worst part of breaking up????

Congrats on the weight loss, that's great!

A relationship is still two people that should be trying to combine two lives into one, not 1 person giving everything/everyone up for the other. I have 4 daughters, and I tell them all to try to be self-sufficient and have your own life first. That means have your own friends, take care of your education, and secure your own finances (job). The biggest mistake people make today is that one person will give up everything because they think they love someone. In a relationship both partners should both be giving and taking to make things work. Married people have the same problem. After 15 years all our friends were really her friends and only my aqaintences as it turned out. During our marriage I would have done anything for her, and when she said she wanted to split I was devistated. To all of those friends I ended up being the dirt bag ex, but I also ended up with all of my kids and raising them without her because CPS took them away from her and she was never around.

You have got to be your own person first and foremost.

Trying to find someone that is just as good in the sack and likes most of the same stuff you do.

The worst part was if the sex was good, it's now gone. Oh, and some of that other mushy crap like cuddling and some other stuff that I can't think of because it really isn't all that important.

You my friend are out of your mind. Sex is just a natural extension of a relationship, but the cuddling and mushy crap is the emotional attachment that builds in the relationship and is even more important than the sex. In fact, the cuddling and mushy crap will lead to you being able to experience more great sex if you knew better.

Hiding the body!

LOVE THIS!!! i havent quite figured that out yet... wanna come and help me? seems like ur a pro!

Lets do it!

i better hit him one more time with the shovel.... wouldnt want him waking up halfway thru or anything.

I guess I havent showed you anything yet......no shovel needed! haha

avoiding the spots where you may run into one another

Sleeping alone! I was with my ex for 4 years (almost) and when we broke up I couldn't sleep without putting pillows on his side of the bed.
Not having anyone to call to say, OMG, you'll NEVER guess......
Not seeing his family.
Still being friends with him on facebook and seeing the new girlfriend posting "I love you".
Cuddling.
Being excited to see him after work.

LOTS!

This made me want to cry because all are so true, and I've been single for a long time! Actually I was the one who decided to end the last relationship. It's still hard.

I know, I got a little teary while I was writing it! I have been single for about a year and a half now and I still hurt and miss him sometimes too. I, too, was the one who ended things, well....kinda, he cheated on me so he kinda did too.

The hardest part of breaking up, is getting back your stufffff.

My ex brought his new girlfriend with him when he came to get his stuff back.

The hardest part of breaking up, is getting back your stufffff.

^THIS! Still haven't been able to get my stuff out of his storage building which includes the china from my parents wedding and some pretty important childhood stuff. SO ANNOYING!

I can't remember what the worst part was anymore because I'm so glad he's gone now. I'll get back to you.

Lol love it! :laugh:

The hardest part of breaking up, is getting back your stufffff.

My ex brought his new girlfriend with him when he came to get his stuff back.

What a scumbag.