Did I just ruin my diet??

My daily caloric deficit is only 300. Does that mean that my whole week will go to waste if I eat too much on my cheat day? Because I just ate too much on my cheat day lol

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  • Lillymoo01
    Lillymoo01 Posts: 2,865 Member
    edited January 2018
    How much is too much? If it were less than 2100 calories there will be a slight loss. Around 2100 calories there will be no change. Above and there will be a small gain.

    Either way don't feel guilty. Just work out why you went over to help prevent it from happening too often and get back on that weight loss horse because the damage done would have been minimal.
  • dragon_girl26
    dragon_girl26 Posts: 2,187 Member
    What are you calling "too much" in this case?
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    edited January 2018
    calorie wise ...maybe for the week? Depends what all you ate. But you didnt ruin the benefits of the healthier food youve probably been eating, Or the practice of a deficit youve had. I wouldnt recommend doing it often. But i wouldnt call it "ruining" your diet to occasionally go over

    edit: For what its worth i think cheat days are stupid, You cheat no one but yourself. Im down for treats...Even going over calories...But my body still knows what im eating and i accept whatever consequence that brings or whatever benefit from not eating the huge amounts of calories or whatever. Calling it cheat doesnt negate the calories
  • FitLaughLove
    FitLaughLove Posts: 125 Member
    Thanks for all the replies! I’ve been staying between 1100 and 1200. I’ve calculated my maintenance and it’s around 1500. (Im a short person) Today I probably hit around 2500 calories.
  • JaydedMiss
    JaydedMiss Posts: 4,286 Member
    edited January 2018
    Thanks for all the replies! I’ve been staying between 1100 and 1200. I’ve calculated my maintenance and it’s around 1500. (Im a short person) Today I probably hit around 2500 calories.

    thn math says you canceled out around 3-3.5 ish days...if your guess is right .....still in deficit. Think about that next time though, Was it atleast something delicious and worth it :p ? My christmas meal canceled out a months work LOL. completely worth it
  • WinoGelato
    WinoGelato Posts: 13,454 Member
    Thanks for all the replies! I’ve been staying between 1100 and 1200. I’ve calculated my maintenance and it’s around 1500. (Im a short person) Today I probably hit around 2500 calories.

    How short are we talking? This is your TDEE you calculated? Using what method/site?

    How long have you been using MFP and what results have you had so far? Do you use a food scale? Do you exercise?
  • MarkusDarwath
    MarkusDarwath Posts: 393 Member
    threec wrote: »
    Probably pretty much... just out of curiosity what is the point of a cheat day? Why can’t you just fit what you want into your calories? I get 1200 a day to lose a pound a week if I want something outside my calories I either make it fit or work for it

    Perhaps because you know in advance most of your eating will be done away from home, with food made by others, so that accurate logging is impossible?
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    this is why i dont advocate cheat days. make what you want to eat fit.
  • stanmann571
    stanmann571 Posts: 5,727 Member
    One day a week is too often for a real cheat day.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    In the bigger picture, you can't really ruin anything in a day...weight loss and weight management in general is all about the long game, not day to day minutia...
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    One day a week is too often for a real cheat day.

    i get 3 legitimate i dont give a *kitten* days a year.

    my birthday, xmas day, and thanksgiving.

    other than that, no. not to say over days dont happen, but days over MAINTENANCE are REALLY rare. I at least try to balance out those accidental days with more exercise, or cutting back a bit on subsequent days to try and even it out a bit.
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  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    amyepdx wrote: »
    You can’t “ruin”’your “diet” with one meal. Play the long game.

    You can wipe out your weekly defecit with one meal.....some may think that ruined it.

    I think the point was to look at the bigger picture...when you're playing the long game, a day is completely irrelevant...
  • SundropEclipse
    SundropEclipse Posts: 84 Member
    Even if you ate an extra 3k on a single day the worst you'll see is a bit of extra waste weight (also water weight if it's heavy in sodium) on the scale for a day or two. I tend to eat more on Saturdays and the weight is usually gone by Monday morning.
  • kdbulger
    kdbulger Posts: 396 Member
    I like to look at my calories in versus calories out on a weekly basis when it feels like that cheat day is going to ruin everything. We know that a lb of fat loss is typically 3500 calories of deficit. Maybe you went over today, but it's what you do for the other 6 days of the week that will make the difference.

    Shifting my perspective helps me both to not feel really bad about those occasional days when things got out of control, but also to remain consistent and get back to my normal groove as quickly as I can. It's the consistency that gets you places in the long run.
  • stanmann571
    stanmann571 Posts: 5,727 Member
    One day a week is too often for a real cheat day.

    i get 3 legitimate i dont give a *kitten* days a year.

    my birthday, xmas day, and thanksgiving.

    other than that, no. not to say over days dont happen, but days over MAINTENANCE are REALLY rare. I at least try to balance out those accidental days with more exercise, or cutting back a bit on subsequent days to try and even it out a bit.

    Honestly, for me, it's a little more often, but no more than 6 a year while in a deficit. And honestly, if it's more than 1 a month, you might as well just adjust your deficit. But I fit BWW inside my deficit over the holidays, so.... YEAH... Thanksgiving Went nuts, My birthday... Probably was within deficit or at least close... 4th of July... Yeah...
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    One day a week is too often for a real cheat day.

    i get 3 legitimate i dont give a *kitten* days a year.

    my birthday, xmas day, and thanksgiving.

    other than that, no. not to say over days dont happen, but days over MAINTENANCE are REALLY rare. I at least try to balance out those accidental days with more exercise, or cutting back a bit on subsequent days to try and even it out a bit.

    Honestly, for me, it's a little more often, but no more than 6 a year while in a deficit. And honestly, if it's more than 1 a month, you might as well just adjust your deficit. But I fit BWW inside my deficit over the holidays, so.... YEAH... Thanksgiving Went nuts, My birthday... Probably was within deficit or at least close... 4th of July... Yeah...

    mine fall 3 months in a row - nov, dec, and january.

    lololol
  • TeaBea
    TeaBea Posts: 14,517 Member
    My daily caloric deficit is only 300. Does that mean that my whole week will go to waste if I eat too much on my cheat day? Because I just ate too much on my cheat day lol

    Depends, how many calories were in your cheat day?

    Let's say you maintained your 300 calorie deficit 6 days out of 7 (6x300=1800). If you ate above your maintenance calories by 1800 then yes, you wiped out your weekly deficit. There are those who do a cheat meal instead of a cheat day.
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    Yesterday I lost control and ate everything for lunch. To stop eating, I lay in bed with my eyes closed for an hour.
    Afterward I got to work exercising and cardio burned off every thing with 3 hours of treadmill work. Yes, 3 hours. I got my food log back to green and did not bother trying to get my macros in order. Today, I checked in with a loss, so my week of dieting is not ruined, and I've paid closer attention to getting more protein today. That's how to ask, "Have I ruined it?" and answer with a most emphatic "No!".