Why 1200 calories isn’t for me

SisterSueGetsFit
SisterSueGetsFit Posts: 1,211 Member
edited November 26 in Health and Weight Loss
The 1200 calorie diet seems good in theory. For some reason several women seem to think this is the magic number. Let me tell you it’s not.

With that being said, I lost almost 60 pounds in 9 months following it. BUT... in the long term it just wasn’t sustainable. I Gained back almost 20 of those 60 pounds once I started eating normally again. While I lost the weight, it wasn’t healthy and it wasn’t safe. I don’t look good naked because I lost too fast and have no firmness. I’m skinny fat, so to speak. I didn’t learn how to “really eat” I only learned how to eat very little and get by. It was stupid and I was stupid.

1200 calories doesn’t allow me to live my life. It doesn’t allow for that extra drink or dessert. It causes me anxiety.

I’m back at it after maintaining at a 45 pound weight loss for a year. Doing it better this time. My goal is 1400 to 1500 cal a day and I’m so much happier. I want to comment so badly on every thread about 1200 calorie diets, but I simply don’t have the energy and people need to learn for themselves.

So, what’s your reason for not following a 1200 cal a day diet?
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  • SisterSueGetsFit
    SisterSueGetsFit Posts: 1,211 Member
    I wanted to make it easy on myself. I was 254lbs when I started and, at 5'3", with at least 114lbs to lose, I could have safely gone with a 2lb/week target, but I opted for 1lb/week instead. MFP gave me 1720, I stuck to that, and I lost.

    Now, I'm closing in on a healthy BMI with just over 9lbs to go (just over 19 to theoretical goal, though it's possible I'll decide to maintain before that) and shouldn't be losing more than 1/2lb/week. That puts me at 1400 before exercise. With exercise, I have more to play with. Today, that's 1680. And it's just... easier that way. I'm not constantly hungry. I have room for snacks. I don't stress as much as I used to over what I'm eating.

    You are so inspiring! Congratulations on your hard work and dedication. I wish you nothing but continued success.
  • SisterSueGetsFit
    SisterSueGetsFit Posts: 1,211 Member
    Megg82 wrote: »
    Eh. Unfortunately for my height and weight, 1200 is needed to lose ounces if anything at all per week. 1200-1300 is my BMR and because I’m petite, I don’t burn as much for calorie expenditure. It’s pretty much maintenance for me.
    I’m healthy weight but have higher body fat percentage than I’d like. Gaining muscle will hopefully increase BMR and create the toned look I want. I do IF which makes it easier. I don’t really get hungry and I get to eat a decent size meal or two in my 4 hour eating window.
    I’ve been heavier and had to eat 1200 and exercise to lose and it was painful as I got smaller and the scale wouldn’t budge because I was at maintenance :( IF has really helped and I don’t feel deprived at all. Sometimes I have to figure out how I’m going to get all 1200 calories in & stay within my macros; I like to stay low carb & high protein. The struggle is real with that 1200 number tho. If I wasn’t doing IF I honestly know I’d be miserable spacing tiny meals all throughout the day, never eating until full.

    We are each different. I’ve thought about IF, but I know I couldn’t stick to it on the weekends, mostly due to evening eating. I hope you find what works best for you!
  • eleonora1809
    eleonora1809 Posts: 85 Member
    I’m currently on 1200 cal and this is what I feared. What if I eat normal again and gain all the weight I loses back? I’m worried about eating over my calorie deficit but at the same time, I don’t want this to be another yo-yo diet.

    I’ve read somewhere it’s better to eat 3 balanced meals with no snack and aim for 1500 cal instead but I don’t know and now I just eat between 1200-1500.
  • SisterSueGetsFit
    SisterSueGetsFit Posts: 1,211 Member
    I’m currently on 1200 cal and this is what I feared. What if I eat normal again and gain all the weight I loses back? I’m worried about eating over my calorie deficit but at the same time, I don’t want this to be another yo-yo diet.

    I’ve read somewhere it’s better to eat 3 balanced meals with no snack and aim for 1500 cal instead but I don’t know and now I just eat between 1200-1500.

    I didn’t mean to scare you! This is just my story. The only thing I would say is I think losing slower is better. What do you have your goals set at? Put your stats in MFP for a pound loss a week. Well I was happy to lose the weight someone quickly, I wish I would’ve done it in a better manner.

    And for the record, you’re not going to gain the weight back once you start eating more than 1200 calories. It’s important to find out where you maintain and stay in that range. It’s all trial and error and everybody is different.

  • rheddmobile
    rheddmobile Posts: 6,840 Member
    edited April 2018
    1200 gross was hard on my energy levels and made my hair thin, but 1200 net worked pretty well for me. I lost most of my weight eating no fewer than 1600 gross and exercising at least 400 cal / day to maintain enough of a deficit to lose 2 lbs / week. When I was thinner I swapped to 1 lb and now .5 lbs for the last bit of vanity weight.

    When I started I was under medical instructions to lose weight quickly.
  • try2again
    try2again Posts: 3,562 Member
    Some of the comments seem to indicate that people do randomly choose a calorie goal, as @Lounmoun mentioned. For those who have indicated this, is there a particular reason you choose not to use the calorie goal MFP gives you?
  • PokeyBug
    PokeyBug Posts: 482 Member
    Small woman with a low TDEE, here! On the days I work out, I generally have around 2.000 calories to eat. On days when I don't, that number is around 1.300. Kind of depressing, but I can totally see someone who doesn't want to or can't exercise having to eat 1,200 calories or less to lose weight. My low TDEE is one of the reasons I work out, lol.
  • MandaLuvsHockey
    MandaLuvsHockey Posts: 25 Member
    This has been a good food for thought post for me. I was doing MFP last year and did ok but I got so fed up trying to make meals I liked and stay within my set goals.
    I have started again and while I am at 1200/day I will look at it differently. I have already hooked up my fitbit to my account and I will use those extra calories when I choose to. I think this will make a huge difference as for the most part I felt full last time, I just just missing that little extra - the ketchup, a slice of cheese etc. Using just a 100-200 more per day should make a hugh difference.

    There is so much information out there, and most of it contradicts so its really hard to know the right path to take at times :)
  • smolmaus
    smolmaus Posts: 442 Member
    I lost on 1200 before but just tried again to lose a few vanity lbs (0.5lb/week) and its been a disaster. Huge binge after just 10 days and I'm p sure I've messed up my period cycles. I am only 5'2" and 105lb so pretty small but it's still just not enough for me.

    I was kinda doing it as a test of discipline as much as anything but didn't properly account for the fact I lift and run now and even eating back exercise calories to make it 1200kcal net is just not feasible.
  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    I average around 1350. i maintain at 1600. As far as being satiated, a lot of it depends on your macros and if youve found the sweet spot of what keeps you full.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    I never did 1200 either because I would have been hangry! I was able to lose 0.5lb a week eating 1600-1750 cals gross (depending on how active I was). I'm 5ft 2". I had 20lbs to lose. I did TRY to do 1200 but within a few weeks and reading on the forums here I realised I didn't have to deprive myself. In July I will be in maintenance 5 years. Just wish I'd have found MFP years ago.
  • MrsPinterest34
    MrsPinterest34 Posts: 342 Member
    I’m 5’1.5” (2). Started at 175lb currently 138lb. It’s been 1 year 4 months. MFP recommends 1290 cal for 1 pound a week with light activity. I’m guessing it wil be 1200 calories for 2lbs. Since I like to eat I’m okay with losing at a slow rate of 0.5lb a week or less. I eat between 1400-1500. If I walk 20,000k steps I eat up to 1700-1800. 1200 calories is not realistic for me, I want my body to slowly adjust to my new lower weight. I’m also trying to avoid lose skin since I have been big my entire life. So far the slow weight loss approach is working and I haven’t given up on any food. Im easily bored and enjoy cooking meals from different cultures. I’m just eating in moderation and keeping track of my intake and walking. This works well for me and it’s sustainable.
  • MandaLuvsHockey
    MandaLuvsHockey Posts: 25 Member
    I’m 5’1.5” (2). Started at 175lb currently 138lb. It’s been 1 year 4 months. MFP recommends 1290 cal for 1 pound a week with light activity. I’m guessing it wil be 1200 calories for 2lbs. Since I like to eat I’m okay with losing at a slow rate of 0.5lb a week or less. I eat between 1400-1500. If I walk 20,000k steps I eat up to 1700-1800. 1200 calories is not realistic for me, I want my body to slowly adjust to my new lower weight. I’m also trying to avoid lose skin since I have been big my entire life. So far the slow weight loss approach is working and I haven’t given up on any food. Im easily bored and enjoy cooking meals from different cultures. I’m just eating in moderation and keeping track of my intake and walking. This works well for me and it’s sustainable.
    You are my goals -seriously. The only exception is I would like to get to about 160 (currently 180) faster than 0.5 a week, but once that is gone I am happy with a low number per week. What you are doing is sustainable to me so that gives me hope that I may be able to do similar :)

    IDK but somewhere along the line I forgot that at some point I should be able to up the calories a bit as I dont always want to be losing 1-2 per week. That gives me something to look forward to.
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