HELP! IF & CALORIE DEFICIT?????????????

Hey everyone I need some help, I am IF, I love it and I'm sticking to it. The schedule the lifestyle all of it works for me however! I AM NOT LOOSING WEIGHT after the 1st few days. I lost almost 11lbs then put two back on and have not been able to loose them! I TRACK EVERYTHING/ I MEASURE EVERYTHING. 1 serving is 1 serving. If I eat one piece of something I track it because I know it's important to be accountable for myself. SO....My begging question to the community is does anybody have a true formula/ suggestion for the correct # of Calorie Deficit to do with IF? I am currently 217, 5'3 (Female) and lost........ When I pull up some calculators they say I should be eating 2100-2600. I've been eating 1200, no more than 1300 if I accidentally go over, PLEASE PLEASE HELP! TY!
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  • Beautywalk
    Beautywalk Posts: 9 Member
    Remember that weight can fluctuate because of things like water retention, lack of sleep, medications, and stress. Also, I don't know if others have noticed this, but I often experience a several day lag in weight loss. It's like: lose a half lb, gain 2, then lose 1, then all of a sudden, I've lost 3. Give yourself time and listen to your body.
  • dragon_girl26
    dragon_girl26 Posts: 2,187 Member
    The main issue here at the moment is unreasonable expectations. If it's really only been a few days, you need to give it more time. Patience will be your best friend during this process. You didn't gain it all.in a few days, and you won't lose it in a few days either.
    Patience, grasshopper.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    You need patience and a bit of a change in expectations.

    Winner winner chicken dinner!!
  • BeyandBeautiful
    BeyandBeautiful Posts: 8 Member
    My expectation isnt to loose 3.4.5 etc lbs a day or even a week; but if the average is 1 -2 a week, seeing nothing or .3oz then seeing it go right back up the next day isn't helping to stay motivational. It's been almost 2 weeks with the stall/ plateau
    Thanks again
  • cheryldumais
    cheryldumais Posts: 1,907 Member
    Keep in mind that often people lose a big amount of water at the beginning of a change in diet. In a few days you say you lost 11 lbs. That was not all fat. Once your body realizes this is a new lifestyle some of the water comes back but you continue to lose fat. Sometimes the water gain outweighs the fat. Secondly your bowels can hold alot of weight depending on how much bulk you eat. Believe it or not that can affect your weight considerably. Third if you are still menstruating a water gain is not uncommon just before your period and can easily add 2 or 3 pounds, I'm sure you have experienced that before.

    Relax, I understand your shock after such a big loss to see a gain when you are continuing to work at your program. It will go down again but depending on how much you have to lose you may see it slow down considerably.

    IF does not make you lose any differently than eating three meals a day as long as the calories are the same. What it seems to do for some people is help them control cravings.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    You have lost 9lbs since you started, that fantastic. Your expectations in regards to weight loss need a different mind set, use a trending weight app, keep doing what you're doing and in a months time see where your loss is then.
  • dragon_girl26
    dragon_girl26 Posts: 2,187 Member
    edited February 2018
    My expectation isnt to loose 3.4.5 etc lbs a day or even a week; but if the average is 1 -2 a week, seeing nothing or .3oz then seeing it go right back up the next day isn't helping to stay motivational. It's been almost 2 weeks with the stall/ plateau
    Thanks again

    But two weeks isn't a plateau. A plateau is aboit 4 or more weeks of no loss. It's very common to lose a large amount of weight in the first week or two, then see nothing for a cpuple of weeks.
    The thing about weight loss is that it isn't linear. There will be some weeks where you might see weight loss, and some you won't. It's highly unlikely that you will see a drop every week like clockwork. The 1-2 lbs per week is really just, as you said, an average. Weight fluctuations are especially true for women...water retention from salty meals, new exercise routines, time of the month...all of those things can affect the scale and have nothing to do with gaining fat.
    The advice to get a trending app is good so that you can see the trends, rather than get caught up in the daily fluctuations.
    It also helps to set non scale goals for yourself, so that your entire focus isn't on the scale.
  • BeyandBeautiful
    BeyandBeautiful Posts: 8 Member
    <3 Again ty ALL for the feedback. There are several other things you could've been doing with your precious time and you all have stopped and taken some time out your day to answer or respond to me and that is really appreciated.

    My true question here and maybe I wasn't extremely clear in the original post is WHAT is the range of calories I should be eating because I felt like some of my stall while working really hard we're becoming or GOING to potentially become a problem because 1200 calories even though recommended by MFP seemed really off/low. In other words I feel like I was doing everything right and working very hard; better, stronger, harder than when I initially started and I would not see a portion of a oz on the scale move. Not that I was looking for pounds, but just some sort of indication that I was still on the right path. This is all very new for me so please understand that; as we all have been beginners once before. I've been consistent and although I might vent; even if the weight loss will slow down; the mental clarity and just how I feel about life, myself in general etc have all improved; so despite venting; I do plan to make this MY LIFESTYLE change and i'm happy with it. With that being said; I just want to make sure I am sticking to the right guns. Disclosure; I DO HAVE PCOS/ I am not currently on my cycle but I am well aware of how that pesky mother nature affects a woman's hormones over multiple aspects. I weigh an extra 4lbs every time I do periodically get my cycle since it is inconsistent. I didn't just jump onto the band wagon or join a trend or walk in blind sided; I have been doing research on this topic( IF) for days, weeks, months hours endlessly before I was able to commit to this. The answer that is always hard finding however is CALORIE CONSUMPTION RECOMMENDATION. I am working towards 1500 now and then GRADUALLY INTO 1800 IF NEED BE. WHAT I DO NOT WANT TO DO; is just jump into 1500 + calories and start eating things to make up the difference AND SCREW UP ALL THE HARD WORK I'VE DONE THUSFAR. I meal plan and meal prep. analyze things before I make them etc. I'm still human and I am a picky eater so this is again a new adjustment for me. Once i get more experienced with this **new lifestyle** then I will be better at getting the picture together quicker. I admit I feel like when I focus on something I have OCD/ I like to be an achiever and I try to avoid f'ups so long story short, its a work in progress to not over-obsess on things as I usually do because I can cause myself stress= cortisol and lead me in the opposite direction. I'm taking it slow because that's what works for me. Again guys, thanks so much for the wonderful feedback!!!!!!!!!!

    I am going to make my food diary public, my notes/ comments are for myself to go back and reflect on how I did/ felt for the day so many of the things if you choose to read them will not have anything to do with IF its just for me.

    I am going to check out the app you guys recommended. I have been tracking weight in MFP and it does draw a chart of how progress is coming along but I am assuming not as awesome as the other app. I will download it today and give it a go!

    I wish I had the will power to just throw the scale out, right now I feel married to it HOWEVER I am planning to not check so much (not everyday) maybe twice a week can suffice if I put it in the garage in a non easily accessible place or stick it on a shelf because im super short and need a stepping stool to get things down THEN I can overcome checking everyday because out of sight/ out of mind. I've also started using KETO strips; although I KNOW they are not 1000% reliable, I am finding my "what works". I use the brand SMACK FAT.

    THANKS AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!! <3<3
  • amh927
    amh927 Posts: 33 Member
    I weigh daily. And today I was up 1.2 lbs. for me when I lose a large number the scale goes back up briefly, I stay the same for a few days, then it starts dropping again. I think of it like, when I drop a lot of weight at once my body has to catch up. It’s nice having a daily weigh in for this. And actually expected the weight gain today and wasn’t upset in the slightest.
  • BeyandBeautiful
    BeyandBeautiful Posts: 8 Member
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    3bambi3 wrote: »
    What? How much muscle do you think she is going to put on while eating at a deficit with no progressive lifting program?

    Also, a pound of muscle burns, what, 6 more calories per pound per day than fat? I don't really think suggesting that she focus on muscle growth is going to help her current situation...
    A pound of muscle burns about 6 calories per day. A pound of fat burns about 2 calories per day. So if you were to gain 10 pounds of muscle (which is a very significant amount and will take a considerable amount of time) and lose 10 pounds of fat, you'd be burning 40 more calories per day (60 calories burned by extra muscle, -20 calories due to loss of fat).

    40 calories a day is not significant.

    3bambi3 wrote: »
    ...Proper, accurate logging, eating at a deficit consistently, continuing with her exercise and learning patience is all that is needed.
    Agreed. I'd only qualify it by saing "eating at a reasonable deficit consistently" - OP should let MFP calculate her deficit rather than arbitrarily selecting 1200 calories (as many do), then have patience, trust the process and make adjustments as necessary.

    MFP caculated 1200 calories. My thing with the plateau is >>>> Is 1200 calories enough? Ive been maintaining it however is it going to be the best thing for someone in my shoes. IMO the more and more i thought about it; I felt like the 1200 cal wasn't enough combined w/ 1200 cal. Now like I say; i've been doing the 1200 and I've been fine combined w/ 16:8 IF but as I get into additional weight loss; say im 215/216 right now, when I get to 185 MFP IS STILL going to say 1200 cal for a regular deficit(They don't go below 1200) . When I use other algorithms they tell me 1800-2200 is what I should be eating a day. Now because I track and monitor everything I eat now; I can't imagine how to eat 2200 Cal, I ate close to 600 or so at lunch and I still have food left over and im full right now. I DO NOT want to start stuffing myself either just to meet a calorie minimum BUT I also feel like maybe I should be setting my goals at 1500 or something close and just stay within that range. A pound of fat is 3500 cal. well if I should be eating about 2400 a day to maintain and I cut out 1200 a day=1200 deficit and 1200 to eat ='s a 8400 per week calorie deficit. My true question and original reason for posting was to get some insight on my stall and if it had been or would be an issue as time goes on. Thanks for the help guys really appreciate yall!
  • BeyandBeautiful
    BeyandBeautiful Posts: 8 Member
    edited February 2018
    Additional info:
    MFP caculated 1200 calories. My thing with the plateau is >>>> Is 1200 calories enough? Ive been maintaining it however is it going to be the best thing for someone in my shoes. IMO the more and more i thought about it; I felt like the 1200 cal wasn't enough combined w/ 1200 cal. Now like I say; i've been doing the 1200 and I've been fine combined w/ 16:8 IF but as I get into additional weight loss; say im 215/216 right now, when I get to 185 MFP IS STILL going to say 1200 cal for a regular deficit(They don't go below 1200) . When I use other algorithms they tell me 1800-2200 is what I should be eating a day. Now because I track and monitor everything I eat now; I can't imagine how to eat 2200 Cal, I ate close to 600 or so at lunch and I still have food left over and im full right now. I DO NOT want to start stuffing myself either just to meet a calorie minimum BUT I also feel like maybe I should be setting my goals at 1500 or something close and just stay within that range. A pound of fat is 3500 cal. well if I should be eating about 2400 a day to maintain and I cut out 1200 a day=1200 deficit and 1200 to eat ='s a 8400 per week calorie deficit. My true question and original reason for posting was to get some insight on my stall and if it had been or would be an issue as time goes on. Thanks for the help guys really appreciate yall!

    I have PCOS/ Insulin Resistance