Homemaker and mother of 2 can't get to the gym

katieherringshaw
katieherringshaw Posts: 5
edited September 30 in Fitness and Exercise
I am a homemaker and mother of 2 small children. Since quitting my job since February I've been spending most of my time at home and have gained some weight. I've noticed that most of the weight has been on my butt and thighs. I would really love to go running, but have no one to watch my children. I also would like to go to the YMCA, but don't feel comfortable leaving my children in a strange daycare. Are there any suggestions? I've looked at some excercise videos, but there are so many mixed reviews.
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  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    The daycare at the gym won't be strange once you check it out. And you're right there!
  • jwaitman
    jwaitman Posts: 367 Member
    I can understand not wanting to leave your kids in a strange day care, may I suggest you go and observe the day care and become more comfortable then start working out. Your kids may actually enjoy it. If you just can't bring yourself to do it, I highly recommend the Firm DVD's. They do work if you use them.
  • wbond
    wbond Posts: 363 Member
    I do all my workouts at home...no need to leave the house when I can do everything I need to stay in shape in the comfort of my own home.
  • CassieLEO
    CassieLEO Posts: 757 Member
    NO excuses lady. I have kids and a house and a full time job. If you cant get to the gym, get a jogging stroller and get out walking or jogging. You cant make excuses, where there is a will, there is a way!!!
  • serhart
    serhart Posts: 27
    Is there a local park nearby? I take my kids down to the park a block from my home and we have a deal, they walk the track with me twice, they can play on the playground and i do lunges and stretches and such while they play and can still watch them. We go on bike rides around the block, we bought a spiral notebook and everyday we will go for a LONG walk and they find a pretty flower or a leaf and they each tape it to a page and we write about where we find it, the colors of it when they found it, things like that! I am not a stay at home mom, i work full time, but i only work 3 days a week. So most of the week I am at home with the kids, I was worried about not finding good exercises while at home. The more creative I can get with my kids, the more exercises we come up with.. Good Luck!
  • NikkisNewStart
    NikkisNewStart Posts: 1,075 Member
    I'm a mom of 5 and I go to the gym (check it out first and ask about their credentials/certifications). I also have a double jogging stroller. You could also invest in a bike trailer. I also run around in circles in my backyard while they play. There are tons of things you could do... where there is a will, there's a way. How bad do you want it?
  • One of the great benefits of exercise is that you don't have to do it all in one shot. Try to do something for 15 minutes in the morning, 15 minutes in the afternoon and, IF YOU CAN, 15 minutes at night. And it can be something your kids can do WITH you. I.e. in the morning, put on some dance music and get DANCING. You'll work up a good sweat and your kids can dance with you. In the afternoon, if they're napping, walk up and down the stairs or do a pilates video or some floor exercises. At night, if there's a partner around to take care of the kids, go for a walk for just 15 minutes! (If there's a partner in the picture I'm SURE they can give you just 15 minutes for yourself!!!)

    If you do this, you'll have done 45 minutes of exercise!

    I have found that I can motivate myself to do 15 minutes of exercise. There's no excuse NOT to just do 15 minutes. (And the great thing is that once I get started, it usually turns into 20 or 25 minutes!)

    Hope this helps!
  • megandurden
    megandurden Posts: 17 Member
    Similar but different story here.....I am a full time professional with five kiddos. I have ZERO time for a gym. In January, I started doing karate two nights a week WITH my children. On the nights off from karate, I walk / run our treadmill and I have a short 20 minute Jillian Michael's Cardio Kickboxing DVD that I enjoy. I have lost 30lbs in 8 weeks. It can be done!!! I have an exercise ball that I’m using for ab strengthening, as well. Furthermore, I maintain my calories intake to 1200. Best Wishes!!! :) You can do this….Be Blessed! :)
  • therealangd
    therealangd Posts: 1,861 Member
    Lots of choices you can do at home. DVD's. Wii.

    I also second the suggestion of going to check out the gym daycare first.
  • BabiG
    BabiG Posts: 6
    I also am a sahm. I can't get to the gym either. We have all the game consoles here so I looked into games to get me moving. I recently purchased EA Sports Active 2. It has alot of variety.
  • SarahofTwins
    SarahofTwins Posts: 1,169 Member
    I understand how hard it can be to make it to the gym. I'm also a stay at home mom, I have twin babies and a toddler to take care of. I was fortunate enough to invest in a home treadmill to do my runs. There are other alternatives to working out from home...dvd's or even internet videos for workouts. Try to get at least some exercise but 80% of dieting is what you are eating. Once your mind is set everything else will follow. Good luck to you :flowerforyou:
  • You could get a good double stroller and take the kids on walks. It may not be the same as running but it's better than nothing.
  • It's difficult, I understand. I have two children (4 and 1) and work outside the home. I have always felt the same - too hard to wake up before the children, don't want to pick them up from one daycare and bring them to a second so I could work out, hate to exercise at 9:30pm after they are asleep. Within the last month or so I have been successful with putting my youngest (he wakes at 5am) in the jogging stroller and going around the neighborhood while my older one and husband are still sleeping and I have been trying to exercise with my older one after the little guy goes to bed. If you don't want to invest in videos right away, there are many free ones on OnDemand (or something similar if you have with your tv) or on the internet (you tube, etc). The WiiFit is great too if you have that. My 4 year old thinks it's hysterical to "exercise" with me. Granted it's not the most effective work out, but it's something.

    Hope some of these ideas help!
  • TammyLanham
    TammyLanham Posts: 109 Member
    I agree - if you really want to do something about the extra weight, you will. If you don't, you'll make every excuse in the world and you won't do it. I have 2 children & work from home. I get up in the mornings 2x a week before my husband even gets up and go work out (kids are asleep). 2x a week, I take the kids to the park & just play ball w/ them, etc. It raises my heartrate, makes me sweat & builds relationships with my kiddos. Sometimes, I run up & down the stairs to my basement. I workout on my elliptical machine downstairs, too. All comes down to that one question: How bad do you want it & what are you willing to do? If you REALLY want to go on a vacation, you do what it takes to go, right? How bad do you want this?
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    Get a Netflix subscription and rent workout videos. Then if you find any you like, you can buy it and just return the duds.
  • slim_photographer
    slim_photographer Posts: 310 Member
    I think the biggest road block for getting more active in you case is sentiments of being silly if you throw yourself in the ground and start doing push ups, crunches and so forth. I know because my wife has the same complain as you do and she's just too self conscious.

    Is people going to think I'm crazy if I start going up and down the stairs for no apparent reason while the kids take a nap? Get over this kinda of question and just do it. You'll be happy and others may or may not respect your effort but it will be you who gets the benefits.
    Any exercise video will be good to start you off. I bought ripped in 30 and it's ok. You'll realize that a lot of those moves you could've come up with by yourself but they are effective because they pace you and you pay money for them which is an action that shows your commitment.
  • 2 small children - too old for pushchairs? If not - get power pushing! Brisk walks with the buggy.

    How about a mother and toddler dance class? - if there are any in your area.

    personally I'm loving 'Your Shape Fitness Evolved' on xbox kinect - expensive if you don't have one! And you need the space.

    Just get the kids involved can they ride trikes while you jog/power walk?

    Can you do a child care swap with a friend - they have your kids while you gym it and you in return have theirs while they have some 'me' time.

    I hate the gym so its a case of thinking around it. How about evenings? Can Daddy watch them while you go to some classes? Getting motivated on your own can be a struggle - I'm a social exerciser - I play for a Netball team and I go to dance classes.

    Summertime_girl is right though - the daycare will only be strange the 1st couple of times - and you know you're close by if they need you.
  • mlemonroe2
    mlemonroe2 Posts: 603
    i am a stay at home mom of an 18month old. i jog/walk with her every morning in her stroller. (regular stroller, not a jogging stroller) i work out on my wii fit and do Leslie Sansone Walk At Home DVD durring her nap time.
  • hannahcf
    hannahcf Posts: 64 Member
    I am a mother of 4 and I home educate so they are pretty much always with me. I agree it is difficult but it's possible. I think you need a range of strategies, some will work one day and some another. For me, this is how it works. I sometimes run in the morning before my husband goes to work but only if I have the energy to get up really early, which depends on how well the kids have slept! Other times I play football in the garden with the kids or do yoga with them. I have Rosemary Conley DVDs which I use in the evenings where possible, and I go to at least one class a week, sometimes paying a babysitter if my husband is not back in time, which is annoying but better than missing my class. I walk with the kids as much as possible, either pushing a buggy or carrying the baby in a sling, and I sometimes go for a faster walk in the evenings. I agree about the gym problem - I wouldn't leave my kids in a creche in that kind of setting, though that is just a personal choice. Good luck!
  • 2chubby4now
    2chubby4now Posts: 93 Member
    Put music on daily and dance with your kids. You can even hold them for extra weight. Works up a sweat believe me. If your house has stairs walk up and down them as much as possible. If you have a cordless phone, walk around your house or up and down the stairs when you are on it. No sitting down. Take the kids for walks. If they walk too slowly, let them walk with you for a bit then put them into a stroller or wagon and away you go. If you go to a playground with them. Join them. Just keep moving. You will be teaching them to be active. Never mind what anyone else thinks! It does get easier as they get older. I never joined a gym or left mine until they got much older. I just didn't want to.
  • Wendysworld13
    Wendysworld13 Posts: 225 Member
    Here are a few things- I agree about going and checking out the Y's daycare. It will do you AND your kids well to get out. Kids need to be socialized, BUT so do you. If you make an effort and spend the money, chances are you will exercise more consistently.
    However, if money is an issue, then doyour exercising at home and get the kids involved as much as possible or use nap time. A jogging stroller is a great idea - they also make this stroller that attaches to the back of a bike so you can cycle if you want.
    I recommend the beachbody turbo series. Chalene Johnson, and theya re for different physical fitness body levels. Start with Turbo Jam, calorie burner and cardio. Next is Chalene extreme - cardio and weights at multiple levels and you don't need tons of equipment. Then there is turbo Fire - you have to be in great shape to do this but also comes at 2 different levels on each disc. Look at Amazon as they are less expensive.
    I also like Jilliam michaels stuff (available at Walmart) Mean burn. The biggest loser ones - final workout, and walk are great.

    Good Luck
  • silkysly
    silkysly Posts: 701 Member
    I watch my 4 & 8 yr old g’kids & I run on the treadmill sometimes when there are here. (They watch iCarly in the same room when I run.) If you have FitTV, record a series & stick to it. (Reviews are just someone’s opinion, btw.) The kids can join along or should I say, play along. You can also watch a regular show & hula hoop to it or exercise ball to it. Make it fun, but just do something! Good Luck.

    (PS:I live in a small town without a gym.)
  • silkysly
    silkysly Posts: 701 Member
    I do all my workouts at home...no need to leave the house when I can do everything I need to stay in shape in the comfort of my own home.

    Kudos on Insanity, btw! I do all mine at home too.
  • Check out www.bodyrock.tv - really good website with great workouts and diet challenges.
  • kelsully
    kelsully Posts: 1,008 Member
    I have four kids and will only be going back to work this fall. I have been working out 6 days a week for the last 2.5 years and a 3-4 days a weeks for about a year before that. Between kids i would just get back in the swing of hitting the gym when I would be pregnant again and on bedrest...The gym childcare is strange at first but a God send once you find if you can trust the ladies. When I had my fouth the ladies were morons and would hold my son up to the window so he could see me and that would get him crying because he wanted me...when they just let him be he was fine.....oh well...my son made it clear that from 6-10 months he wanted nothing to do with the childcare...so I would only go when all my girls were going to be there too...the sisters would keep him happy for long enough for me to squeeze in something. Amazingly a new woman joined the childcare and she was a mother to 6 and grandmother to 20 some kids...she figured my little guy out and it was awesome. I could work out for 2 hours. When I can't make the gym work I do something...walk with the kids...get a bike trailer and take them for a bike ride. I do DVD's...i have a whole bunch. 10 minute solutions DVD's are nice...as there are 5 10 minute segments that you can program on the DVD player which segments and what order you want them in...that way if you can only squeeze in 10 - 20 minutes you can still get something done...or you can stretch them out to over an hour if you want...tae bo is fun and a great workout...30 Day Shred are good and short workouts. ...oh another thing I do...is I use the stairs in my house...I do ten up and downs with pushups or jumping jacks at the top or bottom....if the kids are sleeping I might do 20 sets....but remember all those exercises you did in gym class...the calisthenics...toe touches, jumping jacks, squats, lunges, pushups etc...make a routine for yourself...I do it all the time but I am nuts...just move as long as you can...I will do 50 jumping jacks after I empty the dryer....then 50 more after i put the wet clothes in the dryer....I will do torso twists when or march in place while doing dishes.....you can make it work if you want
  • hi.. its def hard, but not impossible!! I like you used to tell people I had 'no time' for the gym, what with a young daughter and working full time, but there is a way i just didnt make time for it.
    there are some excellent dvds out there so there is no excuse.
    even if you are busy busy at home there is the Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred.. it only lasts 20 mins, so everyone can fit that in..
    i set my alarm early and get it done before my daughter wakes, or i do it when she's sleeping.. the good thing about this dvd is that you dont need a huge room either.. there's hardly any running around so you dont need the space, but boy do you sweat !!!!!.
    also i love love love the 5 to 20 mins muffin top burn off - so you will need to order that online.
    the hardest part is just starting it.. and to stop thinking you dont have time..
    by the time you've sent this email out and read everyones replies you could have fitted in a 20 min dvd !! hahah
    good luck !!! xxx
  • landorki
    landorki Posts: 93 Member
    HOW SMALL ARE YOUR CHILDREN?

    playing with them at the park. Most parks around here (New Jersey) have exercise equipment next to the swings and or jungle gyms. Are they at the age you can do your thing while keeping an eye on them while they do theirs?

    They make Jogging strollers to take the little ones with you on a jog/walk

    treadmill at home. you can pick one up pretty cheap either a cheap model from store, or used from craigslist.

    Calisthenics!!! this can be done anywhere! living room floor... bedroom floor... park... anywhere!

    Bike riding. Again, depending on the age of your kiddos.... kids love riding bikes... if they are too little... maybe try this:

    http://www.netkidswear.com/koolbictrail.html?gdftrk=gdfV22103_a_7c486_a_7c1248_a_7cKS_d_TKL

    have to enjoy this weather while we can!

    Good luck!
  • kdiamond
    kdiamond Posts: 3,329 Member
    I lost all my baby weight at home with 2 babies under the age of 3 with workout videos and a set of dumbbells. The most important thing is consistency and a good diet.
  • ShannonMpls
    ShannonMpls Posts: 1,936 Member
    The daycare at the gym won't be strange once you check it out. And you're right there!

    This. I love the childcare at my YMCA. It's usually the same staff, they know my child by name as we walk up, and I'm right upstairs if I'm needed. He has fun, gets out of the house, plays with other kids and different toys, and mom and dad get their workouts in. It's an ideal situation.
  • OKay so I didn't read through all the posts but make your daily chores into workouts. For example - when doing the laundry instead of taking out clumps of clothes and throwing it in a basket to take to your room and fold on your bed, do a squat down and grab one piece, fold it and take it where it belongs. If it is a drawer, do a squat to put it away. Do that for every piece in the dryer. Think about how many times that will be, how many extra steps. When doing the dishes same principles, wash one dish squat down to put it in the dishwasher, don't bend over. When emptying the dishwaster only take one piece at a time. You can do this for a number of normal chores. Have fun with and see what you can come up with.
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