Trying To Cut Out Alcohol...HELP ME!

Does anyone have any suggestions on what I could eat or drink when I get the urge to have alcohol?
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  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
    It really depends on what kind of alcohol you like. If I'm just wanting to sip on something, I'll have hot tea or coffee. If I'm wanting something bubbly or sweet, I'll do diet soda or some sparkling water.
  • cathipa
    cathipa Posts: 2,991 Member
    It really depends on what kind of alcohol you like. If I'm just wanting to sip on something, I'll have hot tea or coffee. If I'm wanting something bubbly or sweet, I'll do diet soda or some sparkling water.

    ^^^this
  • teknosprite
    teknosprite Posts: 50 Member
    I'm not sure, to be honest, but I am trying to cut out/cut down on alcohol myself. For me its definitely habit (not physical), so I'm trying to find things to fill my time up. Like trying to go to the gym after work rather than having a drink ... but that's really hard. Trying then to go in the AM before work, get home a little later from work and then need to just stay busy until bed. I need more hobbies I guess! Let me know if you find something that works!
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    Other tips are that it helped me a lot to change up my routine and do things that didn't have such a strong association with doing them while drinking, if that's a possibility.
  • mph323
    mph323 Posts: 3,565 Member
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    I liked wines, so it was helpful for me to make iced tea with a bunch of different flavors or combinations of flavor I liked and then drink it out of a wine glass so I could feel like I was having something special in the evening. I'm sure that would horrify some people, but it worked well for me.

    I'd make the iced tea and chill it overnight, and I never added sugar since I don't like sweet iced tea (and never liked sweet wine).

    Sparkling water and infused water (water with fruit in it) also helped; just something that felt more special than plain water.

    I used to do this with diet coke - glad to know I'm not alone! :)
  • sstrack123
    sstrack123 Posts: 171 Member
    I am soon to be 4 yrs alcohol free and actual did the same with filling wine glass. I had the habit of always having a beer or wine or margarita in my hand. Good luck!
  • fiddletime
    fiddletime Posts: 1,868 Member
    I stopped drinking 7 months ago and consider Kirkland’s sparking water my treat with dinner. I couldn’t lose weight with alcohol even though I logged it because I overate once or twice a week. Not the alcohol’s “fault”, but it did loosen up my inhibitions and affected my resolve.
  • fragileelegance
    fragileelegance Posts: 102 Member
    It really depends on what kind of alcohol you like. If I'm just wanting to sip on something, I'll have hot tea or coffee. If I'm wanting something bubbly or sweet, I'll do diet soda or some sparkling water.

    I’m usually drinking tequila or red wine. I just had some coffee and it supressed the urge...thank you!

  • fragileelegance
    fragileelegance Posts: 102 Member
    I'm not sure, to be honest, but I am trying to cut out/cut down on alcohol myself. For me its definitely habit (not physical), so I'm trying to find things to fill my time up. Like trying to go to the gym after work rather than having a drink ... but that's really hard. Trying then to go in the AM before work, get home a little later from work and then need to just stay busy until bed. I need more hobbies I guess! Let me know if you find something that works!

    Had some coffee and it took the urge away. I’ve been over eating to compensate for not having any liquor so I really need alternatives...I’ll let you know if anything else works but coffee worked for me (at least for today lol)
  • fragileelegance
    fragileelegance Posts: 102 Member
    edited January 2018
    fiddletime wrote: »
    I stopped drinking 7 months ago and consider Kirkland’s sparking water my treat with dinner. I couldn’t lose weight with alcohol even though I logged it because I overate once or twice a week. Not the alcohol’s “fault”, but it did loosen up my inhibitions and affected my resolve.

    I know what you mean, after the drink always comes the food. Ill look into the water, thanks!
  • tadiqueo
    tadiqueo Posts: 1 Member
    I haven't drank in 3 months and lost 20 pounds without doing much more than walking regularly. Alcohol messes with your body's metabolism, swells your organs, and makes midnight eating irresistible. I was told to load up on B vitamins about an hour before my favorite times to drink to help with cravings. I don't know if it's a placebo, but I think it works. Good luck
  • grinning_chick
    grinning_chick Posts: 765 Member
    edited January 2018

    I’m usually drinking tequila or red wine. I just had some coffee and it supressed the urge...thank you!

    There are nearly alcohol free wines out there...http://www.frewines.com/wines

    Cooks Illustrated blurb regarding: https://www.cooksillustrated.com/how_tos/5445-dealcoholized-wine
  • Kelkat405
    Kelkat405 Posts: 166 Member
    I learned from my friends in AA that once you cut out alcohol that many people develop a “sweet tooth” per say. That’s your body craving the sugar that was in the alcohol. So maybe try some healthy sweet treats. Fruit, Dole dippers, halo top, sweet rice cakes, etc.
  • 3bambi3
    3bambi3 Posts: 1,650 Member
    What about non-alcoholic beer and wine? It would give you the taste without the booze to help you cut back. I know a few people who have done this when they wanted to lessen their alcohol intake but still wanted the feeling of having a beer in their hand.
  • jlynn1991
    jlynn1991 Posts: 50 Member
    Tequila and red wine were my go to as well. I never had the goal to stop drinking but when I got serious about changing bad habits and stopped going out much it just sort of happened. Now I get stressed and think oh wine would be amazing right now, but instead I opt for flavored teas. There are sooo many teas out there! Once you realize how good you feel without alcohol and see the results in weight loss and overall self-being, it becomes much easier to say no.
  • dsboohead
    dsboohead Posts: 1,899 Member
    Does anyone have any suggestions on what I could eat or drink when I get the urge to have alcohol?
    Admire you for getting a handle of what you feel is a problem. I can't even have one glass of wine cause it leads to two which leads to munchies :(
    Alcohol led to significant weight gain and now I don't do it I feel soooooo much better!
    I've gotten into ginger hot tea cause it is a nice pungent substitute!
  • dsboohead
    dsboohead Posts: 1,899 Member
    Alcohol made me kinda puffy too as well as gave me a ruddy undertone :s
  • Teresastandard
    Teresastandard Posts: 5 Member
    I’m trying alcohol free for thirty days, started 1/13/18. Fighting the evening wine habit with Pelligrino and hot tea. Definitely clearer headed and easier to get going in the morning. And I’ve lost four lbs. Two years ago moved to a house with a wine cellar - which is awesome except my two glasses a weekend changed to two glasses a day.
  • motivatedmartha
    motivatedmartha Posts: 1,108 Member
    @dsboohead I agree hot ginger tea is great. My husband gave up alcohol 3 years ago now for a specific health problem and drinks Becks alcohol free or San Miguel zero as he finds other soft drinks to sweet. Hate to admit but I halved my alcohol intake by adding water to my wine as a calorie reducer - now I can't drink it neat. I am down to about 3 units a week or less while hubby is at 0.
  • dsboohead
    dsboohead Posts: 1,899 Member
    @dsboohead I agree hot ginger tea is great. My husband gave up alcohol 3 years ago now for a specific health problem and drinks Becks alcohol free or San Miguel zero as he finds other soft drinks to sweet. Hate to admit but I halved my alcohol intake by adding water to my wine as a calorie reducer - now I can't drink it neat. I am down to about 3 units a week or less while hubby is at 0.

    Before you know it...you'll find yourself saying "whats the point?!"
  • Cyprus_Girl84
    Cyprus_Girl84 Posts: 12 Member
    La Croix, decaf coffee with unsweetened almond milk, decaf herbal tea, soda water

    if out, soda water with lime

    give yourself permission to have other things because quitting alcohol is a big deal

    there is a great sobriety community on Instagram if you feel you may have a problem controlling whether or not you drink or think you may want to lead an alcohol-free life
  • strshllw84
    strshllw84 Posts: 256 Member
    If I have the urge for a cocktail I mix juice and sprite. Pineapple juice with sprite is suprisingly good. So is raspberry lemonade and sprite. Sparking water is an alright substitute too, I just can't drink too many because they give me migraines if I drink them too often.
  • crs256
    crs256 Posts: 1 Member
    Spindrift sodas are great for this. They have a little squeeze of fruit (instead of sugar substitutes) that I find meets the craving. They range between 2 and 15 calories, depending on the flavor. Often found at target.
  • amyf2000
    amyf2000 Posts: 44 Member
    When I quit drinking my sweet tooth came back in a big way! It is really ok to eat what you want if you find cutting out alcohol to be difficult - I had a three or so drink a day habit and quitting really destabilized my body chemistry for a while. I found I couldn't just substitute a non alcoholic drink - I had to completely change my schedule and how I spent my time. It was hard. But it was WORTH IT - not just for the health benefits of being sober but for the HAPPINESS. I'm so much happier now. I keep a variety of sparkling waters and fancy sodas and ginger beers on hand for relaxation and to take to parties. Club soda and lime is also good (I was a gin and tonic or vodka tonic drinker). Full disclosure: I had to go to AA to get sober and it was marvelously helpful. If you've wondered about it, give it a try. The people I met there were amazing.
  • Lean59man
    Lean59man Posts: 714 Member
    Get the booze out of your house completely. Don't go to social situations where booze is present.

  • googsgirl
    googsgirl Posts: 76 Member
    I cut out booze completely 10 months ago. Sparkling water ( zero calories) was my go to and I'd put it in a wine glass . For about three months I drank so much sparkling water it was nuts. If I went out, I'd bring non alcoholic beer or wine and have a few. Now I rarely drink the sparkling water and it's super rare for me to have the non alcoholic substitutes. I also eat a ton of chocolate and deserts. I work out 6 times a week and lost 17 lbs. I'm 47 and I weigh the same I did at 16 years old.
    Prior to quitting drinking, I couldn't lose a pound. After a few months, not drinking was way easier and I actually find I'm more relaxed and genuinely social without it. Good luck to you. For me it's the healthiest choice I've made. :)