Frustrated.....What am I doing Wrong??

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  • Bellavita31
    Bellavita31 Posts: 1,556 Member
    Are you exercising at all??
  • CharlieBeansmomTracey
    CharlieBeansmomTracey Posts: 7,682 Member
    Are you exercising at all??

    exercise has nothing to do with weight loss at all. a calorie deficit is all thats needed. exercise is good for health and changing how your body looks.
  • derek_greer
    derek_greer Posts: 2 Member
    Looks like you've been doing pretty good this week. You had a few days a week ago that your carbs went up above 50. You might double-check for "hidden carbs", but it sounds like you're on top of that. You said "as for the washroom thing I really can't go", but then said "Going to the washroom is pretty good". It sounds like you're indicating you're constipated by the first comment, but the second indicates you are doing "pretty good", so not sure what you're communicating there. Are you using keto urine tests? No they aren't terribly accurate, but they are valuable from a binary perspective (i.e. you're either are or are not in ketosis), especially in the beginning.
  • omdemelo
    omdemelo Posts: 15 Member
    edited April 2018
    @derek_greer....the washroom thing was ppl have said u go pee more at the beginning because u are losing water...I can't relate to that becuz I have always gone to the washroom often I don't know if that has to do with me being diabetic....going #2 is the norm (daily)...just clearing that up....I use a keto meter and they have been around 1.5 to 1.9 mmol.....thanks again for everyone's input....I am truly thankful for all the help....I was getting a bit frustrated and thought I am doing this wrong and all of u guys have confirmed I'm going in the right direction and I just need to be patient and to tweak my logging better! I know something good is going on since I use to take 4 pills a day for my diabetes (I just looked at my records) in 19days I have only taken 1pill for only 9 of them!! WooHoo!!
  • CharlieBeansmomTracey
    CharlieBeansmomTracey Posts: 7,682 Member
    omdemelo wrote: »
    @derek_greer....the washroom thing was ppl have said u go pee more at the beginning because u are losing water...I can't relate to that becuz I have always gone to the washroom often I don't know if that has to do with me being diabetic....going #2 is the norm (daily)...just clearing that up....I use a keto meter and they have been around 1.5 to 1.9 mmol.....thanks again for everyone's input....I am truly thankful for all the help....I was getting a bit frustrated and thought I am doing this wrong and all of u guys have confirmed I'm going in the right direction and I just need to be patient and to tweak my logging better! I know something good is going on since I use to take 4 pills a day for my diabetes (I just looked at my records) in 19days I have only taken 1pill for only 9 of them!! WooHoo!!

    I am hoping that you taking less pills is okay with your doctor? I hope you arent just taking less. I wouldnt want anyone(especially a newbie) to think its okay to just go off meds without a doctors approval.
  • omdemelo
    omdemelo Posts: 15 Member
    With a lot of diabetic insulin is adjusted to ur sugar levels daily whether ur needle form or pills....so I feel I don't need to ask my doctor whether I should be taken all my insulin pills due to this:

    Diet and Hypoglycemia

    You can get low blood sugar if you take too much insulin for the amount of carbohydrates you eat or drink. I maybe a newbie (as u put it) to the keto way of life but not to my diabetes....Thanks tho
  • eleonora1809
    eleonora1809 Posts: 85 Member
    edited April 2018
    Honestly 1200 calories sounds too low. I found that when I have a bigger breakfast, I’m not hungry in the evenings, when I skip breakfast. I’m hungry like a freaking savage in the evenings and the cravings are harder to control. Also, your protein intake should be a bit higher and don’t cut out the carbs, just eat the right carbs. I always thought that eating sub 2000 calories would help me lose weight but I have found that I should be eating around 3000 calories to be healthy

    Can you give an example of your 3000 calories meal?
    I’m currently on 1200 calories diet and it consists of:
    breakfast: oatmeal, boiled eggs, banana & 5 almonds
    lunch: chicken breast, brown rice & spinach soup
    dinner: grilled salmon & potato wedges
    snack: banana & raspberries shake
    Those are 1200 calories and I feel full.

    I agree with having big breakfast because it helps with craving and avoid binge eating at dinner.

    Why should I eat 3000 calories to be “healthy” or lose weight?
  • CharlieBeansmomTracey
    CharlieBeansmomTracey Posts: 7,682 Member
    omdemelo wrote: »
    With a lot of diabetic insulin is adjusted to ur sugar levels daily whether ur needle form or pills....so I feel I don't need to ask my doctor whether I should be taken all my insulin pills due to this:

    Diet and Hypoglycemia

    You can get low blood sugar if you take too much insulin for the amount of carbohydrates you eat or drink. I maybe a newbie (as u put it) to the keto way of life but not to my diabetes....Thanks tho

    I didnt say you were a newbie to diabetes or anything else. you misconstrued what I meant by newbie. just asking if your dr was aware of what you are doing but if you think you know its ok then thats on you I guess.
  • michelleRKdavidson
    michelleRKdavidson Posts: 18 Member
    I had a post ready to send when I realized I skipped over the most important piece of information you gave us in your original post. YOU ARE DIABETIC! I think you need to consult your doctor if you haven't already and ask him/her to help you come up with a safe, productive game plan for your weight loss goals. There may be some key information to your diet plan that you are missing because of how your body processes sugar. I am not diabetic so I don't know much about it besides controling your sugar. So my advise is to not give up but consult someone who can help you with what your body needs to help you lose the weight you want to shed while keeping your body healthy as well.
    GOOD LUCK!
  • omdemelo
    omdemelo Posts: 15 Member
    edited April 2018
    I have consulted my Dr. becuz ppl had brought it to my attention and I thought I would take their advise and just to make sure the route I was going was ok....he said if ur sugar levels are ok without ur med then do not take them but to make sure I keep an eye on them....if I was taking them my sugar levels would drop to a dangerous number I am keeping a record so my next visit which I will do in a mths time I can show him .....I have heard before that u can kick this so I am hoping that with this life style it could be the case for me....I was a huge carb and sugar addicted and the prof is in my blood levels. I use to be that person who could eat a whole bag of Smart Cheese Popcorn or Lays chips a nite but I don't have the craving to eat after 9 like i use to and if I do its a jell-o or some olives with pickles. OMG with this program I truly don't want to! Now keep in mind I am saying this now and I hope yrs to come I can say the same thing!
  • omdemelo
    omdemelo Posts: 15 Member
    P.S. I have to thank myfitnesspal to, if it wasn't for this app I would be loss, I would have no idea where my macros where!!
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
    I think of this in order of importance.

    1. Caloric Intake
    2. Exercise
    3. Macros - Protein/Carbs/Fats
    4. Genetics

    First priority will always be calories and ensuring you are in deficit. For weight it doesn't matter what you eat, but how many calories are in it. Calories dense foods tend to be the culprits as they are simply easier to eat, but everyone is different. I can easily burn through a bag of chips, but savor good chocolate.

    Diabetes is a complication, but as long as your meds/sugar levels are in check you should be fine. As many others have experienced once your weight is managed your other issues should minimize or be eliminated.

    You are definitely on the right track and I see several MFP vets giving you some great advice. I've been on this site for 3.5 years now and lost ~60 lbs fat and gained ~20 lbs of muscle over this time.
  • try2again
    try2again Posts: 3,562 Member
    Honestly 1200 calories sounds too low. I found that when I have a bigger breakfast, I’m not hungry in the evenings, when I skip breakfast. I’m hungry like a freaking savage in the evenings and the cravings are harder to control. Also, your protein intake should be a bit higher and don’t cut out the carbs, just eat the right carbs. I always thought that eating sub 2000 calories would help me lose weight but I have found that I should be eating around 3000 calories to be healthy

    Why should I eat 3000 calories to be “healthy” or lose weight?

    You noticed that this poster is a large, male weightlifter, right? His stats don't have anything to do with yours. He was speaking to his own experience in attempting to eat at too low of a calorie deficit *for him*.

  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    Congratulations first of all on your weight loss, and second for your reduced need for medication.

    I think your water weight is going to shift up and down quite a bit because you are controlling carb intake so aggressively. So don’t take individual scale results personally.

    Continue to monitor your blood sugars carefully and adjust as needed.

    Find a weight graphing software like weightgrapher and follow the trend line. That is more gratifying than the daily water weight fluctuations.
  • mikecurious123
    mikecurious123 Posts: 9 Member
    Its definitely different for guys than girls. But what has worked for me, and didnt really think it would make a differnce. Is fast first portion of the day and not every day, exercise with weights vs cardio, cardio should not be the main part of your workout, but added at the end of your workout. GL
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