Does it annoy anyone else...

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  • Mkleder
    Mkleder Posts: 289
    I don't even discuss it anymore. When someone asks what I'm doing to lose weight, I reply that if they ask, then they really don't want to know. These are folks I see in the lunch room daily. They know the answer, they're just hoping I will come up with a toll-free phone number for them to call.
  • alyssamiller77
    alyssamiller77 Posts: 891 Member
    oh man this annoys me soo much .. i have plenty of friends who are on a different diet every week.. like silly ones like the atkins- this is not healthy or sustainable ! but i agree with others there is nothing we can do to change there minds! and the usual reason i get when i question why there doing a specific diet is because apparently its the only thing that works for there body .. hmmm i dont think so ! man this is definetly one of my pet peeves! and then all of a sudden im the one who is in the wrong for eating wholegrain bread becuase its a carb ? no im not in the wrong.. this is called a blanced lifestyle! ok rant over. good post :)
    What annoys me are people like you who criticize Atkins without apparently knowing the first dam thing about it. It is both health and sustainable and I can post scientific studies which back that up. Can you?

    http://www.webmd.com/heart-disease/news/20090401/how-the-atkins-diet-fares-in-cholesterol

    http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/09/07/earlyshow/health/main6841541.shtml

    Two separate studies pointing to problems with the Atkins diet. Personally I don't care one way or the other, if that diet works for you great. The health benefits of being thinner probably outweigh any potential health risks it adds. Additionally, sustainability is a personal issue, what works for one person may not work for another. Finding a long-term diet you're comfortable with is the key to sustainability, not the diet's inherent design.

    The point I AM making though is don't start throwing studies around, because for every study you show me pointing one way on a topic, I'm sure I can find one that states the opposing conclusion (like remember when eggs were really bad?).

    I have read both of those studies (the actual study, not the news media digest version) and they are both idiotic. The first is a joke in that it followed 18 subjects for one month and it doesn't even appear the researcher had the subjects even do a correct Atkins diet.

    The second study is similarly a joke. Read Denise Menger tearing it a new one here: http://rawfoodsos.com/2010/09/08/brand-spankin-new-study-are-low-carb-meat-eaters-in-trouble/
    I'll sum up her comments in Cliff Notes: Many reporting the results of the research used the word 'causes' when at most this type of observational, non-controlled study can show correlations. They collected their data using the generally unreliable food frequency questionnaires. The 'low carb' subjects weren't even eating a low carb diet unless you count people who eat up to 60% of their calories as carbs. To associate anything that study found to 'low carb' or specifically Atkins is dumb because almost no one in it was actually doing a low carb diet.

    Maybe you should actually read the studies instead of the webmd or cbsnews digested versions?

    Apparently you missed my point completely, maybe you should have actually read my post. I'm not suggesting anything regarding the validity of the studies mentioned in these articles or the studies you mention. Nor do I care enough about this topic to actually take the time to go read through the actual reports from these studies. My point remains unchanged. You have an emmotional vesting in this (as you've displayed here) and then brought up the infamous "scientific studies" argument. My point, which I'll make again since I apparently didn't make it clear enough in the last post, is that I can show studies to both sides of any argument. And as far as the validity of the studies, that's a subjective topic that could be argued till we're all blue in the face. So why bother. If you've found a diet plan that works for you and that you feel you can commit to for the long term, then who cares about freakin' studies. Again, as I stated before, I am personally convinced that if you improve your body composition the health benefits from that will far outweigh any potential health risks your diet may come with.

    You should have read my original post, there really was some good stuff in there.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Nah. It's not worth being annoyed about.

    I do Weight Watchers and I know if you follow it, it works. A woman I work with said she tried WW and it didn't work, so she had bypass surgery.

    Since what bypass surgery does is force people to eat less (which is what you do on WW or calorie-counting), then that means WW didn't work for her because she didn't work it.

    But she really believes it was the fault of the diet and not her own. Is it worth an argument to tell her my thoughts? Nope.

    I just nod and smile. People are going to do what they're going to do. There are a lot of people out there who just simply refuse to believe that eating less and moving more works.
  • dsjohndrow
    dsjohndrow Posts: 1,820 Member
    I don't have that many people that want to discuss this with a man - so I am pretty lucky. I would be annoyed. I am down 54 lbs since I got started, and I am happy about that. I am not doing this with anyone else, or for anyone else. I just wanted to be at a weight I was happy about. I do enjoy when people who know me say you look great - but so far no one has asked how did you do it, or have you tried XYZ diet. Most of them see my NOOM posts on Facebook and see that I run 2 miles everyday at 5:45 am. ;)

    Just keep taking pictures and getting compliments!
  • montana_girl
    montana_girl Posts: 1,403 Member
    It doesn't annoy me so much that people do them, I mean so much of "dieting", as it were, is finding the thing that works for you. Where it gets annoying are the people who talk about how they're going to do this diet and their goal is to loose 20 lbs in a couple weeks or something like that. They talk about all the different diets they did, and you can tell they have no intention of continuing on once they reach their goal, that's what I find annoying. And honestly, it isn't annoying because they're talking and thinking that way, it's annoying because I want so badly to interrupt them and share my knowledge but I have to remind myself that I can't save the world. I try to just sit back and laugh knowing that their chance of success is extremely low but I can't because to me it's just more frustrating that they don't take the time to educate themselves and do things the right way.

    This!

    I have a friend who is forever doing the "diet of the month" to lose weight. In the 7 years I have been changing my lifestyle and losing a 115 pounds, she's done at least 4 different diets... and has lost maybe 20 pounds in all that time. Yep, took me a long time to lose weight, but it beats 7 years of dieting and not losing!

    I have finally gotten to the point I change the subject anytime weight, weightloss, dieting, or anything similiar come up in conversation. It's a waste of time to discuss it with her because she wants the quick fix and not something she can live with for a lifetime.
  • bevhols
    bevhols Posts: 43 Member
    You know what else is annoying? When someone constantly (and I mean ALL the time) complains about their weight to you (saying things like "I wish I was thin like YOU and not fat like ME!") but they turn around and eat 3 double cheeseburgers, large fry and large Coke from McDonald's and THEN stop at Dairy Queen for a nutter butter blizzard too.

    We all make decisions based on what WE want to do with our lives. I won't criticize how you eat, but really? Stop complaining at me if all you're going to do is stuff your face with junk. It drives me insane. If you aren't willing to change? You aren't going to lose weight.

    Really good points ... they need to recognize the concept of "calories in, calories out" ... for some of us that takes way too long, but we keep picking ourselves up and going forward ;-D BTW ... you are looking totally awesome!! Looking forward to having an equally fab profile picture about 47-57 lbs from now!
  • dave_in_delaware
    dave_in_delaware Posts: 49 Member
    Doesn't annoy me one bit. It's their life. They'll do whatever they WANT to do, regardless of what you say.

    Dieting alone will not keep weight off. Your body needs so much of everything to be healthy. And you have to exercise to burn the extra calories off. It's a simple formula if you think about it:

    Weight loss = calories burned off (exercise) > calories consumed (eaten/drank)
    Weight gain = calories consumed (eaten/drank) > calories burned off (exercise)

    Losing weight is a lifestyle CHANGE. It's not a one-month adjustment, or in a pill.

    2.5 months ago, I changed my eating and drinking habits, AND started the C25K program. I was sweating the fat out of my body, burning calories, PLUS eliminating empty stupid calories (soda and alcohol) from my dietary habits. I still eat sweets (I have a huge sweet tooth), but in serious moderation now. I didn't eliminate sweets because then I'd crave more and more. I eat 5 or 6 smaller meals each day instead of 2 or 3 HUGE ones.

    I've lost 35 pounds in those 2.5 months, and it was relatively easy. Will I stop running and exercising, and go back to my old habits of food/drink? Heck no, because I know that's NOT going to keep me where I am.

    Losing weight is HARD work, but it's worth it.
  • circusmom
    circusmom Posts: 662 Member
    Doesn't really annoy me, but in the case of my friend it concerns me.

    Close friend has PCOS, and has had a hard toime losing wieght. Let me also say I don't know how "hard" she has actually tried.
    Anyway she has decided to go to "Orion rapid weigth loss center".
    She starts to tell me about it and at first sounds okay. They start with what sounds like a routine physical, then she tells me she will be getting a weekly B complex shot. I'm thinking, "alright I've seem a few comments on here asking about B vitamins helping with weight loss, maybe something to look into."
    Now comes the "diet", first week no carbs, all meat for the first week. So I'm thinking similar to Atkins. Then she drops the Bomb, she has to stay with-in 700 to 850 cals. WHAT?! Oh then she adds, "It won't be a problem, they give you appetite surpressants."
    Again, WHAT?! Well of coarse your going to lose weight, your eating no carb, and only 700cal of meat. No wonder they give you the B complex shot, your body isn't getting enough fuel!!!
    This place is run by a DR! Wait...excuse me, Quack! She's on week three, and still at 700 to 850cal but can now have 20g of carbs from veggies. Only lost 10lbs, hum maybe cause your body is starving and holding on to anything and everything it can?????
    Oh wait, ...the best part, it costs $49.95 a week. Thats the summer special rate, regularly $69.95 a week.
    So like I said, annoyed, no. Concerned, oh yeah!!
  • I love your quote, it is clever and I've never heard anything like it. Did you write that?
  • It's only annoying when they're looking for advice "oh, you've lost weight, how did you do it?" and when I tell them they say "oh, well, maybe I can try something else."

    i've experienced this with so many friends! if you dont want to take my advice then why are you asking?!!?!?!
  • Scoobies87
    Scoobies87 Posts: 379
    It doesn't annoy me and here's why: THEY ARE TRYING and one of those fad diets is going to click a switch and someday they will be on the sustainable road to fitness.

    Ditto. One day they will get tired of putting all the weight back on after a fad diet-like me. It has taken me years to adopt a healthy attitude towards food and ignore all the s*$t diets in the magazines.
  • beernutz
    beernutz Posts: 136
    oh man this annoys me soo much .. i have plenty of friends who are on a different diet every week.. like silly ones like the atkins- this is not healthy or sustainable ! but i agree with others there is nothing we can do to change there minds! and the usual reason i get when i question why there doing a specific diet is because apparently its the only thing that works for there body .. hmmm i dont think so ! man this is definetly one of my pet peeves! and then all of a sudden im the one who is in the wrong for eating wholegrain bread becuase its a carb ? no im not in the wrong.. this is called a blanced lifestyle! ok rant over. good post :)
    What annoys me are people like you who criticize Atkins without apparently knowing the first dam thing about it. It is both health and sustainable and I can post scientific studies which back that up. Can you?

    http://www.webmd.com/heart-disease/news/20090401/how-the-atkins-diet-fares-in-cholesterol

    http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/09/07/earlyshow/health/main6841541.shtml

    Two separate studies pointing to problems with the Atkins diet. Personally I don't care one way or the other, if that diet works for you great. The health benefits of being thinner probably outweigh any potential health risks it adds. Additionally, sustainability is a personal issue, what works for one person may not work for another. Finding a long-term diet you're comfortable with is the key to sustainability, not the diet's inherent design.

    The point I AM making though is don't start throwing studies around, because for every study you show me pointing one way on a topic, I'm sure I can find one that states the opposing conclusion (like remember when eggs were really bad?).

    I have read both of those studies (the actual study, not the news media digest version) and they are both idiotic. The first is a joke in that it followed 18 subjects for one month and it doesn't even appear the researcher had the subjects even do a correct Atkins diet.

    The second study is similarly a joke. Read Denise Menger tearing it a new one here: http://rawfoodsos.com/2010/09/08/brand-spankin-new-study-are-low-carb-meat-eaters-in-trouble/
    I'll sum up her comments in Cliff Notes: Many reporting the results of the research used the word 'causes' when at most this type of observational, non-controlled study can show correlations. They collected their data using the generally unreliable food frequency questionnaires. The 'low carb' subjects weren't even eating a low carb diet unless you count people who eat up to 60% of their calories as carbs. To associate anything that study found to 'low carb' or specifically Atkins is dumb because almost no one in it was actually doing a low carb diet.

    Maybe you should actually read the studies instead of the webmd or cbsnews digested versions?

    Apparently you missed my point completely, maybe you should have actually read my post. I'm not suggesting anything regarding the validity of the studies mentioned in these articles or the studies you mention. Nor do I care enough about this topic to actually take the time to go read through the actual reports from these studies. My point remains unchanged. You have an emmotional vesting in this (as you've displayed here) and then brought up the infamous "scientific studies" argument. My point, which I'll make again since I apparently didn't make it clear enough in the last post, is that I can show studies to both sides of any argument. And as far as the validity of the studies, that's a subjective topic that could be argued till we're all blue in the face. So why bother. If you've found a diet plan that works for you and that you feel you can commit to for the long term, then who cares about freakin' studies. Again, as I stated before, I am personally convinced that if you improve your body composition the health benefits from that will far outweigh any potential health risks your diet may come with.

    You should have read my original post, there really was some good stuff in there.
    No, I read and understood your original post which started "Two separate studies pointing to problems with the Atkins diet". The first study you referenced had serious problems even a layman drunk on carbs could spot. The second had NOTHING to do with Atkins at all. If that is your idea of "good stuff", I'll pass.

    Go back and read the post I originally responded to which you felt the need to reply to. I brought up "scientific studies" because there are voluminous ones to support the benefits of low carb to respond to a poster's claim that such diets were "not healthy or sustainable". Why don't you hold her to the standard you are attempting to hold me to? Someone posting that another diet is "not healthy or sustainable" should be able to back up such a claim, don't you think?

    If I'm emotional about this, its because I see so much ignorance, misinformation, and outright stupidity about low carb diets bandied about on these forums as fact on an hourly basis by people who clearly have no clue about them that I sometimes feel the need to pull my hair out, and I don't have much of it to spare.
  • PalmettoparkGuy
    PalmettoparkGuy Posts: 212 Member
    I don't get when people are on this website talking about fad diets. If there's a better option for you, than why are you even here?
  • pippyrlz23
    pippyrlz23 Posts: 40 Member
    That's exactly what I was thinking! Now all I want is a Nutter Butter Blizzard!! Must.Be.Strong.
  • Delicate
    Delicate Posts: 625 Member
    It annoys me if they try to preach it to me about it, and comment about how I should be eating, and joining there diet plan because 'its soo good'.

    I dont want a diet, i have a sustainable eating lifestyle, I havent gained weight in years, yet being preached at to try quick fixes lol, my health is alot more important than a quick fix.

    @circusmom, alot of pcos sufferers do need b vit shots or tablets, because metformin (insulin resistance drug help) reduces the amount of biotin (b12 i think and a few other b vits) from absorbing properly.
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    When you hear people talking about and recommending fad diets to people, and raving about how they lost 10 lbs in one week! Then I tryto tell them about counting calories and no one will listen bc it doesn't offer "fast" results?? But little do they know, all that weight loss cannot be sustained

    Meh... let'em do it. Can't have winners without losers...
  • taso42_DELETED
    taso42_DELETED Posts: 3,394 Member
    low-fad all the way
  • otr12
    otr12 Posts: 632 Member
    Nope. I like being hotter than the people around me.
  • Debi907
    Debi907 Posts: 69 Member
    Those are the same people that just "hate you" because you are losing weight. As if it freakin' went away on its own without any effort or work. Whatever. lol
  • circusmom
    circusmom Posts: 662 Member
    @circusmom, alot of pcos sufferers do need b vit shots or tablets, because metformin (insulin resistance drug help) reduces the amount of biotin (b12 i think and a few other b vits) from absorbing properly.

    This is part of their program, had it listed in the pamphlet she showed me. The way I read it, they do it for everyone on their program.
  • alyssamiller77
    alyssamiller77 Posts: 891 Member
    oh man this annoys me soo much .. i have plenty of friends who are on a different diet every week.. like silly ones like the atkins- this is not healthy or sustainable ! but i agree with others there is nothing we can do to change there minds! and the usual reason i get when i question why there doing a specific diet is because apparently its the only thing that works for there body .. hmmm i dont think so ! man this is definetly one of my pet peeves! and then all of a sudden im the one who is in the wrong for eating wholegrain bread becuase its a carb ? no im not in the wrong.. this is called a blanced lifestyle! ok rant over. good post :)
    What annoys me are people like you who criticize Atkins without apparently knowing the first dam thing about it. It is both health and sustainable and I can post scientific studies which back that up. Can you?

    http://www.webmd.com/heart-disease/news/20090401/how-the-atkins-diet-fares-in-cholesterol

    http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/09/07/earlyshow/health/main6841541.shtml

    Two separate studies pointing to problems with the Atkins diet. Personally I don't care one way or the other, if that diet works for you great. The health benefits of being thinner probably outweigh any potential health risks it adds. Additionally, sustainability is a personal issue, what works for one person may not work for another. Finding a long-term diet you're comfortable with is the key to sustainability, not the diet's inherent design.

    The point I AM making though is don't start throwing studies around, because for every study you show me pointing one way on a topic, I'm sure I can find one that states the opposing conclusion (like remember when eggs were really bad?).

    I have read both of those studies (the actual study, not the news media digest version) and they are both idiotic. The first is a joke in that it followed 18 subjects for one month and it doesn't even appear the researcher had the subjects even do a correct Atkins diet.

    The second study is similarly a joke. Read Denise Menger tearing it a new one here: http://rawfoodsos.com/2010/09/08/brand-spankin-new-study-are-low-carb-meat-eaters-in-trouble/
    I'll sum up her comments in Cliff Notes: Many reporting the results of the research used the word 'causes' when at most this type of observational, non-controlled study can show correlations. They collected their data using the generally unreliable food frequency questionnaires. The 'low carb' subjects weren't even eating a low carb diet unless you count people who eat up to 60% of their calories as carbs. To associate anything that study found to 'low carb' or specifically Atkins is dumb because almost no one in it was actually doing a low carb diet.
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    Maybe you should actually read the studies instead of the webmd or cbsnews digested versions?

    Apparently you missed my point completely, maybe you should have actually read my post. I'm not suggesting anything regarding the validity of the studies mentioned in these articles or the studies you mention. Nor do I care enough about this topic to actually take the time to go read through the actual reports from these studies. My point remains unchanged. You have an emmotional vesting in this (as you've displayed here) and then brought up the infamous "scientific studies" argument. My point, which I'll make again since I apparently didn't make it clear enough in the last post, is that I can show studies to both sides of any argument. And as far as the validity of the studies, that's a subjective topic that could be argued till we're all blue in the face. So why bother. If you've found a diet plan that works for you and that you feel you can commit to for the long term, then who cares about freakin' studies. Again, as I stated before, I am personally convinced that if you improve your body composition the health benefits from that will far outweigh any potential health risks your diet may come with.

    You should have read my original post, there really was some good stuff in there.
    No, I read and understood your original post which started "Two separate studies pointing to problems with the Atkins diet". The first study you referenced had serious problems even a layman drunk on carbs could spot. The second had NOTHING to do with Atkins at all. If that is your idea of "good stuff", I'll pass.

    Go back and read the post I originally responded to which you felt the need to reply to. I brought up "scientific studies" because there are voluminous ones to support the benefits of low carb to respond to a poster's claim that such diets were "not healthy or sustainable". Why don't you hold her to the standard you are attempting to hold me to? Someone posting that another diet is "not healthy or sustainable" should be able to back up such a claim, don't you think?

    If I'm emotional about this, its because I see so much ignorance, misinformation, and outright stupidity about low carb diets bandied about on these forums as fact on an hourly basis by people who clearly have no clue about them that I sometimes feel the need to pull my hair out, and I don't have much of it to spare.

    No you still don't understand my post if you're arguing about the validity of one study versus another. If you actually read my simple English language post, you see that I all but agreed with you on this topic. I just don't agree that any "study" lends any credibility because today's bullet proof scientific study will be debunked next week. Then that one will be debunked two weeks later and so on. Again just like all those scientific studies that at the time were bullet proof talking about how bad eggs are for you.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    We all make decisions based on what WE want to do with our lives. I won't criticize how you eat, but really? Stop complaining at me if all you're going to do is stuff your face with junk. It drives me insane. If you aren't willing to change? You aren't going to lose weight.

    exactly!! drives me craaaaaaaaaaaaazy!
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