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iissamarie
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I’ve been feeling distanced by my s/o..
I need advice and nobody to talk too!
message me! let’s chat & become friends? ❤️
I need advice and nobody to talk too!
message me! let’s chat & become friends? ❤️
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invisiblewoman5 wrote: »Do you call it soda or pop? pepsi or coke?
I call it SODA, & i prefer “Dr Pepper”1 -
iissamarie wrote: »invisiblewoman5 wrote: »Do you call it soda or pop? pepsi or coke?
I call it SODA, & i prefer “Dr Pepper”
I like Dr. Pepper Coke.3 -
SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.0 -
iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?0 -
Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP0 -
iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
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iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?1 -
invisiblewoman5 wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
dp isn't for everyone
DP is life2 -
iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
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iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
Where in Texas do you reside?0 -
Clever_User_Name wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »invisiblewoman5 wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
dp isn't for everyone
DP is life
I don't think we're all talking about the same DP here
Maybe we are.
Can you guys find new things that you can enjoy together?1 -
iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
Not to be harsh, but this is probably why he's distancing himself from you. Your intentions are good - you want him to be healthy. However, if the doesn't want to change then he probably sees this as criticism and as a personal attack. You can't change another person.0 -
iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
Someone tried to "encourage" me to lose weight once... Didn't go so well for him. Does he get ruffled when you talk about it? If so, I'd let it go and believe him when he says it's on his time.0 -
iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
We can't pressure or nag our s/o's to lose weight or do things they don't want to, guys don't like that. I don't like that either to be honest..
What about you? What are you doing for you?0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
Where in Texas do you reside?
South Texas in the rio grande valley!
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WorkerDrone83 wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »invisiblewoman5 wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
dp isn't for everyone
DP is life
I don't think we're all talking about the same DP here
Maybe we are.
Can you guys find new things that you can enjoy together?
I TRY. but he just likes to be home and always sleep or play his games. or i hate going places because i always pay. because he has “no money”.
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iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
Someone tried to "encourage" me to lose weight once... Didn't go so well for him. Does he get ruffled when you talk about it? If so, I'd let it go and believe him when he says it's on his time.
he does not get mad about it. he LIKES going, it’s just when HE WANTS. or he will tell me “let’s go today” and then he doesn’t answer because he knocked out within minutes.
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iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
We can't pressure or nag our s/o's to lose weight or do things they don't want to, guys don't like that. I don't like that either to be honest..
What about you? What are you doing for you?
i don’t pressure him. HE tells me he wants to join me, so all i do is encourage him to come with me, but it’s when HE feels like getting off his butt to go. he will make plans for the gym & im ready to go and he doesn’t answer anymore because he knocked out within minutes!1 -
Clever_User_Name wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »invisiblewoman5 wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
dp isn't for everyone
DP is life
I don't think we're all talking about the same DP here
Sshhh sshhh sshhh.... let it ride man. Let it ride.2 -
iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
We can't pressure or nag our s/o's to lose weight or do things they don't want to, guys don't like that. I don't like that either to be honest..
What about you? What are you doing for you?
i don’t pressure him. HE tells me he wants to join me, so all i do is encourage him to come with me, but it’s when HE feels like getting off his butt to go. he will make plans for the gym & im ready to go and he doesn’t answer anymore because he knocked out within minutes!
Sounds like he 1) sleeps a lot 2) plays video games a lot and then sleeps a lot more
Thought about getting an outdoor boyfriend to compliment your indoor one? :laugh:3 -
iissamarie wrote: »WorkerDrone83 wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »invisiblewoman5 wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
dp isn't for everyone
DP is life
I don't think we're all talking about the same DP here
Maybe we are.
Can you guys find new things that you can enjoy together?
I TRY. but he just likes to be home and always sleep or play his games. or i hate going places because i always pay. because he has “no money”.
I dont see the appeal. Time to trade up2 -
Tell your dude how much you love DP! What's his opinion of DP?3
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invisiblewoman5 wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
dp isn't for everyone
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iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »SabotageinStilettos wrote: »The messaging system is screwed up around here. Let’s chat about it right here.
I feel like i’m getting distanced by my S/O, he hardly likes to talk on the phone anymore, always asleep at home instead of joining me on my workouts. shows no effort, no interest in things I ENJOY.
What are things you enjoy?
I enjoy going to workout, movie dates, arcades, “main event” , and all he wants to do is stay in bed sleeping, playing video games. he never likes to leave his house. He only leaves the house to do things HE enjoys & doesn’t care if i join him or not.
Has he seen a doctor?
LOL. i’m trying to encourage him to drop body fat & lose weight too & he won’t. it’s when HE wants to. he says he doesn’t want to lose weight, he just wants to tone his arms..
We can't pressure or nag our s/o's to lose weight or do things they don't want to, guys don't like that. I don't like that either to be honest..
What about you? What are you doing for you?
i don’t pressure him. HE tells me he wants to join me, so all i do is encourage him to come with me, but it’s when HE feels like getting off his butt to go. he will make plans for the gym & im ready to go and he doesn’t answer anymore because he knocked out within minutes!
I might be the only one, but I think once you start talking negatively about your partner online in this manner it means you no longer respect your relationship. He's the one you should be talking to about these problems, and if you can't talk to him, then you already know the relationship is over.3 -
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_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »invisiblewoman5 wrote: »iissamarie wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »Why not Mr. Pibb? Is it because he's not as educated?
We don’t have Pibb where i’m from. we USED to , but they went back to Dr. Pepper. i honestly PREFER pibb instead of DP
dp isn't for everyone
DP is life
I don't think we're all talking about the same DP here
Sshhh sshhh sshhh.... let it ride man. Let it ride.
Riding is only half the fun in DP0 -
He sounds depressed to me if this is a change in behavior for him. Might be worth him talking to a doctor and getting some real help for it.
If you don't want to hang around while he works his stuff out or if he chooses not to seek help maybe you should break up and find someone more compatible.0
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