Comfort eating

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  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    leasy1 wrote: »
    snickerscharlie wrote: »
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    leasy1 wrote: »
    goldthistime wrote: »
    Come here! There's always something educating or at least entertaining going on. Phone a friend works even better, but if no one's around, we are.

    My phone is like my best friend, I moved 2 hours away from my family to be with my partner so I do chat with them but not for long, they have thier own lives to get on with.
    I have been on here and joined in with a few silly things but people seem to be quiet cliquey I felt like I was intruding, like the new kid at school.

    How about volunteer work?

    Also see if there is anything that interests you on MeetUp.com.

    I was thinking volunteer work as well, but that might be problematic with a toddler in tow. :)

    It is difficult, I would work and meet people but with my partners working hours it is difficult, I would love to go to work, I have worked since 13 I am now 38.
    MeetUp.com? I have never heard of that, I live in the UK, is it an American site? Sorry if I sound really ignorant.

    I'm in the US, but try meetup.com and see if it is available in the UK as well.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    Speaking of the UK, I have just discovered the British Baking Show and am loving it! Take up baking, and give most of it away at charity events. You'll make friends fast ;)
  • leasy1
    leasy1 Posts: 172 Member
    Jeez I haven't baked since I was pregnant with my 1st, 24 years ago, I put on 6 stone (84lb) but that's a good idea. I really would make a lot of friends and I would be busy, excellent plan :)
  • evonatron
    evonatron Posts: 3 Member
    What about getting out of the house for a few hours? My sister has a 17 month old as well and they get up and if it is dry they walk to the nearest shops/park etc and she spends a few hours out of the house to break up the day.
  • leasy1
    leasy1 Posts: 172 Member
    evonatron wrote: »
    What about getting out of the house for a few hours? My sister has a 17 month old as well and they get up and if it is dry they walk to the nearest shops/park etc and she spends a few hours out of the house to break up the day.

    I used to walk everywhere before I moved, I just uses the car for work but here I don't know seems different, there isn't anywhere really to walk to. It's all streets and roads I'm used to greenery, fields and open spaces. I just don't like it here to be honest and it puts me off, I know that's so stupid.
  • snickerscharlie
    snickerscharlie Posts: 8,578 Member
    leasy1 wrote: »
    evonatron wrote: »
    What about getting out of the house for a few hours? My sister has a 17 month old as well and they get up and if it is dry they walk to the nearest shops/park etc and she spends a few hours out of the house to break up the day.

    I used to walk everywhere before I moved, I just uses the car for work but here I don't know seems different, there isn't anywhere really to walk to. It's all streets and roads I'm used to greenery, fields and open spaces. I just don't like it here to be honest and it puts me off, I know that's so stupid.

    It's not stupid at all. You're out of your comfort zone, and from the sounds of it you spend a lot of time alone with your toddler while your partner works.

    Make a plan to just try one new thing a week. Like walking to a certain park. Maybe there'll be no one there that you click with and can start up a conversation with that particular day, but you won't know until you go.

    You just have to make the decision to put yourself in situations where the friendships and related activities can occur. ;)
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