Motivation to gain

Hey all! I'm back on mfp after few months away, trying to gain back some of my lost weight. Currently at 160lb. I'm pretty active and I need to hit about 3300 calories to go up at all. The motivation to eat enough is not always there. I would love to add some people with similar goals. Most people here seem to be trying to loose and I feel bad when I'm sharing a diary with them that's hitting high numbers calories and they're trying the opposite. I'm from CA by the way.