Why is he acting like I abandoned him ?
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Girl_With_Muscles_ wrote: »Hey.. this post reminds me of a few other posts from a woman who had so many doctor friends.. Is Jared a doctor perhaps?
No. Jared is a whiny b****
But you are right, it reminded me of another post. I never found out if she had sexy time with her friend.
Maybe this happens alot among single people1 -
Girl_With_Muscles_ wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »Girl_With_Muscles_ wrote: »Hey.. this post reminds me of a few other posts from a woman who had so many doctor friends.. Is Jared a doctor perhaps?
No. Jared is a whiny b****
But you are right, it reminded me of another post. I never found out if she had sexy time with her friend.
Maybe this happens alot among single people
Could be... We need updates on the sexy time with her friend and on the shallow doctor who didn't date full figured chicks although he had a thing for them.
Yes!!!
We demand answers, dammit!0 -
Girl_With_Muscles_ wrote: »Hey.. this post reminds me of a few other posts from a woman who had so many doctor friends.. Is Jared a doctor perhaps?
No lol we both work in a warehouse0 -
Ironandwine69 wrote: »OutOfUserName wrote: »Ironandwine69 wrote: »
You should.
Should what ?
hook up lol
No thwnjs not interested
Jared has no 6 pack?
No lol0 -
Jared sounds like an insecure, needy friend to me.0
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FairhavenDS wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Kevoofthehoradrim wrote: »
That's an interesting point of view that is not at all related to how I see the "friendzone". To me, a woman who has seen this a lot in other women, friendzone is when a girl knows a guy friend is attracted and she purposefully strings him along because she enjoys the attention. There's a difference between that and a woman knowing a man is interested and having a reasonable discussion about where the relationship/friendship stands.
How do you view a man who knows the female's feelings regarding him and yet continues to exhibit the behavior the OP is describing? Most of the time in my experience, I have not seen women I know doing what you describe. I'm sure it does happen, I just haven't seen it in my circles.
If a woman has made it clear she isn't interested then a guy continuing to act jealous is childish and creepy, so severing ties as you suggested is the best move. From what the OP has said they haven't ever talked about it. The part about him asking why she didn't give the other dude her number the first time sounds protective and it could be because the new guy "wants to get with her" (I think that's teenager speak for have sex, but I'm too old for code words).
That's kind of what I was thinking. You can be protective of friends you are loyal to, but it can sometimes still be construed as childish/jealous behavior. Talking is probably the best choice to prevent misunderstandings.
Also.. is that what they call it these days? They go through so many code languages in a short time that it's hard for me to keep up.
I think they call it "Netflix and Chill". I haven't managed to figure that one out though.
Lol. Whereas Netflix and Chill literally means exactly that for old people such as myself.0 -
CanesGalactica wrote: »FairhavenDS wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »Kevoofthehoradrim wrote: »
That's an interesting point of view that is not at all related to how I see the "friendzone". To me, a woman who has seen this a lot in other women, friendzone is when a girl knows a guy friend is attracted and she purposefully strings him along because she enjoys the attention. There's a difference between that and a woman knowing a man is interested and having a reasonable discussion about where the relationship/friendship stands.
How do you view a man who knows the female's feelings regarding him and yet continues to exhibit the behavior the OP is describing? Most of the time in my experience, I have not seen women I know doing what you describe. I'm sure it does happen, I just haven't seen it in my circles.
If a woman has made it clear she isn't interested then a guy continuing to act jealous is childish and creepy, so severing ties as you suggested is the best move. From what the OP has said they haven't ever talked about it. The part about him asking why she didn't give the other dude her number the first time sounds protective and it could be because the new guy "wants to get with her" (I think that's teenager speak for have sex, but I'm too old for code words).
That's kind of what I was thinking. You can be protective of friends you are loyal to, but it can sometimes still be construed as childish/jealous behavior. Talking is probably the best choice to prevent misunderstandings.
Also.. is that what they call it these days? They go through so many code languages in a short time that it's hard for me to keep up.
I think they call it "Netflix and Chill". I haven't managed to figure that one out though.
Lol. Whereas Netflix and Chill literally means exactly that for old people such as myself.
I think it means that literally to anyone over the age of 25. Or at least it should. LOL0
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