Will I lose my shape as I lose weight?

Thatonechickoverthere
Thatonechickoverthere Posts: 100 Member
edited November 24 in Health and Weight Loss
Last year I went from 280 lbs to 230 lbs and during that time my torso got smaller and I noticed I have a feminine pear shape that I like. When I was heavier my waist was bigger so either I didn’t have it or I just never noticed it before. As I keep losing weight will this shape disappear? Because I quite like it and I would like to have this shape as a thinner woman.

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  • MissyCHF
    MissyCHF Posts: 337 Member
    I noticed I lost weight off my face & neck first but it seems to even out over time. I think Tiny_Dancer is right.
  • MegaMooseEsq
    MegaMooseEsq Posts: 3,118 Member
    edited February 2018
    You’ll probably keep a similar shape, but the only way to know is to lose the weight and find out. Body shape is determined by genetics - there’s no way to lose fat in some places and not others, in spite of what people trying to sell you things will say. Good luck and congratulations on your loss so far!
  • yirara
    yirara Posts: 9,943 Member
    I always thought I had very wide hips. Until I lost weight and found out that yes, I have wide pelvis bones, but my shoulders are wider. I still have an hourglass shape with a fairly small waist, thus no complaint.
  • nowine4me
    nowine4me Posts: 3,985 Member
    As a pear, most of us just get proportionally smaller, whereas apples shed their belly first.
  • livingleanlivingclean
    livingleanlivingclean Posts: 11,751 Member
    I went from curvy (hourglass/pearish - more bottom heavy) to a rectangle...
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    edited February 2018
    It varies by person, for sure. But I have DEFINITELY kept the same shape when going from 307 lb down to 270 lb and then my current 170 lb, I have always been a pear/hourglass depending on how you define them and always had a little belly roll I do not like...it just got way smaller. But I truly feel my shape is the same even with the loss of 130+ pounds, more so than some other people I know who complain they "lost" their breasts or butt. I definitely did not.

    This may sound like a "humble brag" kind of thing to say...but I actually try to stay at my current weight instead of going 15 lb lower because I did go lower for awhile and I can't find dresses and shirts that fit my bust when I am at a smaller size than 10/12. With such a large loss, I only went from 42F to 36DD as my clothing size went from 26 to 10/12. I have heard of people going from like, F cup to B with a similar weight loss to mine. And my hips are still VERY large compared to a lot of women at my weight, and I don't mind that - in part because my husband loves my shape.

    The "bad" thing for me about all of this is that I was a person who had rather skinny/small hands and feet even at 300 lb...so now they are super skinny and small, and my neck sometimes looks freakishly thin and old to me in photographs. The flipside of that was even at my heaviest I did not have a double chin and my face didn't look that full.

    TL;DR...Everyone is different but it sounds as if you will probably keep your shape somewhat!

  • Thanks for everyone’s answers. I too also have small wrists and ankles! Average size bracelets and rings are always too big on me, which doesn’t make sense since my clothes size are XL (top) or XXL (bottom). And in my selfies people say I don’t look like I’m overweight. I have a pear shape definitely but I also always had a fat belly problem since I was a child. So I must be some type of apple/pear mix although I haven’t really lost the belly yet. My body as a whole thinned out. I’d love to lose my belly the most but like someone said, that can’t be controlled.
  • KrazyKrissyy
    KrazyKrissyy Posts: 322 Member
    I went from extreme pear at 190 to hourglass at 117. Most of the excess weight was stored in my lower half. Looked very disproportionate before losing weight.
  • SCoil123
    SCoil123 Posts: 2,111 Member
    I think we mostly keep our shape, just a smaller version. For me when I’m heavier I’m still a pear but I also appear more hourglass because I get boobs to balance out my lower body. I’m more of a obvious pear when I lose because those disappear and my butt and thighs always stay, they just get more defined and a little smaller
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    Thanks for everyone’s answers. I too also have small wrists and ankles! Average size bracelets and rings are always too big on me, which doesn’t make sense since my clothes size are XL (top) or XXL (bottom). And in my selfies people say I don’t look like I’m overweight. I have a pear shape definitely but I also always had a fat belly problem since I was a child. So I must be some type of apple/pear mix although I haven’t really lost the belly yet. My body as a whole thinned out. I’d love to lose my belly the most but like someone said, that can’t be controlled.

    Yeah that is exactly how I am and was, too. I recently looked at some selfies/head & shoulder pictures from my heaviest weight and I look pretty average because of the thinnish face and neck thing. At 270 lb, I wore a size 5 ring and now I wear 3.75, which is nuts to me since I am still 5'8" 170 lb, M/L top and 10/12 pants & dresses. I ordered a bracelet and it fit great and all the other reviews were complaining it didn't fit and was made for a child...kind of funny.

  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,225 Member
    Thanks for everyone’s answers. I too also have small wrists and ankles! Average size bracelets and rings are always too big on me, which doesn’t make sense since my clothes size are XL (top) or XXL (bottom). And in my selfies people say I don’t look like I’m overweight. I have a pear shape definitely but I also always had a fat belly problem since I was a child. So I must be some type of apple/pear mix although I haven’t really lost the belly yet. My body as a whole thinned out. I’d love to lose my belly the most but like someone said, that can’t be controlled.

    Yeah that is exactly how I am and was, too. I recently looked at some selfies/head & shoulder pictures from my heaviest weight and I look pretty average because of the thinnish face and neck thing. At 270 lb, I wore a size 5 ring and now I wear 3.75, which is nuts to me since I am still 5'8" 170 lb, M/L top and 10/12 pants & dresses. I ordered a bracelet and it fit great and all the other reviews were complaining it didn't fit and was made for a child...kind of funny.

    And I wear a size 10 ring and have large wrists at 5'5" and 120 pounds, with 34" hips. There are no universal rules. I was a fruit - let's say a centrally well-rounded pear - when obese (13-14 ring finger size!), and a narrow rectangle body shape at 120. No knowing final shape until you get there, or close. It's so individual!

    Anticipate being happy, though, because it's likely. ;)
  • Omg I’m 100 pounds heavier and I’m a size 6 ring lol so weird how different everyone is! And you’re right it’s a guessing game about how I’ll look as I lose more.
  • faithrainbow1
    faithrainbow1 Posts: 54 Member
    I go from being chunky in a pretty average way, to being a super curvy hourglass when I lose weight. My breasts look absolutely enormous when I'm skinny (34G) and my waist is super tiny; hips are pretty large but they barely balance out the boobs. Keep losing your weight and see what emerges!
  • Kst76
    Kst76 Posts: 935 Member
    I went from curvy (hourglass/pearish - more bottom heavy) to a rectangle...

    I like that though. Low rise pants look good on that shape.
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