How to make exercise a habit?
Sam29a
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How do people go from doing no exercise to becoming addicted to it? I'm great for a month, then back to my normal lazy self. I just can't get myself to stick to it. I've just never been someone that enjoys exercise, or any sports.
I've been eating 1300 calories for absolute ages, I really would love a bit more calories as I'm really struggling with it now. Plus my body doesn't look great. I have skinny legs and arms, with a massive bloated-looking stomach. I fit in small clothes, but can't wear anything tight-fitted as I have too many lumps and bumps and I look pregnant. I've surpassed my goal weight, but I'm nowhere near where I want to be and know that exercise the key to what I want. But I just can't do it.
How do I get from couch potato - literally, I probably walk 500 steps a day - if that, to at least somewhat active?
I've been eating 1300 calories for absolute ages, I really would love a bit more calories as I'm really struggling with it now. Plus my body doesn't look great. I have skinny legs and arms, with a massive bloated-looking stomach. I fit in small clothes, but can't wear anything tight-fitted as I have too many lumps and bumps and I look pregnant. I've surpassed my goal weight, but I'm nowhere near where I want to be and know that exercise the key to what I want. But I just can't do it.
How do I get from couch potato - literally, I probably walk 500 steps a day - if that, to at least somewhat active?
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Great question0
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you have to find a physical activity you enjoy and actually look forward to doing.5
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Well, some people like getting a Fit Bit or Garmin to egg them on to logging in 10,000 steps a day. You could do that to motivate yourself with a daily goal. See if you can increase your walks from 500 steps to 1,000 steps this week. Then next week shoot for 2,000. You get my drift. I don't listen to music while I'm running, but maybe if you loaded a couple of your favorite playlists you could enjoy that while you walk.
I write my exercise "appointments" on my calendar every week. If on Tuesday it says "Zumba", I go to the freakin' class whether I'm in the mood or not. If Wednesday says "jogging", I put on my running clothes and go outside and do it. Some days, I find I'm enjoying myself once I get started. I go through phases where I'm really proud of my accomplishing something to wondering whether it's worth the effort. I think that's natural. I don't expect to get addicted to any one activity. In fact, I've found I need to switch it up to keep from getting bored. SO... if you belong to a gym, try out yoga and Pilates (good for overall toning) and Zumba (great cardio). Ask someone about weightlifting. Pump up the tires on your bike and take a spin around your neighborhood.
Set short term goals. For example, after 1 week of exercising every day, treat yourself to something. Or after losing 5 pounds, reward yourself. It could be a pedicure, a new exercise shirt, whatever floats your boat.6 -
Agreed with the finding something you enjoy. Think back to when you were a kid jumping rope, climbing bars, playing tag. You didn't focus on your exhaustion, you were too busy having fun. THAT is an addiction to exercise. Try karate, or take a dance class, or join a sport. Exercise doesn't have to be a bike or treadmill.8
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Find something that you enjoy and want to do. Exercise should be the icing on the cake, not the way you pay to eat it.
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Find yourself a good 4 week plan online, and do it. Once you finish it find a 12 week plan...and do it. Repeat.3
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Get a dog?! Having a high energy animal who needs daily runs or a very long walk motivates me most of the time. And it makes hiking more fun, I think.4
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How's your nutrition? I started enjoying exercise when I started eating more nutritiously, specifically more iron and more protein, but perhaps other vitamins as well. It's hard to keep up an exercise regimen when you're anemic.0
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I found that this article helped inspire me to go to the gym more. I hope this helps you.
https://www.google.com/amp/www.mensfitness.com/life/entertainment/workout-advice-terry-crews/amp2 -
You know exercise is the key to what you want. The question is, how bad do you really want it?
Sign up for classes or make appointments with a trainer. That helped me develop a routine.1 -
I pick a strength or physique goal and train FOR THAT GOAL DOING THINGS I LOVE.
You will never see me doing a burpee. Or a sit up. Even if I go to a fitness class I don't do them and choose an exercise I enjoy that helps me meet my goals.
Once you see progress, I don't really know how you could ever go back.5 -
try listening to Shia Lebeauf "JUST DO IT"
every morning before your tasks.
YESTERDAY YOU SAID TOMORROW
JUST DO IT
DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS!3 -
If i want to eat more than the bare minimum then i have no choice but to make exercise a habit.
My desire to eat more outweighs my laziness.
I'm no gym junkie or hardcore exerciser. I have a Fitbit with a set step goal which i try and hit everyday.2 -
Setting small goals is an effective way to start.2
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Some people like to dance...so they do that. I have always loved martial arts so I started doing that years ago and dropped 30lbs in 3 months. Then when i stopped MMA i gained like 60 lbs over an 8 year period. Now I started running races and i hate running but i love getting medals so we shall see how that goes. Find what you love that gets you moving and it wont feel like exercise.0
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i find joining a boot camp or doing a groupon or something motivates me more than just going to the gym everyday. I'm all about accountability and if people know if i show up or not, it makes me go.
once i get in the habit [2 months or so] it's hard to get out of the habit...whether working out or being lazy....
they say it takes 21 days to make a habit so workout 21 days in a row...and see what happens....1 -
How do people go from doing no exercise to becoming addicted to it? I'm great for a month, then back to my normal lazy self. I just can't get myself to stick to it. I've just never been someone that enjoys exercise, or any sports.
How do I get from couch potato - literally, I probably walk 500 steps a day - if that, to at least somewhat active?
Incorporate it throughout your day.
I walk as part of my commute ... can't get to the bus without walking! And sometimes I get off a stop or two early to make it a longer walk.
I walk at lunch ... mainly to run errands, but about once a week it is just a nice long brisk walk.
I climb stairs at work. I climb them to get to my floor, and I do some extra on breaks as well.
I walk after work with my husband. That's our "date" several times a week ... it's the time when we can talk to each other without the TV going and computers on and housework happening, etc.
This semester, on Mondays I am at the university. I walk from work to the university, and then after my classes, there's a spinning class at the university gym, so I go to that. I might also stay and use the rowing machine or treadmill as well.
On the weekends my husband and I cycle because we love cycling ... I've been cycling since I was a kid and have loved it ever since. We will also cycle after work sometimes too instead of walking ... just depends on darkness and the weather.
It's just what we do.
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For me, exercise is something that I do just for me! That is one of the things that only I can benefit from that no one can interfere with. It started because I was at a point were I was so unhappy at work and not doing much better at home that when I started working out and seeing/feeling the results I kept going because I needed to. Maybe you need to find something that you enjoy and can benefit from that is just for you.4
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Thanks for all the helpful replies. I did enjoy going to the gym when I was going, I much prefer it to classes, but once I stop going, it takes me forever to get back into it. I think I need to exercise for longer than a month. Maybe 3 or 4 months or so before it starts becoming a habit. Also, whenever I start exercising I usually go all out, maybe I'll aim for just 4 days a week to begin, then try to increase to 5-6 days later.1
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First of all, everyone thinks that in order to be fit or to lose weight you have to be in the gym 5-7 days a week. NOT TRUE! What if I told you that you could be slim, fit, and healthy and only go to the gym 2-3 days a week? The more effective your workout is and the more on point your diet is, the less you have to do! If you can afford it, you should consider hiring a Personal Trainer who specializes in getting people into top shape. The Trainer will hold you accountable to your workouts and make sure you're getting the most EFFECTIVE workout possible. 1300 calories is quite low unless you're petite and 5'1. You probably need an overhaul of your diet, maybe some calorie/carb cycling and proper macronutrient ratios. A good Personal Trainer will set this all up for you.1
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I just do it. get it done, its part of my every day life.0
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Started cycling , got hooked after a month and since then I have dropped 50lbs and decreasing0
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I hear you, for I am in exactly the same boat!
Hated exercise all my life & could never stick to anything for more than a couple of weeks.
Found 7 weeks ago that I love dancing with the RefitRev girls on YouTube. Really look forward to doing it & get sad if I'm unable to...quite the surprise! I began with 3/4songs (10-15mins) every day. 15 mins is nothing, right? That's what I told myself...even if i could not be bothered...like ripping off a plaster quickly. Okay, 10 mins done - time for a sit down with a cuppa! Currently up to 30 minutes a day via increments because I genuinely began to say "awww, is that it??" . Really unexpected, I can tell you... Mainly though, the wee bit extra movement gives me energy & motivation to be more active generally, without even thinking about it.
I don't even grumble at resistance training twice a week now...something quite exhilarating about sore muscles due to hard work...and again, I began with just 10 mins of that before working my way up, adding in more each time.
Worth noting that there have been days where I didn't WANT to do the full amount(of either)...so, I didnt! I just did what I felt able to do, even if it was back to 10. I've spent the majority of my adult downtime on my backside so it's totally unrealistic for me to NEVER slip back some days & I'm totally fine with that. Won't lie, I feel proud of even the shortest workouts because it's ALL more than I was doing previously.
Also a huge fan of the fitness tracker. Found my average steps on days off to be just 2-3000 when I began. Somehow, this spurred me on to get up & move. The sedentary warning has become a wee game...I set it between the hours of 9-5 & my objective is to never give it a chance to go off! (It vibrates after an hour of sitting)
I love to listen to podcasts while I do housework, so I just extended that to my tracker. If my steps landed less than the 5k goal I set by the evening, I'd just pop on my headphones & wander round the house/garden or even just march on the spot until I hit my goal. Again, a couple of thousand steps really doesn't take long to achieve(there's that 10-15 mins again!) My daily goal is now 6000 & though I know 10 is the "ideal", I'll get there in my own time. Sometimes I only just meet my goal & sometimes I smash it ..but I'm only racing myself over here.
It's so easy to feel pressured or like you're somehow "failing" because you aren't doing what everyone else seems to be doing. Motivation doesn't come naturally for so many folk but you know what? 10 mins today is 10 more than yesterday & that's not to be sniffed at in my book!
Most of all though, the scales, the measuring tape, my energy levels & my happy mood don't lie...it may not be huge amounts of exercise that I'm doing, but the benefits are definitely beginning to show - both inside & out. On the days where I'm hungier or feel tired, I know Ive plenty calories in the bank to cover an extra couple of hundred. That's of course just my own experience so far...my 2p...for what it's worth.
I really wish you the best of luck with whatever you choose to do!
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Many people come out the gate with guns a blazin' and go from nothing to all of the exercise and they burn out pretty quickly. Start small and build up.
Also do something you enjoy doing...mindlessly droning away on some piece of cardio equipment sucks...jumping around to some DVD sucks...riding a bike is awesome sauce. I also found it very helpful to sign up for events which required me to train to prepare for them...this helped give my exercise/training structure and purpose.2 -
Get started with walking on your lunch break. Place sneakers in your bag and take in with you as a reminder. Exercise duration according to your mood --- 5 minutes beats nothing at all.1
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I'm 100% in the "find something you love doing" camp. I'm a rower, and I want to do that. Wanting to do it better has, over the years, inspired me to do other things (like swim lessons ) in order to be a better rower. A decade plus on, I find I feel like cr*p - physically, cognitively, emotionally - if I'm not active fairly regularly in some way, so I keep moving. It does take a while to reach that point, though.
One other thing that I didn't see mentioned above (admittedly on a skim-through) is that for some of us, appointment workouts are effective ways to make sure it really happens. Could be a group class, a workout buddy, a scheduled recreational/competitive thing like basketball or tennis or bowling league, appointment with a trainer, you name it - something where you're committed to show up at a specific time and place.
It doesn't work for everyone, but it helps some. Heck, I love to row, but I'm certain I'm more consistent because I organize my rowing buddies to row together 4 days a week in season!2 -
Ya, what they said! I did it for the tee shirts & finishers medals. I put on a bunch of weight so it was time to take action. Went to the gym and climbed on the treadmill. I was now fat and felt like a gerbil on the treadmill. I hated it. Someone suggested a 5k run. run? really? Bunches of people & energized finish line. Yup, that jazzed me up. I see someone running now, and wonder what they are training for. Plus, now I have a great tee shirt collection. It's all about how much fun you can squeeze out what you like doing.2
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I started slow. My goal at first was to help with weight loss. I went like 3 days a week. I was seeing weight loss and I felt awesome too! I then started going everyday. A year ago May I added weightlifting (Stronglifts 5x5). Quickly became addicted. It really does have to be something you enjoy or you'll never want to do it. I like to ride my bike on a local trail and do some walking too. I find exercise to be my time to unwind from the day. I do a lot of thinking about things...especially remembering my mom who died 8 months ago etc. Hopefully you can find something you like!!1
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It takes 3 weeks for something to become a habit. Best advice? Keep going0
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If you're really only walking 500 steps a day (how!?), perhaps working that number up might be a start? I suspect you might be walking more than that though! You can probably download a free step tracker onto your phone.
If you enjoy exercise once you get to doing it, it's the getting to doing it you need to work on. Whatever works for you is fine - get a friend to go with you, book classes, do it at home, get someone to bug you into going, put your gym gear where you'll trip over it...0
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