Dessert & sweets

How often is it okay to have a dessert or sweets?

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  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    As often as you want as long as it fits your calorie/macro goals
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    I have dessert every night, 7 days a week.
  • leanitup123
    leanitup123 Posts: 489 Member
    It's never NOT okay to have dessert or sweets :)
  • Heart_of_a_lion
    Heart_of_a_lion Posts: 32 Member
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest
  • livingleanlivingclean
    livingleanlivingclean Posts: 11,751 Member
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    I eat dessert every night. Even when dieting - I sacrifice calories earlier in the day because of it. Works for me..its not before training. I'm not genetically predisposed to high insulin sensitivity.

    Dessert =/= sitting down with a bag of sugar, or using up all my calories on sugar.... (eating the majority of your calories from sugar wouldn't fit in to the guidelines of IIFYM anyway, as you'd likely not fit your protein, fats or recommended fibre in)
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    The dessert I'm having tonight has 7g of sugar, not too shabby imo. It's simply 200g Greek yogurt, with 30g protein powder and 10g PB2 mixed in. Dessert doesn't automatically have to equal a sugar bomb. I also have a Quest bar (1g sugar) instead of a candy bar.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    edited June 2017
    I like having a little something after dinner and do when it fits in my calories. Sometimes it's good cheese (a perfectly reasonable dessert, desserts are not always sweet), sometimes it's fruit or nuts, sometimes it's greek yogurt with a little nut butter, sometimes it's dark chocolate, and sometimes it's ice cream. On rare occasion it's something else (on holidays, usually pie). I tried a low carb rhubarb crisp recently, turned out pretty well. Calorie count might be very low, might be higher if it's a special occasion or I have the calories.

    And no, sugar isn't stored as fat if you are in a deficit.

    Also, eating dessert doesn't mean you eat lots of sugar over the course of the day.
  • GottaBurnEmAll
    GottaBurnEmAll Posts: 7,722 Member
    edited June 2017
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    No.

    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10500016/low-calorie-protein-cheesecake#latest

    Read this thread. It will change your life.

    Even at that, I still eat regular cookies and things like caramel corn on occasion. The protein cheesecake? I have that every day.

    Also? Your whole ish about genetic insulin sensitivity and eating sugar in a deficit and having it be stored as fat is so off the mark.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    The whole POINT of allowing yourself dessert/sugar is so you DON'T east 2,000 calories worth of it. When you restrict yourself of what your body naturally craves, your're just setting yourself up for disaster. Speaking from experience.

    Friend of mine lost a lot of weight recently. When telling us about it, he said that when people ask how he did it he says he ate junk food, which isn't really a joke, since he intentionally decided to work in a little something he considers a treat every day (sugary granola bar, cookie, whatever), because it makes it easier for him to stick to plan.
  • debtay123
    debtay123 Posts: 1,327 Member
    yeah- I usually work in what I consider to be a dessert every night- I like night time eating so I save some of my calories for something I can enjoy- maybe halo top or Edy's ice cream or even regular ice cream or a few cookies or kettle corn popcorn etc- I HAVE t enjoy myself or I will STOP and I am NOT stopping
  • sardelsa
    sardelsa Posts: 9,812 Member
    I eat some form of dessert every night. Sometimes it's Greek yogurt with Oreo thins, or a mini Drumstick or if it's the weekend a fancy high calorie cake. I budget it and fit it in my calories. I am losing weight and reaching my physique goals just fine.
  • cerise_noir
    cerise_noir Posts: 5,468 Member
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    You're wrong.

    Excess calories gets turned into fat.
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    edited June 2017
    How often is it okay to have a dessert or sweets?

    As often as you need. I need something sweet for dessert every day. I'll even exercise more to have the calories to get it.

    I don't fake sweet, either. I use real pies, cakes, cookies, candies and ice cream for it. Of course, the only way I can lose weight is to eat very little of my sweets.

    However, for much of last year my "dessert sweet" was 40 grams of prunes.
  • Dnarules
    Dnarules Posts: 2,081 Member
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    2000 calories of sugar would not fit most macros. It helps to actually understand IIFYM.
  • pennygm72
    pennygm72 Posts: 179 Member
    I eat over my sugar allowance several times a week, advised to do so by a dietician as eating very low fat while waiting for gallbladder removal and consuming sufficient calories is difficult. I've lost 46lbs since January this year so doesn't appear to have hampered my weight loss at all...and I'll eat a dessert every night whether it be yogurt, sorbet or fruit, on a Friday its three glasses of red wine...
  • CaliMomTeach
    CaliMomTeach Posts: 745 Member
    Since when is yogurt and cheese "dessert"? I just read this whole thread thinking we all have very different definitions of dessert, lol.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    You obviously don't understand the concept of IIFYM....
  • dragon_girl26
    dragon_girl26 Posts: 2,187 Member
    edited June 2017
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    Who in here is telling OP to only eat 2000 calories worth of sugar (other than you)? The only responses I have seen indicate that it's okay to have a healthy relationship with it and it can be incorporated into an otherwise healthy diet. Why does it always have to be a binary 'you only eat all your calories in sugar! ' or 'you can have no sugar at all!' ? Is the concept of moderation really not an option in your mind?
    Also, I'm 80 lbs down, and ate plenty of sugary treats along the way. I also ate other wholesome foods, and watched my calorie intake. No one is lying here. You really can lose weight and eat sweets, too, even daily if you wish!
  • pdxwine
    pdxwine Posts: 389 Member
    edited June 2017
    I will respectfully disagree with you. I have a mini candy bar with my lunch and some type of dessert item with dinner every day. I have lost 104 pounds.
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

  • leanitup123
    leanitup123 Posts: 489 Member
    Dnarules wrote: »
    Ok listen, I'm not going to lie to you like everyone else. You CANNOT be eating sweets and desert often if your goal is weight loss...EVEN IF IT FITS YOUR MACROS. I don't mean to sound mean or anything but lots of sugar will eventually be stored as fat. People that eat a lot of sugar and stay lean and 1. Genetically predisposed to having very high insulin sensitivity 2. Eat it right before their workouts.

    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I'm tired of hearing this whole.. "if it fits your macros" crap. Try eating 2000 calories worth of sugar (if it fits your macros) and let me know what how you feel afterwards.

    Once in a while.. cool.. often: NO.

    Just being honest

    2000 calories of sugar would not fit most macros. It helps to actually understand IIFYM.

    TRU. Unless your macros are 500g carbs and no fat or protein :D
  • bbell1985
    bbell1985 Posts: 4,571 Member
    I eat it every night. But I find Fage with cocoa powder and stevia to be a dessert or a treat. I personally couldn't be eating a brownie every night for the same calories. At least the fage fills me up. I'll eat a pint of halo top or arctic zero on the reg as well.
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
    I have maintained my weight loss for three years more or less. (There have been a couple of stressful deaths in that time that caused me to gain 5-10lbs that I had to get back off.)
    I just ate 2 pieces of dark chocolate and I will have a protein shake before I go to sleep to meet that macro, but you can eat desseet/sweets if you plan for it.
  • texteach66
    texteach66 Posts: 92 Member
    I've lost 95 pounds and I treat myself regularly to sweets (mostly dark chocolate). We all have to figure out what works for us.