Flirting
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Apparently I am very flirty, but in my mind I'm just being friendly. I will literally talk to any stranger- in line, in an elevator, waiting for the light to change, cashier! When I was a cashier, there was a guy who came in pretty regularly and we always chatted- 'hows the dog? have a nice weekend', that kind of thing. His cousin came for a visit and came to the store and I chatted with both. The next time he came in, he said his cousin asked if we knew each other or was I another cousin or something because I was so friendly! Nope, just not a jerk 24/7.
But since I'm female, it's flirty. If people misinterpret it, I just let them know that, no I am not flirting with you, I am just being friendly.1 -
My flirting game is totally off anymore I guess. Haven't got a nood and dirty message in a long time.3
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That's too funny that this popped up today in my feed! I was just talking with one of my coworkers about this. If I'm comfortable with someone, then it sometimes seems like I'm flirting with people, when I'm really just being myself. I think as long as the person you're with knows this and that you're not trying to pursue anything with anyone, then it shouldn't be a big deal.0
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You should be yourself but take in consideration the other person. Not because yourself (flirty fun girl way) is what so ever not ok but some people don't have the capacity to distinguish bubully personalty From flirt! So my advice be yourself but beware of who you are being yourself with cus it can get you in some not so much fun situations! Maybe before you show your bubully self, you should sence the other person intention and if its not a good one or not the same has yours put it right on the table, that you are who you are but you do not want to instigate or feed fantasies you do not have and the other my be assuming!!!! Just my personal experience!!! you may desagree or not.0
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I have naturally flirty face so it’s hard to make it clear that I’m not interested unless I have a resting *kitten* face the whole time lol then I’m just considered stuck up. Either way I never win.1
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I think everyone likes to be flirted with, it makes you feel special or at least a little wanted from time to time. If people take the flirting the wrong way after you have explained your position on the matter then that is their issue (as long as they are not following you home and hiding in the bushes).
I am a natural flirt, I do not even try but it happens all the time, my problem is most woman look at me and are like "Nooooooo" and head for the hills.0 -
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happimess1 wrote: »i never flirt (not even here!) but i know that the right person will bring that side out in me.
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Flirt????? sure0
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djchaney73 wrote: »I think everyone likes to be flirted with, it makes you feel special or at least a little wanted from time to time. If people take the flirting the wrong way after you have explained your position on the matter then that is their issue (as long as they are not following you home and hiding in the bushes).
I agree with you!1 -
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djchaney73 wrote: »I think everyone likes to be flirted with, it makes you feel special or at least a little wanted from time to time. If people take the flirting the wrong way after you have explained your position on the matter then that is their issue (as long as they are not following you home and hiding in the bushes).
Totally agree!! I'm a flirty person. I'm also a toucher (NOT LIKE THAT!) But I touch arms or shoulders while in conversation. Sometimes people misconstrue my flirtiness. And once I've been clear in my intentions, it's on them if they can't deal and get all hurt. I'm not trying to be hurtful, just playful.djchaney73 wrote: »I am a natural flirt, I do not even try but it happens all the time, my problem is most woman look at me and are like "Nooooooo" and head for the hills.
I find this exceptionally difficult to believe.
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(i'm so getting in trouble for this)1 -
whocaresilikeit wrote: »djchaney73 wrote: »I think everyone likes to be flirted with, it makes you feel special or at least a little wanted from time to time. If people take the flirting the wrong way after you have explained your position on the matter then that is their issue (as long as they are not following you home and hiding in the bushes).
Totally agree!! I'm a flirty person. I'm also a toucher (NOT LIKE THAT!) But I touch arms or shoulders while in conversation. Sometimes people misconstrue my flirtiness. And once I've been clear in my intentions, it's on them if they can't deal and get all hurt. I'm not trying to be hurtful, just playful.djchaney73 wrote: »I am a natural flirt, I do not even try but it happens all the time, my problem is most woman look at me and are like "Nooooooo" and head for the hills.
I find this exceptionally difficult to believe.
Butttt, butttt... why? My sense of humor is pretty dark, being in the Infantry tends to do that. 1 -
There's Fun Silly flirting like I do here on MFP (a whole lot!!!)
Then there's that Romantic Sweet flirting which has feeling and is more intimate for the one you have or want a relationship with! I am fortunate to have someone that I can do the latter with!
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djchaney73 wrote: »whocaresilikeit wrote: »djchaney73 wrote: »I think everyone likes to be flirted with, it makes you feel special or at least a little wanted from time to time. If people take the flirting the wrong way after you have explained your position on the matter then that is their issue (as long as they are not following you home and hiding in the bushes).
Totally agree!! I'm a flirty person. I'm also a toucher (NOT LIKE THAT!) But I touch arms or shoulders while in conversation. Sometimes people misconstrue my flirtiness. And once I've been clear in my intentions, it's on them if they can't deal and get all hurt. I'm not trying to be hurtful, just playful.djchaney73 wrote: »I am a natural flirt, I do not even try but it happens all the time, my problem is most woman look at me and are like "Nooooooo" and head for the hills.
I find this exceptionally difficult to believe.
Butttt, butttt... why? My sense of humor is pretty dark, being in the Infantry tends to do that.
Well, if your go-to method of flirting is dark humor, you're doing it wrong. Feel free to practice on me. 0 -
FabulousFantasticFifty wrote: »There's Fun Silly flirting like I do here on MFP (a whole lot!!!)
Then there's that Romantic Sweet flirting which has feeling and is more intimate for the one you have or want a relationship with! I am fortunate to have someone that I can do the latter with!
Lucky man you have.0 -
whocaresilikeit wrote: »djchaney73 wrote: »whocaresilikeit wrote: »djchaney73 wrote: »I think everyone likes to be flirted with, it makes you feel special or at least a little wanted from time to time. If people take the flirting the wrong way after you have explained your position on the matter then that is their issue (as long as they are not following you home and hiding in the bushes).
Totally agree!! I'm a flirty person. I'm also a toucher (NOT LIKE THAT!) But I touch arms or shoulders while in conversation. Sometimes people misconstrue my flirtiness. And once I've been clear in my intentions, it's on them if they can't deal and get all hurt. I'm not trying to be hurtful, just playful.djchaney73 wrote: »I am a natural flirt, I do not even try but it happens all the time, my problem is most woman look at me and are like "Nooooooo" and head for the hills.
I find this exceptionally difficult to believe.
Butttt, butttt... why? My sense of humor is pretty dark, being in the Infantry tends to do that.
Well, if your go-to method of flirting is dark humor, you're doing it wrong. Feel free to practice on me.
Not go-to method, flirting is nothing dark... just the humor side, a lot of people get butt hurt for what I think is funny... I mean hell it's a joke, not a dick... don't take it so hard...1 -
djchaney73 wrote: »whocaresilikeit wrote: »djchaney73 wrote: »whocaresilikeit wrote: »djchaney73 wrote: »I think everyone likes to be flirted with, it makes you feel special or at least a little wanted from time to time. If people take the flirting the wrong way after you have explained your position on the matter then that is their issue (as long as they are not following you home and hiding in the bushes).
Totally agree!! I'm a flirty person. I'm also a toucher (NOT LIKE THAT!) But I touch arms or shoulders while in conversation. Sometimes people misconstrue my flirtiness. And once I've been clear in my intentions, it's on them if they can't deal and get all hurt. I'm not trying to be hurtful, just playful.djchaney73 wrote: »I am a natural flirt, I do not even try but it happens all the time, my problem is most woman look at me and are like "Nooooooo" and head for the hills.
I find this exceptionally difficult to believe.
Butttt, butttt... why? My sense of humor is pretty dark, being in the Infantry tends to do that.
Well, if your go-to method of flirting is dark humor, you're doing it wrong. Feel free to practice on me.
Not go-to method, flirting is nothing dark... just the humor side, a lot of people get butt hurt for what I think is funny... I mean hell it's a joke, not a dick... don't take it so hard...
I know. I was joking. And people tend to be way too sensitive nowadays. I usually find dark humor funny. 1 -
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happimess1 wrote: »happimess1 wrote: »i never flirt (not even here!) but i know that the right person will bring that side out in me.
dont know what hurts more...the public betrayal or the fact that you are a spitter
Awww don't be mad sweetie.0 -
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cherchezlafemme13 wrote: »I would never flirt. It’s just not in my nature.
that's pretty hot1 -
happimess1 wrote: »i never flirt (not even here!) but i know that the right person will bring that side out in me.happimess1 wrote: »i never flirt (not even here!) but i know that the right person will bring that side out in me.
:laugh:2
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