Flirting

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  • Renaissance_Turtle
    Renaissance_Turtle Posts: 960 Member
    I'm a flirt with most of my female friends & acquaintances. Always have been. But I'm fat, they aren't interested & neither am I, so they know I don't have any intentions behind it. Nothing wrong with telling a woman she's beautiful with a wink to back it up. If it makes them smile about themselves a little, then your job is done.
    I don't flirt with women I don't know though. Too much risk & I don't particularly like being kicked in the balls. That's never happened yet & I aim to keep it that way too.
  • pilarslayer
    pilarslayer Posts: 234 Member
    I can flirt but, choose not to because I haven't had good reactions from girls. they seem to jump the gun and think I want to date them or they just label me creepy.
  • Zac1644
    Zac1644 Posts: 1,173 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I'm a great flirt in writing, but IRL, if I think a guy is cute, I clam up because I'm super shy. Unless it's someone I know and isn't available anyway. Then I can flirt his socks off cause there's no pressure on me.

    I laughed entirely too hard at this! Love it :)

  • pilarslayer
    pilarslayer Posts: 234 Member
    ahh don't worry about him
  • Zac1644
    Zac1644 Posts: 1,173 Member
    edited August 2017
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I'm a great flirt in writing, but IRL, if I think a guy is cute, I clam up because I'm super shy. Unless it's someone I know and isn't available anyway. Then I can flirt his socks off cause there's no pressure on me.

    I laughed entirely too hard at this! Love it :)

    Dude, why you laughing at me?

    because it takes guts to admit what you just did. Also your word choices were funny :P

    It's a compliment, relax ;)
  • Zac1644
    Zac1644 Posts: 1,173 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I'm a great flirt in writing, but IRL, if I think a guy is cute, I clam up because I'm super shy. Unless it's someone I know and isn't available anyway. Then I can flirt his socks off cause there's no pressure on me.

    I laughed entirely too hard at this! Love it :)

    Dude, why you laughing at me?

    because it takes guts to admit what you just did. and your word choices were funny :P

    Ahhhhh.... well thanks. :)

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  • pilarslayer
    pilarslayer Posts: 234 Member
    you sly dog you
  • Zac1644
    Zac1644 Posts: 1,173 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I'm a great flirt in writing, but IRL, if I think a guy is cute, I clam up because I'm super shy. Unless it's someone I know and isn't available anyway. Then I can flirt his socks off cause there's no pressure on me.

    I laughed entirely too hard at this! Love it :)

    Dude, why you laughing at me?

    because it takes guts to admit what you just did. and your word choices were funny :P

    Ahhhhh.... well thanks. :)

    bxffl3sohznk.jpg

    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    Zac1644 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I'm a great flirt in writing, but IRL, if I think a guy is cute, I clam up because I'm super shy. Unless it's someone I know and isn't available anyway. Then I can flirt his socks off cause there's no pressure on me.

    I laughed entirely too hard at this! Love it :)

    Dude, why you laughing at me?

    because it takes guts to admit what you just did. Also your word choices were funny :P

    It's a compliment, relax ;)

    It's a good thing I saw the dog winking at me before I saw your edited addition telling me to relax. lol

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  • johnw83
    johnw83 Posts: 6,219 Member
    its ok to flirt
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    I had an ex who was a huge flirt. For some reason girls always flirted with him too. I found it hilarious. I loved to watch them go at it.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Me personally, I don't know how to flirt even tho I've been called one several times.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    I have a naturally flirty personality. I can't help it if people get the wrong impression. Now if I start talking dirty to you, you know I'm interested :wink:
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I have no game.
  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    pudgy1977 wrote: »
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    :lol: I think this is cute.
  • OkChargerFan
    OkChargerFan Posts: 371 Member
    I like bread ;)
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    dunno.


    what are you wearing?
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    I have been told I am a flirt too, I know I do it here. It's just for fun and to kill time but in public, I am told I flirt. I don't think I do. I am just nice, I joke around, make small talk and I am polite. I think people confuse that with flirting.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    I have been told I am a flirt too, I know I do it here. It's just for fun and to kill time but in public, I am told I flirt. I don't think I do. I am just nice, I joke around, make small talk and I am polite. I think people confuse that with flirting.

    I've never been called a flirt irl, only online. Possibly because I'm not as shy? But it's the same.. if you single someone out and interact with them, is that flirting? Is telling someone they have a nice penis flirting? I dunno, I don't get it.
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  • browneyedgirl749
    browneyedgirl749 Posts: 4,984 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    Same! We can't help it if people get the wrong impression. We are who we are.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    I have been told I am a flirt too, I know I do it here. It's just for fun and to kill time but in public, I am told I flirt. I don't think I do. I am just nice, I joke around, make small talk and I am polite. I think people confuse that with flirting.

    I've never been called a flirt irl, only online. Possibly because I'm not as shy? But it's the same.. if you single someone out and interact with them, is that flirting? Is telling someone they have a nice penis flirting? I dunno, I don't get it.

    I think telling them they have a nice peniz is sexual harassment and crosses the flirting threshold but I have come to find most guys don't care. You just told them they have a nice peniz. That's the only thing they are thinking about at that moment. Then I reach in and steal their wallet.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    I have been told I am a flirt too, I know I do it here. It's just for fun and to kill time but in public, I am told I flirt. I don't think I do. I am just nice, I joke around, make small talk and I am polite. I think people confuse that with flirting.

    This paragraph makes me feel like you're undressing me with your eyes. Dirty bird.

    Well, in this case you are correct.
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    Dang I said you could touch the tip
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Sometimes I wonder if flirting is perceived differently between the sexes. I've been told I'm a flirt here but it's usually only because I'm going for the easy joke. And I like to tease people in general. I think women understand this better than men possibly?

    I have been told I am a flirt too, I know I do it here. It's just for fun and to kill time but in public, I am told I flirt. I don't think I do. I am just nice, I joke around, make small talk and I am polite. I think people confuse that with flirting.

    I've never been called a flirt irl, only online. Possibly because I'm not as shy? But it's the same.. if you single someone out and interact with them, is that flirting? Is telling someone they have a nice penis flirting? I dunno, I don't get it.

    I think telling them they have a nice peniz is sexual harassment and crosses the flirting threshold but I have come to find most guys don't care. You just told them they have a nice peniz. That's the only thing they are thinking about at that moment. Then I reach in and steal their wallet.

    the jokes on you.

    ..........the only thing in my wallet is my Parole Officer's Business Card, a Crumpled Parking Ticket and a Chuckie Cheeze Club Card
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