Need your advice

SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
You guys are my friends so I take your counsel wisely.

I thought I was being pretty productive today. I woke up and worked out, came home and had breakfast, took a nap, then a shower. Now I'm headed out to play a round of golf. My mom called me and is all mad because I'm not out looking for a job. Pisses me off because my day is pretty packed already and I don't have time for that.

I want to respect my mom but at the same time I don't like it when she gets on to me like that. It messes with my backswing.

Thoughts?


Also, does anyone know how to log in a round of golf?

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  • ChiChiDoesStuff
    ChiChiDoesStuff Posts: 90 Member
    Just let her know you are trying, and that you need a day of not looking. Say something bout getting a fresh out look on things or something like that, and that you get she's concerned, but that she needs to trust you.....
  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
    Not trying to be harsh here but I am assuming you are living at home too. If you were my son and that was your day I would not give you a dime and start charging you rent. I was brought up that you work so you can play.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    :D
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    Maybe text her a picture of your gold scored card so she can truly see how productive you are. All moms like to be proud.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Just let her know you are trying, and that you need a day of not looking. Say something bout getting a fresh out look on things or something like that, and that you get she's concerned, but that she needs to trust you.....

    Thank you so much.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @pudgy1977 wrote: »
    Maybe text her a picture of your gold scored card so she can truly see how productive you are. All moms like to be proud.

    That is an awesome idea. And I'll tell her that the high score wins
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @rsclause wrote: »
    Not trying to be harsh here but I am assuming you are living at home too. If you were my son and that was your day I would not give you a dime and start charging you rent. I was brought up that you work so you can play.

    She doesn't give me a dime. Taxpayers or somebody pays. I'm not sure which.
  • rsclause
    rsclause Posts: 3,103 Member
    Taxpayers or somebody pays? oh you are just messing with me now.
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    You guys are my friends so I take your counsel wisely.

    I thought I was being pretty productive today. I woke up and worked out, came home and had breakfast, took a nap, then a shower. Now I'm headed out to play a round of golf. My mom called me and is all mad because I'm not out looking for a job. Pisses me off because my day is pretty packed already and I don't have time for that.

    I want to respect my mom but at the same time I don't like it when she gets on to me like that. It messes with my backswing.

    Thoughts?


    Also, does anyone know how to log in a round of golf?

    You don't need to do anything to these thoughts, feelings or physical sensations. Instead, give them a nod of acknowledgement, continue breathing calmly and naturally for a few minutes to anchor yourself to the present moment. Remind yourself of the task at hand and that MeeseeksAndDestroy is a thespian. Also, remind yourself why you are doing it. As soon as you are ready, be it after a few seconds or several minutes of being still, continue on your chosen path.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @cee134 wrote: »
    You guys are my friends so I take your counsel wisely.

    I thought I was being pretty productive today. I woke up and worked out, came home and had breakfast, took a nap, then a shower. Now I'm headed out to play a round of golf. My mom called me and is all mad because I'm not out looking for a job. Pisses me off because my day is pretty packed already and I don't have time for that.

    I want to respect my mom but at the same time I don't like it when she gets on to me like that. It messes with my backswing.

    Thoughts?


    Also, does anyone know how to log in a round of golf?

    You don't need to do anything to these thoughts, feelings or physical sensations. Instead, give them a nod of acknowledgement, continue breathing calmly and naturally for a few minutes to anchor yourself to the present moment. Remind yourself of the task at hand and that @MeeseeksAndDestroy is a thespian. Also, remind yourself why you are doing it. As soon as you are ready, be it after a few seconds or several minutes of being still, continue on your chosen path.

    you, sir, are wise beyond your years
  • LeGaCyGiAnT91
    LeGaCyGiAnT91 Posts: 405 Member
    Just tell her you will make more money on welfare checks then you will working a part time job. It's the new norm.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Tell her you are working on becoming golf pro
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    You guys are my friends so I take your counsel wisely.

    I thought I was being pretty productive today. I woke up and worked out, came home and had breakfast, took a nap, then a shower. Now I'm headed out to play a round of golf. My mom called me and is all mad because I'm not out looking for a job. Pisses me off because my day is pretty packed already and I don't have time for that.

    I want to respect my mom but at the same time I don't like it when she gets on to me like that. It messes with my backswing.

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  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    edited October 2017
    @vikka_V wrote: »
    Tell her you are working on becoming golf pro
    Have you seen the way I play?
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    edited October 2017
    @rsclause wrote: »
    Taxpayers or somebody pays? oh you are just messing with me now.

    No, I'm not messing with you. I'm not sure where it comes from . All I know it wasn't enough to cover my cart fee today. That pissed me off.
  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    Is your mom cute?
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    @dc8066 wrote: »
    Is your mom cute?

    Well, how can I put this...

    And then there's Maude.

  • dc8066
    dc8066 Posts: 1,439 Member
    Mom a la maude, hmm
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