Homemaker and mother of 2 can't get to the gym

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  • I am also a mother of 2 that never felt comfortable with the gym daycare. I get up early during the week (say 6 am during the summer and 5 am during the school year) and workout with DVDs. I love anything Jillian Michaels and Bob Harper put out. I also started p90x 6 weeks ago and LOVE it. It is a great workout that makes you feel like you are going to the gym. I will say the first week or two of working out that early is tough, but if you stick with it, it gets to where you love it because of the added morning energy. You also get to add in some extra calories early. :) Another option, if you prefer the gym, is to get up before your husband goes to work or after he gets home. Try some of these suggestions and you will figure out a time.
  • kensky
    kensky Posts: 472 Member
    There's a gazillion folks on here that made amazing progress just through DVD programs. I love hearing about how folks kids will follow their moves, get out their own wee dumbbells, etc.

    As folks said earlier, if your kids are small enough you can take them in jogging strollers on walks/runs. I see decent strollers regularly at consignment shops and thrift stores.

    For me, I love the gym and love getting that break in the day for time that is absolutely devoted to me. With that said, I know it's easy for me to say "go gym!" now that my youngest is the ripe old age of 4 (and loves the crap teevee and lovey old ladies that come with an hour of kid room playtime). I do get that leaving pre-verbal tots with minimum wage earners and a Barney show on the teevee bolted to the wall can be a bit of a leap. For me, it's worth the extra screen-time my littles are exposed to in order for me to be more fully present with them the remaining (constant) hours I am with them, all the livelong day.

    If the gym issue is truly one where you are uncomfortable with leaving them because of concerns regarding their care, why not talk to other parents who leave their children there. Also, talk to the child care staff about your concerns and let them know your parameters re: "good care". I was never comfortable with my toddlers crying in a strange place without me, if I could help it, and I asked them to call me (they did the PA system at my gym back in FL) if my boy-kid was fussing. This gave me a lot of peace of mind. Believe me, they don't want to keep a sad babe if they know there is a mama ready and willing to scoop and go. You can ask for a trial period at the gym for just this reason...."I don't know how my kids will like the child care." Some places even have video monitors that you can check to see that things are okay.

    You have valid concerns but none of them are brick walls to getting to move with intention every day.
  • My children remember waking up to me exercising to DVDs in the living room several times a week. Was in much better shape in those days (went from PT to FT when they got older). All of these suggestions are great. I agree - 'how bad do you want it?'

    Good luck! :smile:
  • ladybg81
    ladybg81 Posts: 1,553 Member
    I do all of my workouts at home. I work full time and have a 2 year old. If I can find time you exercise, certainly you can as well. I like the 30 day shred my Jillian Michaels. It is a 20-25 minute workout. Quick and you get great results. Get you a running stroller and take your kids with you. I put my son in his wagon and pull him along behind me while I walk/ run. He needs to fresh air just as much as I do. This may sound harsh, but you really have to quit making excuses and just do it. Once I did that, I lost all the weight I wanted plus some and am in the best shape of my life. I've got a long way to go in terms of fitness, but I am a lot further along than I was yesterday.
  • biederwoman
    biederwoman Posts: 26 Member
    I'm loving all these responses! I'm a stay at home mom of three. I often use the excuse that it's hard to get everyone ready and get to the YMCA. (We checked out the daycare at ours and have gotten to know some of the people who work there. Our kids always have fun. They will often take them outside and do fun things with them like an obstacle course!) It's just that though, an excuse! I also have the Xbox 360 Kinect (demos are great!) and really enjoy being able to work out at home. Much better than a video and it really gets your heart pumping! Thank you for your post! I have gotten a lot of great ideas from it :)
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