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magrizzle2005
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Hi I'm me!
I've tried every possible diet going before falling off the wagon and stuffing my fat face with more ice cream then would seem humanly possible.
I'm a very jovial person but also a very sad person, I'm fat! I'm overweight! I'm obese! I'm a pig! No matter what you call it, it is what it is. I am also human, and I'm sad. I'm sad that I got myself into this state, I'm sad that I can only blame myself. I'm also tired, tired of being overweight and tired of the pain, oh how it hurts just to climb the stairs. I'm tired of being ashamed of how I look and I'm tired of not doing things with my kids because of how I look and feel.
Really looking for help here, realistic help, we're a busy working family on a budget.
If you haven't got bored and are still reading thank you x
I've tried every possible diet going before falling off the wagon and stuffing my fat face with more ice cream then would seem humanly possible.
I'm a very jovial person but also a very sad person, I'm fat! I'm overweight! I'm obese! I'm a pig! No matter what you call it, it is what it is. I am also human, and I'm sad. I'm sad that I got myself into this state, I'm sad that I can only blame myself. I'm also tired, tired of being overweight and tired of the pain, oh how it hurts just to climb the stairs. I'm tired of being ashamed of how I look and I'm tired of not doing things with my kids because of how I look and feel.
Really looking for help here, realistic help, we're a busy working family on a budget.
If you haven't got bored and are still reading thank you x
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Well, don't beat yourself up. Blame evolution.
I wish you the very best. All I can suggest is talking with doctors and other professionals. Keep saying to them and yourself exactly what you just wrote. Not the blame part but that you're tired of being overweight, tired of the pain, and tired of not doing things you want.
MFP is a fine tool, but it doesn't replace a good doctor, dietician, and/or psychologist.
Best of luck!1 -
In the most basic way, the only thing required for you to lose weight is to eat less than you burn every day. You don't need to change your way of eating (unless you want to), you don't have to do exercise (especially if it hurts right now); all you have to do to start seeing some weight loss is to eat less by a small amount.
You can start just by logging your food into MFP. You didn't mention your stats, but the target rate of weight loss is dependent on how much weight you have to lose (so people with more to lose can lose it more quickly). Everyone starts off wanting to lose 2 pounds per week, the max allowed by MFP, but that's not always possible or the best idea. For a lot of people, it's better to start more slowly so that they're not trying to make a drastic change right off the bat, while they're still learning how to log.
If you tell MFP that you want to lose 1 pound per week, how many calories does that give you? If it's too few, try entering 0.5 pounds and see what that looks like. I would start just by sticking to my given calorie target for 4 weeks. Don't change anything else, just eat what you normally would up to that calorie target.
After those 4 weeks, you can reevaluate and see how that feels. A HUGE part of weight loss is finding things that you can stick to for a long time, because it always takes longer than we think it will. Weight loss isn't about how much you can lose in one or two weeks -- it's about how long you can stick to it.
Have you found the Success Stories forum yet? I would recommend spending a little bit of time there and reading other people's stories. A lot of MFP users started off exactly where you are (or in worse mental/physical shape), and it might be fun for you to see how they made it through.3 -
Thank you for your reply! I'm 5'0 and currently weighing 15st3lb. I've set to 1.5lb a week and it's given me 1600 cals. I've never tried calorie counting before usually attending groups then when I can't eat with my family I give up as it proves time consuming and expensive cooking separate meals. I really do appreciate you taking the time to advise I'm feeling very lost at the moment (friends think it's so easy to lose weight) x0
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magrizzle2005 wrote: »Thank you for your reply! I'm 5'0 and currently weighing 15st3lb. I've set to 1.5lb a week and it's given me 1600 cals. I've never tried calorie counting before usually attending groups then when I can't eat with my family I give up as it proves time consuming and expensive cooking separate meals. I really do appreciate you taking the time to advise I'm feeling very lost at the moment (friends think it's so easy to lose weight) x
You've been given good advice already. I'll add some more.
Invest in a food scale if you don't have one. They're fairly cheap and it's invaluable when it comes to accurately logging food and portions. You want to weigh solids on your food scale in grams. Liquids you want to measure in a measuring cup or using tablespoons/teaspoons. It sounds harder and more time consuming than it is. It takes seconds and that way you can accurately log how much you are eating.
If you find sticking to 1600 cals is too hard just lower your goal to a pound a week. I started out with one goal, found it too hard to stick to, and lowered my goal to have more calories.
I wouldn't radically change anything. Just make small changes as necessary. For example, cooking with less oil, switching to diet soda, etc. You might have to play around to see what leaves you satisfied. Some people do more meals, some do fewer, some snack, some don't, etc.1 -
Welcome to you from a sister fat pig! The biggest eye opener and life changer for me with regard to food, was accountability and portion reality. You don't have to cook a separate meal for yourself, you just have to measure (weigh) your portions and log your calories. Try just doing that for a few days with what you normally eat on a daily basis (without trying to adhere to a calorie limit) and give yourself a reality check about how many calories you are consuming. Log your calories into MyFitnessPal and when you submit your daily totals, you will get a message that shows you what your weight will be in five weeks if you eat like that every day.
That's your reality check. Then, try reducing the size of your portions (weigh and measure) and continue logging. Again, you can eat whatever you want, ice cream (my personal favorite), cake, pie, chips, whatever you want, but you have to log every mouthful. You will find that being truthful with yourself is powerful and will change the way you think about food. From there, you will start to choose less calorie dense foods that will keep you fuller with fewer calories or you may even decide to pass up that second scoop of ice cream and be happy with one. It's a mind set. You have to decide that you no longer want to be a slave to food and the rest will follow. Good luck on your journey! P.S. I'll send you a friend request. This is a place of support and friendship with fellow fatties on their own journeys. The support is invaluable.2
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