I need the sobering truth about alcohol

Here's the deal. I'm 23. I went to a party school. I like my beer. In fact I like my shot + beer. I've lost some weight in 2018 but its so slooooow. My gut tells me its because I haven't completely cut out alcohol. I went from 3-4 drinks a night to 1-2 drinks 3-4 nights a week. I want the blunt truth, is it probably hindering my success? I count calories in the app up until night time when i have a drink, however there's always room left in my caloric intake for the alcohol. My frustration could just be psychological. 2.5 months eating clean and I swear its not sugar that beckons me, its not salt, its not that juicy cheeseburger. It's alcohol.
Anyone go through this? Happy Friday!!
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  • paperpudding
    paperpudding Posts: 9,281 Member
    As long as you have counted the calories, shouldn't be a problem for losing weight.

    Of course you shouldn't drink way above the recommended limits for health reasons - but that is another story
  • Grammytryingtogetfit
    Grammytryingtogetfit Posts: 672 Member
    I drank just about every night while I was losing weight and I lost as expected. That said, I was meticulous with my measuring (of alcohol and everything else).

    This right here. Just log it.
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    Does drinking lead to more eating that isn't getting logged? Some chips with the beer?

    Log it all and see what the calorie hit is.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    I drink every weekend. but I work it all off, it works for me. I LOVE MY BOOZE.
  • KaleiAlanaSmith
    KaleiAlanaSmith Posts: 133 Member
    Log it log it log it........... It was a big reality hit for me. I LOVE a good whiskey and coke sometimes, until i realized one ounce of whiskey is about 70 calories. It's easy to rack on the calories from alcohol if you don't track it.

    I'm still in college and leave some room for calories when my friends want to go out for the evening.
    Good luck!!:)
  • HarveysBud
    HarveysBud Posts: 421 Member
    Here's the deal. I'm 23. I went to a party school. I like my beer. In fact I like my shot + beer. I've lost some weight in 2018 but its so slooooow. My gut tells me its because I haven't completely cut out alcohol. I went from 3-4 drinks a night to 1-2 drinks 3-4 nights a week. I want the blunt truth, is it probably hindering my success? I count calories in the app up until night time when i have a drink, however there's always room left in my caloric intake for the alcohol. My frustration could just be psychological. 2.5 months eating clean and I swear its not sugar that beckons me, its not salt, its not that juicy cheeseburger. It's alcohol.
    Anyone go through this? Happy Friday!!

    I feel you. Same boat, exactly. Hit up the light beer, and make sure you log it. Now, my turning point was paying attention to my workouts. The nights I drank, I was sluggish but got through. Those nights I cut it out or 1-2, I killed it the next day. That satisfaction started to trump the excessive drinking at night. Not easy by any means, but decide how bad you want to kill it at the gym, and go from there. Fri and Sat are still a *kitten* show....! Good luck.
  • thetoughequus
    thetoughequus Posts: 25 Member
    I'm a big fan of vodka and triple sec but DANG are the calories ridiculous... 4 shots (25ml x 4) is 280 and 450 calories respectively and that usually isn't even enough for a night out so I really had to choose if it was even worth it for me
  • valutz
    valutz Posts: 48 Member
    Not a big drinker myself, but when I do, I like cider. I was shocked when I saw that one bottle of Old Mout has 200 calories. Not to mention that the only beer I like is an Irish creamy ale that also has something like 180 or 190 calories.
  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
    First of all, you have reduced your alcohol consumption from 21-28 a week, an alarming amount for any woman, to 4-8 drinks a week. That is a huge accomplishment. Experts recently issued new guidelines for at risk drinking, another words setting yourself up for increased likelihood of alcoholism. Women are not supposed to have more than 7 drinks a week and no more than 3 in one day. So you did yourself an enormous service cutting back as much as you did. I put a link at the bottom if you want to read about it. The most difficult part of this process is logging EVERY calorie. It SUCKS. I'm 55 and at my age my metabolism is so much slower than yours I basically have found I have to exercise or I will not be able to eat enough calories to not feel hungry all the time. If I were you, I would log every calorie for a week, including the alcohol, then look at it. (Don't forget to measure wine- a serving is only 5 oz.!) Then you have a choice between adding enough exercise to accommodate the extra calories in the drinks, or cutting the drinks back yet again. If you reach your calorie goal most days and still are not losing weight after a month or 6 weeks, you might want to see your doctor and check that you don't have a slow metabolism for a medical reason. I have been on this only 16 days, and I have had two 5 ounce glasses of red wine and one Michelob light during that whole time. I was a light drinker to begin with- 1-3 drinks a week, but I really like a local brewed beer with a giant slice of pizza (yum) and had 2-4 margaritas a month, which I loved. Not having any now because margaritas have a staggering 500 calories each. The other issue with drinking, although I find it social and relaxing, is there is zero nutrition in it. I did a cleanse class once with a guy who liked to go to bars with his buddies, and he would bring a mason jar of filtered water to "go drinking". If it the social piece that you love, you might try having one drink and then switching to Perrier or soda water with a twist of lime. If you need it to relax, you could try yoga, meditation, a long hot bath or relaxation CD's. The upside for me, although my weight loss has been small, is I have already lost 3" of fat of my waist! Muscle is heavier than fat. I'll take it. https://www.rethinkingdrinking.niaaa.nih.gov/How-much-is-too-much/Is-your-drinking-pattern-risky/Whats-At-Risk-Or-Heavy-Drinking.aspx

    Looks like a dude to me.

    OP's profile indicates they're female.
  • gamerbabe14
    gamerbabe14 Posts: 876 Member
    First of all, you have reduced your alcohol consumption from 21-28 a week, an alarming amount for any woman, to 4-8 drinks a week. That is a huge accomplishment. Experts recently issued new guidelines for at risk drinking, another words setting yourself up for increased likelihood of alcoholism. Women are not supposed to have more than 7 drinks a week and no more than 3 in one day. So you did yourself an enormous service cutting back as much as you did. I put a link at the bottom if you want to read about it. The most difficult part of this process is logging EVERY calorie. It SUCKS. I'm 55 and at my age my metabolism is so much slower than yours I basically have found I have to exercise or I will not be able to eat enough calories to not feel hungry all the time. If I were you, I would log every calorie for a week, including the alcohol, then look at it. (Don't forget to measure wine- a serving is only 5 oz.!) Then you have a choice between adding enough exercise to accommodate the extra calories in the drinks, or cutting the drinks back yet again. If you reach your calorie goal most days and still are not losing weight after a month or 6 weeks, you might want to see your doctor and check that you don't have a slow metabolism for a medical reason. I have been on this only 16 days, and I have had two 5 ounce glasses of red wine and one Michelob light during that whole time. I was a light drinker to begin with- 1-3 drinks a week, but I really like a local brewed beer with a giant slice of pizza (yum) and had 2-4 margaritas a month, which I loved. Not having any now because margaritas have a staggering 500 calories each. The other issue with drinking, although I find it social and relaxing, is there is zero nutrition in it. I did a cleanse class once with a guy who liked to go to bars with his buddies, and he would bring a mason jar of filtered water to "go drinking". If it the social piece that you love, you might try having one drink and then switching to Perrier or soda water with a twist of lime. If you need it to relax, you could try yoga, meditation, a long hot bath or relaxation CD's. The upside for me, although my weight loss has been small, is I have already lost 3" of fat of my waist! Muscle is heavier than fat. I'll take it. https://www.rethinkingdrinking.niaaa.nih.gov/How-much-is-too-much/Is-your-drinking-pattern-risky/Whats-At-Risk-Or-Heavy-Drinking.aspx

    Looks like a dude to me.

    OP's profile indicates they're female.

    I take it back. Sorry OP and PP.
  • af240
    af240 Posts: 37 Member
    Considering a shot of liquor, can/bottle of beer, and a glass of wine are somewhere in the ballpark of 70-130 calories per serving of each, you could easily be wiping out your deficit with only a couple drinks. It's the alcohol for sure.

    I know how you feel, I would loooove 2-3 glasses of wine 4-5 nights a week to wind down, but you can't just stop logging the calories because it somehow doesn't count. It still counts and I knew I had to cut it out because losing the weight feels better. If I wanted some wine I would plan my day to have enough calories for a glass or 2 that night, but now after a few months I don't even think about having it anymore.

    Good luck!
  • Alidecker
    Alidecker Posts: 1,262 Member
    I lost over 100 pounds without giving up alcohol. Like you, I cut back and keep it to 1-2 nights a week. There are times when I have more. I also started making sure there were no late night snacks after drinking. That proved easier than I thought it would be for me and I am sure helped quite a bit. Like others have mentioned, just make sure you log the calories.
  • laur357
    laur357 Posts: 896 Member
    I don't do more than 3-4 drinks per week, usually less. I just can't fit it in. I also have a very hard time controlling the food side of things when I'm tipsy. I haven't cut alcohol completely, but I did have to learn some tricks to cut back. Pre-logging before parties and happy hours - the food and the drinks - has helped a lot. Having a go-to lighter calorie drink helps as well, and saving fancy cocktails or high-alcohol beers for special occasions keeps the calories in check too.
  • idabest777
    idabest777 Posts: 97 Member
    It's totally doable while drinking alcohol. I went from 160lbs to 120lbs without changing my drinking at all (it was definitely food that was my main issue) Although my drinking is usually contained to just Friday and Saturday nights (often quite a bit on saturdays). As long as you can stay within your calories, or not go over too much, everything should still go as planned.

    There was one month where I decided not to drink to see if it made a difference and I lost a couple pounds extra, but i think that was mostly because it also cut out my hungover eating habits. I almost always went over maintenance on Sundays
  • Fitnessmom82
    Fitnessmom82 Posts: 376 Member
    So I love my wine and it has definitely hindered me at points. I cut it out of my diet with the exception of parties, nice dinners ect...so just once a week or less. My problem with alcohol (and probably lots of people's issue) is that I'll do great and measure one serving at home and then eyeball the rest, or not measure at all when I am out. One glass becomes two, then two becomes three or four (losing count at this point because I'm having fun)! Then I need to eat so I'm not falling over. Then I don't care about logging or I'm too buzzed to focus haha.
    I don't drink or socialize enough for one of these nights to add up, so it's ok for me. If it were a regular occurrence it would totally impact my goals. And worth noting that I usually know when I'm gonna drink and plan ahead. Bank calories, extra work out, low calorie foods that day.
  • Lisa_Ookoo
    Lisa_Ookoo Posts: 134 Member
    It's harder to accurately measure your calories when drinking in a bar. Bar glasses are not consistent sizes, and you may be consuming more than you think.
  • saintor1
    saintor1 Posts: 376 Member
    My problem with alcohol (and probably lots of people's issue) is that I'll do great and measure one serving at home and then eyeball the rest, or not measure at all when I am out.

    Easy to fix; just take the whole damn bottle. lol. >:)

  • Spliner1969
    Spliner1969 Posts: 3,233 Member
    Log the alcohol, log anything you eat while drinking... if you're hitting your goal and are in a calorie deficit you'll lose weight

    I'll second this. If you like the alcohol simply log it, stay under your calorie goal and live your life and lose weight while doing it. Calories matter, nothing else, unless of course it helps you meet your calorie goal, matters.
  • Tacklewasher
    Tacklewasher Posts: 7,122 Member
    But, to be fair, we need to point out that you can't fill your diet with alcohol calories. We are talking about having a balanced diet overall that has room for some drinks.

    I was waiting for someone to come in and spout how having nothing but alcohol is bad for you.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    You didn't lose as much weight as you wanted because you consumed too many calories, that's all. My guess is that you're eating more than you think and need to adjust your calorie intake down (which may or may not leave room for alcohol afterwards).