Day One: Daunting

fuxxxake
fuxxxake Posts: 7 Member
edited November 19 in Getting Started
Ello all!

Well, today is my day one. I've enrolled at the local gym and am tempted to join up at a local Slimming World group, but am not sure about that yet, anyone here go to one?

I'm partly eager to get started and partly daunted by the task ahead. I know it's a long journey ahead, I'm not looking for any fast fixes or "miracle diets", but looking down at myself I can see all the changes that need to take place, and it scares me a little.

Did anyone else feel like this at the start?

Also, please any newbies or oldies who want an extra fitness buddy please add me. I need all the encouragement I can get and can offer plenty in return.

Have a great day!

Paul.

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  • kommodevaran
    kommodevaran Posts: 17,890 Member
    I wasn't really scared, because I had lost weight before, and I was fed up with looking the way I did and living the way I did.

    Create a good plan and you'll be eager to stick with it.

    Oh, and welcome to MFP :D
  • tinkerbellang83
    tinkerbellang83 Posts: 9,140 Member
    Welcome back!
  • notreallychris
    notreallychris Posts: 501 Member
    Welcome! It's good that you aren't searching for a quick fix. Make your changes a habit, and pick something you enjoy doing. You're more likely to stick to your lifestyle change that way. Feel free to add me if you'd like!
  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,743 Member
    Planning ahead and looking at your end goal is important in order to develop a plan, but after that, break it up into mini-goals and just work towards that. Once you hit that first goal, celebrate! Then, on to the next goal. The more small goals you achieve the higher your confidence will be and you'll build on that success.
  • everher
    everher Posts: 909 Member
    Take it a day at a time and a pound at a time and it will be far less daunting.

    I remember when I started out I had so far to go it was overwhelming. I had to put that aside because it was going to discourage me.

    It's much easier to set mini goals for yourself like logging all your food or staying within your calories or getting some exercise and accomplish those than focusing on the big picture as a whole.
  • sosteach
    sosteach Posts: 260 Member
    I was more sick and tired than scared. I figured I had nothing to lose but some weight. 35 down 65 to go! My best advice would be to set behavior goals not just scale number goals. Like I will go to the gym 3 times a week or I will log all of my food every day. You have much more control over your behavior than what the scale measures.
  • Lynnara
    Lynnara Posts: 152 Member
    Baby steps. You didn't gain if all in a day, so don't rush trying to lose it quick either. You'll do better in the long run by raking it off slower.
  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
    I have found that if I think of this as a new lifestyle rather than a diet it makes more sense to me. I new that if I did nothing it was only going to get harder to conquer. Once you make some positive changes and see the results your success will feed on itself. Get started and be patient, you got this!
  • NadNight
    NadNight Posts: 794 Member
    I know the feeling! Once you've been going for a few weeks and have dropped a couple of pounds you can see that the small changes and commitments do pay off (and you can have the occasional takeaway without it scuppering your efforts!). At the start it felt like almost dreamlike, like something I'd been wanting to do, saying I'd do, for years and all I really saw was the finish line but now I'm a few months in I'm appreciating the day to day and can now look back on how far I've come and that's way more motivating and empowering than a daunting goal.
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Good for you! This is a great thread to read through if you're just getting started...

    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/1080242/a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants/p1
  • fuxxxake
    fuxxxake Posts: 7 Member
    Thanks for all the advice and info, it's honestly helped massively. I've decided to split the amount I want to lose into 1/4's and count each quarter as a mini goal. I'm also going to do weekly goals such as go to the gym 3 times or 4 times, just to keep goals close by and not waaaay off in the distance
  • wizzybeth
    wizzybeth Posts: 3,578 Member
    What are you afraid of?

    Just put one foot in front of the other, ever moment, every hour, every day. If you slip up, that's OK, don't stop and wallow in self pity or self loathing; just dust yourself off and continue on the journey.

    Everyone has good days and bad days. Yesterday was an "off plan" day for me but today I will be back on plan. I had too much alcohol and too much food last night and woke up this morning to a .4 gain on the scale - partly because I didn't drink enough water, I know I didn't eat enough over maintenance to gain that much, ha ha...I had some salty food yesterday and a lot more alcohol than I am used to drinking, so it's showing up in excess water weight on the scale. I didn't get my 10,000 steps in yesterday either. That's okay, that's yesterday, it's over and done, and today is a new day. Onward!
  • Lovephoenix365
    Lovephoenix365 Posts: 3 Member
    edited July 2017
    The beginning of a new journey is always scary. You are leaving your comfort zone and venturing into the unknown. Wishing you all the best on your journey :)
  • Geocitiesuser
    Geocitiesuser Posts: 1,429 Member
    Once you get going it's not so bad :) It's always simple, just rarely easy.
  • cheryldumais
    cheryldumais Posts: 1,907 Member
    fuxxxake wrote: »
    Thanks for all the advice and info, it's honestly helped massively. I've decided to split the amount I want to lose into 1/4's and count each quarter as a mini goal. I'm also going to do weekly goals such as go to the gym 3 times or 4 times, just to keep goals close by and not waaaay off in the distance
    Great idea. I had to set mini goals as I had so much to lose and I am now only 10 pounds away from my final goal. Be sure to reward yourself with new clothes as you go so that you can actually see your progress. So many people try to wait and they get discouraged because no one notices how much they have lost. It's worth every single step you have to take to change your lifestyle. Good luck!

  • DebLaBounty
    DebLaBounty Posts: 1,169 Member
    I just installed the app Happy Scale on my phone. I input my weight every so often and it tracks the changes. It also gives me "milestones" so I can celebrate achieving small goals as I go. Each milestone happens at around 5 pounds. The best part is that while your weight fluctuates, it shows by graph that there's a downward trend so I don't freak out anymore when my weight goes up a pound or two along the way. Good luck!
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