"HOW DO YOU STAY ON THE ROAD OF DIETING"?

ChazMMonroe101717
ChazMMonroe101717 Posts: 4 Member
edited November 2024 in Introduce Yourself
I always been one who liked to keep in shape. I recently started trying to diet and "eat right". I can go for a while but IT IS HARD!!! I know the key is preparation, but how do you keep at it with soo many family get togethers, cookouts, birthdays & holidays.....and not to mention hunger cramps

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  • ChazMMonroe101717
    ChazMMonroe101717 Posts: 4 Member
    edited October 2017
    @Alatariel75 ....I'm trying to stay under my calorie limit (mostly my fat & sugar intake). That causes me to eat less. I think I need to find foods or drinks that I can have in between meals....any suggestions?
  • kommodevaran
    kommodevaran Posts: 17,890 Member
    I always been one who liked to keep in shape. I recently started trying to diet and "eat right". I can go for a while but IT IS HARD!!! I know the key is preparation, but how do you keep at it with soo many family get togethers, cookouts, birthdays & holidays.....and not to mention hunger cramps
    If you are having hunger cramps, you're not eating right - but too little, or poorly, or both.

    All of us can do anything for a while, but if it's HARD, we can't do it for long, and because losing weight takes time, it's pointless.
    I'm trying to stay under my calorie limit (mostly my fat & sugar intake).
    Don't do that. Your calorie goal is set to make you lose weight if you hit it. Hit your calorie goal. Fat and sugar don't count double.
    That causes me to eat less. I think I need to find foods or drinks that I can have in between meals....any suggestions?
    You have to eat less, but do it sensibly. You dont have to eat between meals, and if you're thirsty, drink water.
  • atlzbest
    atlzbest Posts: 2 Member
    Its all called determination and prep. I have a goal of loosing 25 lbs in 3 months. Took my family for lunch and a movie after our sat morning kids swimm class/gym routine. I already had my salad with calories free dressing and grilled chicken box prepped in the morning. If i didnt have have that, i wouldve picked the leanest thing avail on the menu.
  • nvmomketo
    nvmomketo Posts: 12,019 Member
    I find carbs drive my hunger so cutting carbs reduced my appetite within days. When I don't eat carbs my stomach never rumbles and I can easily go 6-8 hours between meals. While eating carbs, I get tired, hungry and the shakes within 3 hours of eating. YMMV
  • CathyMcMac
    CathyMcMac Posts: 29 Member
    Thanks to who wrote about the realistic weight goals. I have 45 lbs to lpse so I will aim for the 1.5lbs per week.
  • Sunnybrooke99
    Sunnybrooke99 Posts: 369 Member
    Don’t think of it as a diet. It needs to be a permanent adjustment. You do need to be prepared. I eat before something like a family barbecue (if I haven’t prepared by creating a deficiet), so that I can just snack there. I keep around things that I like, and are convenient, in case I am in a rush, or want some junk food (like those baby food meat sticks. They are really just high quality, low cal vianna sausages). Take note of the things that seem surprisingly satisfying and low calorie and eat those more. Don’t try to change all at once. Just keep adding in things and making little adjustments.
  • PixelPuff
    PixelPuff Posts: 902 Member
    Pick the healthiest options available to you. My work likes to give us food, I just make sure to eat an okay portion or go for the healthiest one I can (here's looking at you, Jimmy Johns catering).

    I have people try to push food on me all the time, especially one of my coworkers. She is actually trying to lose weight, but will bring me things like fried chicken when I've told her I brought my lunch... And she'll give it to me WHILE I'm eating my lunch. She has admitted to wanting to fatten me up, but I'm sticking with maintaining y weight.

    Gotta get a backbone and say no to people. It is a hard thing to learn, but so valuable.
  • ReginasHorror
    ReginasHorror Posts: 424 Member
    I find the best way to stay on the road is to keep your hands at ten and two, put your phone down, and remember not to drink before driving.

    All jokes aside, you can apply two of those to dieting:
    Ten and two: focus on your goals. Focus gets you results. And you'll be less likely to slip if you remember why you want it.
    Don't drink: I mean, drink water, but booze isn't going to help you. Neither is soda. Just stick to water

    But the other is actually the opposite: STAY ON YOUR PHONE. mfp will be a great resource. Keep it with you, monitor your activity, your intake, ect. And watch your friends succeed. It will motivate you.

    That or let someone else drive. JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL.
  • Aight, thanks everyone for replying back. (You all gave me great advice). I'm starting my "eating right/lose weight" goal again today! My problem is I am VERY active....delivery driver 4 days a week 13-14 hrs a day & Cycling! I hear carb up to ride the bike & I hear carb less to lose weight
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Aight, thanks everyone for replying back. (You all gave me great advice). I'm starting my "eating right/lose weight" goal again today! My problem is I am VERY active....delivery driver 4 days a week 13-14 hrs a day & Cycling! I hear carb up to ride the bike & I hear carb less to lose weight

    nope, unless you have a medical reason you don't need to cut carbs. just eat at a calorie deficit.
  • goldthistime
    goldthistime Posts: 3,213 Member
    Are you logging? What deficit goal have you chosen?
  • MarylandRose
    MarylandRose Posts: 239 Member
    Aight, thanks everyone for replying back. (You all gave me great advice). I'm starting my "eating right/lose weight" goal again today! My problem is I am VERY active....delivery driver 4 days a week 13-14 hrs a day & Cycling! I hear carb up to ride the bike & I hear carb less to lose weight

    You don't need to specifically cut carbs to lose weight. I haven't. What has worked for weight loss is managing my overall calories so that I stay in a deficit. I do better when carbs are part of my diet, because they help me feel more full. My weekend breakfast, for example, has been two eggs, two slices bacon, one slice whole grain toast for years now. If I eat mostly carbs (pancakes) or low carb (just eggs and bacon), I'm hungry after about two hours...adding that slice of bread makes a very big difference to how much I enjoy my day (and how much other people enjoy being around me!)
    Play with your diet, and take notes. I figured out the breakfast thing over time...I knew pancakes always left me hungry, but it was by experimenting with the eggs/bacon/toast combination that confirmed that no carb is just as miserable for me as all carb. During the work week I tend to eat a Wegmans Wholesum bar, which has a good carb/fat/protein ratio that keeps me going from "whenever I get hungry" (7-9 am) until lunch.
  • Yeah, I'm logging. (It's set for VERY active). I put it like this...On my days off of work or not out riding my bike..I can manage my diet pretty well, but at work or after riding...I am starving! (DIET OVER)..Lol. I need to find some time of balance & plan to keep me going without starving myself to find myself quiting and eating everything in sight. You all gave me great advice!
  • WinoGelato
    WinoGelato Posts: 13,454 Member
    Yeah, I'm logging. (It's set for VERY active). I put it like this...On my days off of work or not out riding my bike..I can manage my diet pretty well, but at work or after riding...I am starving! (DIET OVER)..Lol. I need to find some time of balance & plan to keep me going without starving myself to find myself quiting and eating everything in sight. You all gave me great advice!

    Are you logging and eating back the calories you burn through exercise?
    You mentioned having 45 lbs to lose, with that number, you should be aiming for no more than 1 lb/week.

  • TeaBea
    TeaBea Posts: 14,517 Member
    Aight, thanks everyone for replying back. (You all gave me great advice). I'm starting my "eating right/lose weight" goal again today! My problem is I am VERY active....delivery driver 4 days a week 13-14 hrs a day & Cycling! I hear carb up to ride the bike & I hear carb less to lose weight

    nope, unless you have a medical reason you don't need to cut carbs. just eat at a calorie deficit.

    This^

    Low carb is appropriate for SOME people, it's not for everyone. Re: hunger - protein, fiber and fat are all satiating components. You need to find what fits you.

    Start by setting an appropriate weekly goal. That gives you a starting number. BUT you are active, you may need to adjust.
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