How Did you go from Gym Avoider to Gym Regular
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myrightweight
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If you used to avoid going to the gym but now love to go to the gym and go regularly, please share your secret!
I am tired of not getting my money's worth out of my gym membership and really want to use it and enjoy it!
I am tired of not getting my money's worth out of my gym membership and really want to use it and enjoy it!
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At first I just went and walked on the treadmill. It was the only thing I really knew how to do and it was also my escape time from my kids.
Eventually I did a few things on the machines (only after watching others do them).
Then I found a program on Bodybuilding.com that was short and simple. They had videos for everything. I took that in and actually used the dumbbells.
I enjoyed my "me time" and I liked how the exercise made me feel, so I kept going. The trick is simply to explore things and find something you love. If you really like what you are doing you'll want to keep doing it.4 -
Might not help you at this moment since you already have a membership... But my process was to start with the great outdoors and a few basic weights at home as my "gym". No travel time, no open/close hours to work around, and no waiting around to use equipment someone else is using. Once I found exercises I enjoyed (running/cycling/strength/yoga) and established a healthy baseline for time to dedicate daily toward my fitness goals, I then went to find a gym to complement my routine - decided on the YMCA because they had an indoor track for running/walking on the really hot or cold days, had yoga and cycling classes, as well as a pool for when I need a recovery day for my muscles. The open hours and locations fit within my established routine so it was easy to justify a slight tweak to go to the Y on a regular basis.
As for your situation, life is too short to do something you don't enjoy. If you don't feel motivated to go to the gym presently, maybe you need to take some time to find a fitness activity you do enjoy. Talk to a personal trainer at the gym to see if they can help you brainstorm. If you MUST go to the gym, find an accountability buddy - someone who will either join you at the gym or somehow hold you accountable to go.
Otherwise, go out and see what else is an option - as an example, my husband recently discovered rock climbing at a local gym/warehouse and now he's super motivated to do that when before, he was not very active at all. Go do kickboxing, yoga, barre, tai chi, find a walking group or running group, swim at the local lake, take your bike for a spin - try a million things until you find that one activity that you truly enjoy. Then see if you can incorporate it at your gym. If not, cancel the membership and move on now that you found what motivates you.
My two cents :-)5 -
Go into the gym on your first day, find the biggest looking dude in there, walk up to him and punch him in the face. You've just made yourself the new leader there. Your people need you, you have to be there every day. Don't let them down.22
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I just made a goal to go every single day. I felt that making it a persistent part of my day would make it easiest to continue. That was 7 years ago and I've averaged probably 355/365 days a year ever since.3
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Hire a reputable personal trainer for the first few months to motivate and to teach you how to exercise. The investment will pay off in the long run.
Exercise is a science. Understanding how to exercise, what muscles to use, will give you confidence. Relying on fad workouts and quick fix plans will not motivate you to change your life.
I recommend trying out the trainer once or twice before committing yourself. The trainer should have an understanding of your fitness level, your age, and your physical limitations. The trainer should have a good educational background, including a reputable certification. The trainer should be a model of good fitness. And the trainer should be positive.
Find a gym that is convenient, and that is positive in atmosphere. You must feel good about the space.
Ciao!
Your friendly personal trainer5 -
The gym business depends on people who don't show up.
I became a gym regular by going back again, again and again.
Secrets? I had a home workout backup. There were some days when I just couldn't get to the gym. But my workout habit stayed in place. Workout time was workout time 6 days per week.
My six days included weekends. Getting to the gym on weekends was easy.
Want to watch the game? The gym is a great place to watch sports.5 -
I put workout classes (yoga, Zumba, BodyPump) on my calendar and treated them as appointments I had to keep. Usually go three times a week, sometimes four. Then it became a habit. My gym is $25 a month and I get my money's worth.2
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I'd say hire a trainer to help you learn the ropes or carry a gym rat friend with you to work out with you for a little while.
Then what I usually do is just still ear buds in my ear and ignore the world.
Happy training2 -
Honestly? By regularly reading fitness magazines. The constant input of both ideas and motivation, as well as the subtle body shaming and unrealistic expectations, helps keep my mind on the gym and remind me what I'm working toward.6
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I found things I enjoy doing at the gym and accepted that there are things I don't enjoy, so I don't do them no matter what someone else tells me I "should" do. I go 5 - 6 times a week now.2
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Want to watch the game? The gym is a great place to watch sports.
Hah, I'm glad I'm not the only one that does this. I didn't have cable and my gym was not even a block away, so it was where I went to watch Packer games. Best part is the gym was always empty.
OP, another thing I did for myself to get over the gym anxiety I had was to set a time to go to the gym and treat it like work or an appointment. I wouldn't randomly skip out on a day of work, so why should the gym be any different? It really helped getting into a routine.
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What is your reason for not going? Are you anxious about going? Are you not sure what to do when you get there? Do you not like it when you go? Just don't feel like going? All of these have different resolutions. But it really depends on what is keeping you from going now.1
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You build momentum, and start to show progress which builds more momentum... Soon you just can't stop!
The only difference really between who I was and what I've become is momentum!1 -
I cannot say I was ever an avoider.
But when I first started going to the gym, I went for the hot tub and steam room and sauna.
The gym we went to, which was very typical for the day, had chrome dumbbells and weight machines and, maybe, two benches for bench pressing.
We'd spend five minutes in the weight room and then head to the back for the tanning lamps.
But, you know what? We gradually learned that it felt better in the back if you had worked up a sweat in the front first, and it grew from there, until the best part of it was the working out and the feeling that left you with, sauna or no sauna.
I might suggest you find that kind of gym, the kind where you can get an easy reward like that, one that will make you want to go in.1 -
I found the right kind of gym for me. I used to go to a general kind of gym, and I basically went for the classes or the personal training. When I moved, I tried Curves, but the clientele was not in my age range and the workout was not to my liking. Then I went to a yoga studio, and while I enjoyed the classes, the people were unfriendly and it wasn't a friendly environment. The place I'm going now is the most positive environment I've ever worked out in and there are people there of all ages shapes and sizes working at their own pace, and everyone is friendly.
My thought process is, it's only an hour, just go and get it over with.1 -
Thank you all so much for your replies! I have read and reread your posts several times and given a lot of thought to why I am not going to the gym and what it is I really enjoy.
So, I have a plan now that incorporates your ideas. I only need to go to the gym at least once a week to get my money's worth, so I will schedule that in like an appointment and make sure it is something I enjoy each time I go. No need to feel guilty if I choose not to go more than that. I won't be intimidated by anyone at the gym - I have my own goals!
The gym is not my whole health and fitness plan! I started an at home walk program today that I will do every morning to get me moving. I found out about it, "Walk With Leslie", in another discussion. I will include doing something active outdoors everyday, or add on another home fitness session in the evening if I haven't been at the gym that day. I have set a weight loss goal with an end date in mind to reach my goal by losing 1lb a week.
Bonus if I go to the gym more than once a week and lose more than 1lb per week but it's important for me to have very achievable goals!
Thanks again and good luck with your goals.
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I know everyone knocks it, but try crossfit. Find a good gym! Try a few different ones. I hated three different boxes (crossfit gyms) before I found one that I get along with the people and it's so much fun to go! They care a lot about my body and limitations and always do their best to scale things for me1
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For me it was just a case of I'm shelling out the money so I'm going to get my money's worth. The gym I use is open 24/7 so there really is no excuse not to go. I told myself I would definitely go on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and one weekend day but I've found myself going Wednesday and the other weekend day too as I quite enjoy it.1
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I used to hate the gym, but I learned to feel comfortable in that space and now I go regularly. Initially I'd stick to the treadmill, then I progressed to taking classes like Zumba and Kickboxing, eventually worked my way over to lifting weights.1
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