worst part of breaking up????

time for something new....make your own friends & chart your own destiny! You will get some. And it may even be better. :bigsmile: There is someone out there for everyone..believe me; I know

Just think...from this point on you'll be so much healthier. You'll establish your own friendships and own activities. Your next relationship will be much more balanced now that you've seen the difference.

Now is your time to do the the things you love and make REAL friends that are actually your own friends. Maybe even take a road trip by yourself somewhere to clear the air and start fresh.

I miss cuddling at night. Even more than the sex. No, I'm not gay.

Sleeping alone! I was with my ex for 4 years (almost) and when we broke up I couldn't sleep without putting pillows on his side of the bed.
Not having anyone to call to say, OMG, you'll NEVER guess......
Not seeing his family.
Still being friends with him on facebook and seeing the new girlfriend posting "I love you".
Cuddling.
Being excited to see him after work.

LOTS!

Yeah I had a bf like that, we broke up then I was alone.........................., that made me realize I never wanted to do that again. So I have my own friends and when I get with a bf I keep those friends too. So many girls just stop talking to their friends and will only hang out with the bf's. But it so important in so many ways to have your own set of friends. So you guys don't get tired of only hanging out together, and then when there's a breakup you always have your friends. But don't feel too bad I am in a long term relationship now and I miss going out whenever I want and not checking in with anyone. Grass is always greener eh.
The worst part for me is right after you break up waking up in the morning and forgetting you had.

That was hard for me, too...in college, I was in the marching band. So was he. When we broke up, it narrowed down who my real friends were. But I still had to see him at all these events. And see all the people who "didn't want to get in the middle." It was brutal. We broke up in November, and he didn't graduate until the following spring. Thankfully, I got to enjoy my senior year without him around.

I understand how you feel!!! I learn to let go and try to find ways to keep busy!!! It can be nerve wrecking when you are use to " getting some " on a regular basis but trust me that will past too!!! So explore your surroundings that still exist and before you know it you will meet someone special!!!

things have been great after my breakup/divorce. I have time to do the thngs I want to do. I do Muay Thai Kickboxing and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu 5-6 days a week. It has really helped me drop some weight. I eat better now as well since I don't have to worry about anyone else besides my son. Try to look at the positive things, get out there, and make some new friends. You can do it.

hifinm

Go you! That's awesome about the martial arts. You found something great to put your heart into and created a better life for yourself. Keep up the great work!

Hiding the body!

Lack of sex. For reals.

But even more so, when your next significant other comes along, you have to build up the comfort level ALL over again. Sex is no fun when you don't feel confident completely naked, and well.. you always wonder what they are thinking, and blah de blah blah. Oy.

Congrats on the weight loss, that's great!

A relationship is still two people that should be trying to combine two lives into one, not 1 person giving everything/everyone up for the other. I have 4 daughters, and I tell them all to try to be self-sufficient and have your own life first. That means have your own friends, take care of your education, and secure your own finances (job). The biggest mistake people make today is that one person will give up everything because they think they love someone. In a relationship both partners should both be giving and taking to make things work. Married people have the same problem. After 15 years all our friends were really her friends and only my aqaintences as it turned out. During our marriage I would have done anything for her, and when she said she wanted to split I was devistated. To all of those friends I ended up being the dirt bag ex, but I also ended up with all of my kids and raising them without her because CPS took them away from her and she was never around.

You have got to be your own person first and foremost.

Trying to find someone that is just as good in the sack and likes most of the same stuff you do.

The worst part was if the sex was good, it's now gone. Oh, and some of that other mushy crap like cuddling and some other stuff that I can't think of because it really isn't all that important.

You my friend are out of your mind. Sex is just a natural extension of a relationship, but the cuddling and mushy crap is the emotional attachment that builds in the relationship and is even more important than the sex. In fact, the cuddling and mushy crap will lead to you being able to experience more great sex if you knew better.

Hiding the body!

LOVE THIS!!! i havent quite figured that out yet... wanna come and help me? seems like ur a pro!

Lets do it!

i better hit him one more time with the shovel.... wouldnt want him waking up halfway thru or anything.

I guess I havent showed you anything yet......no shovel needed! haha