Grumpy Hubby makes me want to eat....

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  • BroiledNotFried
    BroiledNotFried Posts: 446 Member
    It sounds like you are in an emotionally abusive relationship.

    I'd sit down, calmly with him and ask him if he wants to live the rest of his life as an unhappy person. Whether he wants his kids to grow up in an unhappy home, or if you both can put on your big boy pants and work towards a change. Ask him what to do to change. Ask him to come up with some solutions.
  • tdotwitch
    tdotwitch Posts: 25 Member
    It took 12 yrs of me telling him that he was suffering from depression b4 he figured it out. he's epileptic and he realized it was aggravating his epilepsy. Men don't like to admit they need help. one technique I've used with him is freezing him out for a couple of hrs. You don't speak or look at him till he's calm enough to talk. You could also try going to visit your family or friends for a couple of days. Men never think b4 they open their mouths and it can be hurtful. Just don't let it get to you so bad that you're the one suffering. If he's doing it daily you're gonna have to come up with a plan cuz it's not healthy or fair to you.
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