0 -
_har_T_Swallow wrote: »badgyaljilly wrote: »Ms_Sicilian wrote: »Op this thread is gonna get shut down to, main thing is it doesn't matter what we think! We all would handle the situation differently. If YOU think it's cheating then dump him! There's nothing stopping you, just silly to seek out what others think. Because if you want MY opinion, no it's not cheating it's a guy going to a strip club, i go to them to so idc. I feel women who get angry about men going to stripclubs ether have major insecurities and do not trust there man, or it's religious. Ether way you look at it you're hoping people agree with you by making this thread... let's just rip off the bandaid right now. 1. If you don't trust him 2. If you hate how he goes to the girls joints 3. And anything else you have held over his head...DUMP HIM not science to figure out if you're not happy in a relationship or trying to change the other humans personality for your emotional benefit is just wrong....
Lol girl he already told me he went and got a dance. He asked me if I think its cheating and it got me thinking
i thought he was denying it all and wouldn't admit he'd actually gotten one? wasn't that the problem yesterday?
Ye he finally told me after I begged him that he went by himself got one dance and left.0 -
badgyaljilly wrote: »Ms_Sicilian wrote: »Op this thread is gonna get shut down to, main thing is it doesn't matter what we think! We all would handle the situation differently. If YOU think it's cheating then dump him! There's nothing stopping you, just silly to seek out what others think. Because if you want MY opinion, no it's not cheating it's a guy going to a strip club, i go to them to so idc. I feel women who get angry about men going to stripclubs ether have major insecurities and do not trust there man, or it's religious. Ether way you look at it you're hoping people agree with you by making this thread... let's just rip off the bandaid right now. 1. If you don't trust him 2. If you hate how he goes to the girls joints 3. And anything else you have held over his head...DUMP HIM not science to figure out if you're not happy in a relationship or trying to change the other humans personality for your emotional benefit is just wrong....
Lol girl he already told me he went and got a dance. He asked me if I think its cheating and it got me thinking
He finally admitted it? After 2 years?
Ye I was actually relieved he finally told me, I was more pissed he hid it from me then actually lied about going0 -
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Lol girl he already told me he went and got a dance. He asked me if I think its cheating and it got me thinking [/quote]
Good! Now that he told you, you should already know your limits, therefore not need our opinions on the matter and make a healthy adult decision on what you do with this convo not blurt it out on the internet0 -
SpotLighttt wrote: »StarvingDiva wrote: »MrStabbems wrote: »ahhh but what about emotional cheating? what if he confides in this stripper his inner most thoughts and feelings but not you?
Is there a lot of deep conversations being had in the champagne room?
@israttt111 can answer this.
I should talk to this @israttt111 and compare notes......
jesus christ - 15 of you.
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Wait, it was two years ago? Who cares now? What, are you guys keeping score or something?3
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Please break up with this guy...for his sake.10
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Ms_Sicilian wrote: »
Lol girl he already told me he went and got a dance. He asked me if I think its cheating and it got me thinking [/quote]
Good! Now that he told you, you should already know your limits, therefore not need our opinions on the matter and make a healthy adult decision on what you do with this convo not blurt it out on the internet[/quote]
Nahhhh I can post whatever I want1 -
Ms_Sicilian wrote: »
Lol girl he already told me he went and got a dance. He asked me if I think its cheating and it got me thinking
Good! Now that he told you, you should already know your limits, therefore not need our opinions on the matter and make a healthy adult decision on what you do with this convo not blurt it out on the internet[/quote]
You mean make a logical decision all by herself? Nah! Internet strangers really should dictate the future of her relationship. [/quote]
Lol!!! Ok I make the first decision! Dump his *kitten* and I will take him to the strip club for F's sakes7 -
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i think the topic was pretty well covered in the other thread, from all angles. it has been beaten like a dude's lap at a strip club. the real issue isn't strippers or lap dances.2
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You btches are rude af I asked an opinion and y'all are attacking me wtf0
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its evident we are being trolled but who cares.
Helps pass the time during a dry period at work!1 -
BedsideTableKangaroo wrote: »i think the topic was pretty well covered in the other thread, from all angles. it has been beaten like a dude's lap at a strip club. the real issue isn't stippers or lap dances.
This.0 -
Damn you fat ppl on here are RUDE6
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There isn't a right or wrong answer. It's personal opinion. It's been said in this thread that you shouldn't try to change him , but that works both ways- equally, he shouldn't try to change you .
If you think it's cheating, that is just as valid as any other woman saying it isn't.
For myself, I recognise that some women are fine with it; however, none of those women is married to my husband and it's my opinions on the matter that are relevant within our relationship, not the opinion of anyone else. What my cousin's best friend's workmate thinks is irrelevant!2 -
gamerbabe14 wrote: »Please break up with this guy...for his sake.
Savage lol3 -
SpotLighttt wrote: »its evident we are being trolled but who cares.
Helps pass the time during a dry period at work!
I was always taught NOT to feed the trolls
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badgyaljilly wrote: »Damn you fat ppl on here are RUDE
i had to quote and spell it out so you'd know who clicked "awesome"0 -
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HeliumIsNoble wrote: »There isn't a right or wrong answer. It's personal opinion. It's been said in this thread that you shouldn't try to change him , but that works both ways- equally, he shouldn't try to change you .
If you think it's cheating, that is just as valid as any other woman saying it isn't.
For myself, I recognise that some women are fine with it; however, none of those women is married to my husband and it's my opinions on the matter that are relevant within our relationship, not the opinion of anyone else. What my cousin's best friend's workmate thinks is irrelevant!
well said - to each their own0 -
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badgyaljilly wrote: »When your man/girlfriend gets a lap dance from a stripper do you think that is considered cheating?
(my old thread got deleted)
Not cheating unless he lies about it. However, in my marriage, if I want a lap dance, my wife will be happy to give me one, and does, quite frequently.
Try giving your man a lap dance.2 -
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if your s/o violated the boundaries of your relationship what you call it doesn't matter. Dip1
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Enough with this, jesus. It's your boyfriend, it's your relationship. If it bothers you, then it's something you need to work out with your BF. If it doesn't then you don't.
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