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Revenge body

StacyStroh
Posts: 7 Member
Hi I'm Stacy, 33 years old mom of 2 amazing kids and just divorced on Feb 21 . I hit my rock bottom I put everything into my marriage but it wasn't enough .
So here I am today trying to pick myself up and find me . It's been years since I've cared about myself and over the last few months I've cared even less .... today I want to start a new life ... a better life for me and my kids ... I want my ex to look at me and know he throw away the best thing he ever had ! I want my revenge body !
Any takers to help me ? Please add me let's do this !!!
So here I am today trying to pick myself up and find me . It's been years since I've cared about myself and over the last few months I've cared even less .... today I want to start a new life ... a better life for me and my kids ... I want my ex to look at me and know he throw away the best thing he ever had ! I want my revenge body !
Any takers to help me ? Please add me let's do this !!!
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I also want to get a revenge body! I got dumped yesterday, reason? He thinks I am fat. I am 1.71m and weigh about 68/69kg. I do not consider myself fat, but I am not ripped and for sure I want lose some weight and show this guy in 6 months what he dumped!9
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I also want to get a revenge body! I got dumped yesterday, reason? He thinks I am fat. I am 1.71m and weigh about 68/69kg. I do not consider myself fat, but I am not ripped and for sure I want lose some weight and show this guy in 6 months what he dumped!
Have to ask, did he actually say you were fat when he dumped you?2 -
Just...wow!
Revenge body is great but please do this for YOU first and foremost. Doing it for him still allows him to have power over you. I know, I've been there. Feel free to add me if you wish.20 -
I’m working on mine too! So far I’m down 94lbs! 32more until I hit goal weight!5
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Good luck and keep up the good work..new beginning and a new you.0
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What's a Revenge body?3
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You need to see the positive side that you have already lost alot of weight. I guess you could call it DEAD weight or some call them EX spouses.5
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I also want to get a revenge body! I got dumped yesterday, reason? He thinks I am fat. I am 1.71m and weigh about 68/69kg. I do not consider myself fat, but I am not ripped and for sure I want lose some weight and show this guy in 6 months what he dumped!
Have to ask, did he actually say you were fat when he dumped you?
Yes, he said I am fat and after being together for 8 months he is tired of being with a fat person. I am not overweight, I wear a size S/M. But it did gave me extra motivation to lose more now.6 -
I also want to get a revenge body! I got dumped yesterday, reason? He thinks I am fat. I am 1.71m and weigh about 68/69kg. I do not consider myself fat, but I am not ripped and for sure I want lose some weight and show this guy in 6 months what he dumped!
Have to ask, did he actually say you were fat when he dumped you?
Yes, he said I am fat and after being together for 8 months he is tired of being with a fat person. I am not overweight, I wear a size S/M. But it did gave me extra motivation to lose more now.
If you want to lose weight, do this for you. He sounds horrible. You deserve better!!
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I also want to get a revenge body! I got dumped yesterday, reason? He thinks I am fat. I am 1.71m and weigh about 68/69kg. I do not consider myself fat, but I am not ripped and for sure I want lose some weight and show this guy in 6 months what he dumped!
Jesus.
Are you in high school?
Not an insult. Just can’t imagine any other situation in which that would be fat.
Btw- you and I have very similar stats! And I love my body. Don’t feel bad.5 -
“The greatest revenge is being happy.”
So I certainly hope you find it.:)11 -
I also want to get a revenge body! I got dumped yesterday, reason? He thinks I am fat. I am 1.71m and weigh about 68/69kg. I do not consider myself fat, but I am not ripped and for sure I want lose some weight and show this guy in 6 months what he dumped!
Have to ask, did he actually say you were fat when he dumped you?
Yes, he said I am fat and after being together for 8 months he is tired of being with a fat person. I am not overweight, I wear a size S/M. But it did gave me extra motivation to lose more now.
Well, it sounds like you lost a whole load of weight when that asshat left you. I hope your new life is much, much lighter without that negativity in it!2 -
About four months after my ex-husband left, I'd lost about 30 pounds and was the thinnest I'd been in 15+ years. People who hadn't seen me since my divorce would ask me how much weight I'd lost. I told them, "I lost 220 unwanted pounds on September 16, 2002." When they asked me how I lost all that weight in one day, I told them, "He went back to his mother." I've since put it back on and then some but I'm determined to take it off in the next year (once I lose 50 pounds, I'm giving myself a short, unscheduled cruise!)
Good luck to you Stacy! I'm living proof that divorce can be the best thing that's ever happened to you. Not just body-wise. Since my divorce I've obtained a bachelor's and master's degree and am currently working on my doctorate. I've traveled all over the world; none of which would have been possible had I stayed married to him!!8 -
Do it for you. It will mean more. (As a side note, I lost about 50 pounds last year and my ex-husband told me he never liked skinny girls after I asked him if he thought I lost too much weight -someone had recently made a comment that I had. Thankfully, my ex and I don't give a rat's *kitten* what the other thinks of the other's weight. My ex was not that impressed with my awesome weight loss, but I still am!
What you think will matter more than what he thinks.) Also, I agree with poster above when she says divorce can be the best thing that ever happened to you. I am so glad we divorced when we did. It was the best thing for me and my kids. Many things became possible for my kids and I as well because of the divorce that would not have been had we remained married.
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positivepowers wrote: »About four months after my ex-husband left, I'd lost about 30 pounds and was the thinnest I'd been in 15+ years. People who hadn't seen me since my divorce would ask me how much weight I'd lost. I told them, "I lost 220 unwanted pounds on September 16, 2002." When they asked me how I lost all that weight in one day, I told them, "He went back to his mother." I've since put it back on and then some but I'm determined to take it off in the next year (once I lose 50 pounds, I'm giving myself a short, unscheduled cruise!)
Good luck to you Stacy! I'm living proof that divorce can be the best thing that's ever happened to you. Not just body-wise. Since my divorce I've obtained a bachelor's and master's degree and am currently working on my doctorate. I've traveled all over the world; none of which would have been possible had I stayed married to him!!
Your attitude is badass!1 -
It’ll never last if you do it for anyone other than yourself. Speaking from experience. Good luck.1
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Meeee too! I mean, I am mostly doing this for ME! but I definitely want me ex to look at me and feel regret. But if he were to ever try to win me back, I would reject him so hard1
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Get your mind, body and diet all going the right direction and you got this.0
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