HELP!!!!!
lousiabates30
Posts: 14 Member
So it was my sisters birthday today and we went to an Italian restaurant...had mozzarella sticks, chicken aribiatta and LOTS of wine! Came to over 1200 CALORIES my intake today rounds to 2700....what am I going to do
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Get back with the plan tomorrow!
And tell your sister you love her.14 -
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Log it and move on. If I'm celebrating the birthday of a loved one, I worry less about sticking to my calories. I'll save up calories over the week, and if I feel like it I might even aim for maintenance. The thing you have to remember is you aren't just losing weight...you're learning how to handle not just the everyday, but special moments even when you reach your goal.9
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Don't let it overwhelm you by making more of it than it really is. As stated it was one meal. Any journey toward better health is a marathon, not a sprint. Life still needs to be worth living. If there is a situation in which you were going to have a meal that was outside of your norm as far as calorie counts go....getting together and enjoying a meal and some wine with your sister for her birthday sounds like a pretty good one. Particularly if you had some fun. Get back at it tomorrow and cherish the memories of today.5
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@Sthsidirish Thankyou for your words, your so right we did have fun!! Just panicked over the calories but as you say “get back at it tomorrow and cherish the memories of today” (love that thank you)5
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You are very welcome!1
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If you log pretty strictly for a week or so and weigh in during that time, you'll see how much damage you did or none at all. We all need celebrations, right?4
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If you're in maintenance, don't fret it. Its one meal on one day. PFFT! Just revel in the fact that you worked hard to get to the point where you can have an extravagent meal and enjoy it without worrying about the consequences. Get back on track tomorrow and you'll never know it happened (other than the pics! )2
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The key to maintaining for most, is learning how to get back in the groove after a slip. It isn’t usually possible for most of us to have a life that allows for no calorie overage in all meals, days, or even weeks. Vacations happen and should be enjoyed. Otherwise, you’re just on a diet. This is a way of life. And stuff happens in life, to derail us. Getting back to counting and logging quickly is key. Or whatever it is that works for you.9
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You still have to live life and that includes indulgences for birthdays and other special meals either out or at home. The important part of the journey is learning how to enjoy life (and food is an important part of that) and realise it isn't a negative, or a slip up, or falling off the wagon. It is just part of life. I deal with celebrations/meals out/parties by restricting a little during the week, exercising that day when possible and balancing my choices. For instance if I want the burger and chips I probably wont eat all the roll and I wont have a starter. If I want pudding I will have salad instead of a carb for my main. Sometimes I just want everything and that is OK too. I accept it, enjoy it and move on remembering that one glorious enjoyed meal will not turn me into a beached whale. Only consistent over eating day in, day out will result in weight gain.2
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It was one day/one meal. Log it and move on. If you want you can eat at slight deficit over the next few days and that will help counteract it. This is what maintenance is all about, there will be days we are over, when I go on holidays I am usually eating at 500 cals above my TDEE on most days during trips, but when I return and its back to normal logging any gain is gone within a few weeks.
The one offs in the grand scheme of things don't matter, its what we do MOST of the time that counts.0 -
I like the saying "It's not what you eat between Christmas and New Years that causes weight problems, it's what you eat between New Years and Christmas." While that may be specific to winter holiday season, I think it applies for other special occasions during the year also - birthdays, vacation, BBQs on Memorial Day, 4th and Labor Day, etc. 20 or even 30 days won't do you in if you make up for it in the other 335+ days.0
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hop back on the horse
expect a day or so of water weight - because italian tends to be higher in sodium, plus the wine you drank - but you'll be fine1 -
Start over tomorrow. It's one day. When you listen to your body today and tomorrow, you'll probably be a little less hungry than usual. Don't feel obliged to eat your calories unless you're hungry. I wouldn't be surprised if you hit your week's goals.1
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