Skinny Fat Tummy NO MATTER WHAT?!!?!
Gainsngrub
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Hey guys I am new to my fitness pal, but I have always used a calorie and exercise tracker. I am coming to you guys today with an issue that involves my biggest insecurity ! I am skinny fat, specifically in my stomach area. I always make sure I get in my calories for the day, and try to keep all my foods as whole and pure as possible. I rarely have cheat days, and when I do its usually a meal and not an entire day.... I exercise frequently, 3-5x a week. When possible I go to the gym to do lifting and weight training, but because its a half hour from my house between work and juggling life its very hard to get there. So most my workouts are at home HIIT training. I have been at it for almost a year now and I've seen minimal change in my biggest problem area 
you can see my abs underneath so clearly when I flex, but there is such a thick layer of fat that simply wont burn. I will put a picture in the post of a front and side view. Does anyone have ANY advice to get rid of this? I feel like I am never going to be satisfied with my progress if I cant get rid of this area
you can see my abs underneath so clearly when I flex, but there is such a thick layer of fat that simply wont burn. I will put a picture in the post of a front and side view. Does anyone have ANY advice to get rid of this? I feel like I am never going to be satisfied with my progress if I cant get rid of this area4
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I don't think it's as bad as you think it is. In fact, I don't think it looks bad at all.
What's your height and weight, what's your TDEE, and how many calories are you eating?3 -
What are your stats? You don't look fat or skinny fat but rather lacking the muscle base to be more defined.
Lifting consistently and muscle building will help your body composition.. most likely based on your photos you will actually need to gain weight. But your stats (height, weight etc) will be more helpful in determining your next steps.11 -
What are your stats? You don't look fat or skinny fat but rather lacking the muscle base to be more defined.
Lifting consistently and muscle building will help your body composition.. most likely based on your photos you will actually need to gain weight. But your stats (height, weight etc) will be more helpful in determining your next steps.
JINX!1 -
Davidsdottir wrote: »What are your stats? You don't look fat or skinny fat but rather lacking the muscle base to be more defined.
Lifting consistently and muscle building will help your body composition.. most likely based on your photos you will actually need to gain weight. But your stats (height, weight etc) will be more helpful in determining your next steps.
JINX!
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Basically you still don't have a body fat percentage level under 20% and your midsection is likely the place you hold it the most. IMO, you can't say "no matter what" because it doesn't sound like you're consistent with resistance training and that may be what you need more.
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@Gainsngrub - from a man's perspective, I truly do not think that you look bad at all. But, that does not matter. What matters is what you think. The two ladies asking the same question are gonna be able to really help you.
General comments - nutrition will really help. Get that right, first and foremost. As the ladies suggested, find your caloric maintenance (or, more betterer, your TDEE) and determine what you are currently consuming (in the way of calories) and adjust accordingly (if necessary). I also agree that a good, solid resistance training program will help (shoot, it helps EVERYONE). Progressive overload is key. The two ladies can fill you in there.
So, solid nutrition and consistent resistance training will do you wonders. That is really the key.
For example, I used to do power lifting. But, because I can sometimes be a bit bullheaded and super competitive, I kept on hurting myself (doing deadlifts and squats at 85% of 1RM all the stinking time is maybe not the best program.....even for a kick *kitten* 51yo dude like me! LOL!)....so, when I was out of the gym (which happened several times for at least a month each time) I lost a lot of strength and tone. Point there....consistency is key. Like they say, life is 95% showing up. You don't show up, no gains!
Cardio is not the answer. If I might be so bold as to make that statement. It can indeed be a tool to help you, but it alone is not the answer. And you are know this....you are the perfect example (you stated that you have not made any changes at all in the last year).
If you can make nutrition and resistance training a priority then things will take a decided turn for the better (with 'better' being defined by you!)......
I wish you the best of fortune. You got this. And these two ladies will help you a ton!4 -
I don't want to sound daft, but are you holding your stomach in? If not, why not? That makes a huge difference!3
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livingleanlivingclean wrote: »I don't want to sound daft, but are you holding your stomach in? If not, why not? That makes a huge difference!
Because you shouldn't have to perform a stomach vacuum throughout the entirety of the day just to feel comfortable with yourself.
OP I'm going to go with the two very experienced woman have to say and build more muscle. I'm on mobile otherwise I would post a picture of when I was extremely lean with no muscle compared to now when I have a significantly higher total lean mass and a higher body fat percentage. Despite the extra fat mass my abs actually look significantly more defined and pronounced.
So I would highly recommend taking the plunge and either going for a traditional bulk or take it very slow and recomp. either way you will need to ensure that you follow a resistance training program. A true professionally built one over a home made one. Thats the turning point of saying yours serious about wanting to change opposed to actually taking it seriously through your actions.
I will also second that you look great already! And that you shouldn't get yourself down by what you don't have rather being yourself up by what you do have.3 -
What are your stats? You don't look fat or skinny fat but rather lacking the muscle base to be more defined.
Lifting consistently and muscle building will help your body composition.. most likely based on your photos you will actually need to gain weight. But your stats (height, weight etc) will be more helpful in determining your next steps.
Pretty much this...
I don't think you look skinny fat at all, but if you want that more "toned" look, you need to hit the weight room or otherwise do some kind of progressive resistance work. You don't have to spend a ton of time in the gym...full body programs are typically 3x per week and there are some 2x per week programs as well. I'm running a fairly basic barbell program at the moment due to time restraints...takes me about 30-40 minutes and I'm in and out.
Things like HIIT and whatnot are cardiovascular training...it isn't really going to do much for body composition. To change your body composition, you have to do resistance training. If you can't get to the gym, look into You are Your Own Gym and do body weight.2 -
livingleanlivingclean wrote: »I don't want to sound daft, but are you holding your stomach in? If not, why not? That makes a huge difference!
Because you shouldn't have to perform a stomach vacuum throughout the entirety of the day just to feel comfortable with yourself.
I thought holding in your stomach (in the quoted post) means keeping your core tight while exercising, not for 24/7.1 -
I think you look good.
Since you're not digging your look, you need to build muscle, lose fat, or both. Unfortunately body shape is something you can't really change, so if your body likes to hold onto fat in the belly then that's going to be the biggest part of you for the foreseeable future. Do you have an example of what your end goal might be? Just a smaller belly, or do you want to see a six-pack, too?
Also, your bra is super cute but it looks like it doesn't fit well. When you've got a minute, try getting a bra fitting and try on a bra that really fits. It definitely changed my life for the better.1 -
livingleanlivingclean wrote: »I don't want to sound daft, but are you holding your stomach in? If not, why not? That makes a huge difference!
Because you shouldn't have to perform a stomach vacuum throughout the entirety of the day just to feel comfortable with yourself.
I thought holding in your stomach (in the quoted post) means keeping your core tight while exercising, not for 24/7.
Actually, if you do this consistently throughout the day it becomes second nature. Not a vanity thing, per se, but it's like paying attention to whether you have good posture or not. Suck in your tummy and put your shoulders back - it strengthens your spine and abs and makes you look better, too. Much better than slouching and letting it all hang out.
ETA: I think OP looks great! But as a previous poster said, it's all in the self perception.7 -
RaeBeeBaby wrote: »livingleanlivingclean wrote: »I don't want to sound daft, but are you holding your stomach in? If not, why not? That makes a huge difference!
Because you shouldn't have to perform a stomach vacuum throughout the entirety of the day just to feel comfortable with yourself.
I thought holding in your stomach (in the quoted post) means keeping your core tight while exercising, not for 24/7.
Actually, if you do this consistently throughout the day it becomes second nature. Not a vanity thing, per se, but it's like paying attention to whether you have good posture or not. Suck in your tummy and put your shoulders back - it strengthens your spine and abs and makes you look better, too. Much better than slouching and letting it all hang out.
ETA: I think OP looks great! But as a previous poster said, it's all in the self perception.
Yes, this is what I was going to say. I try to keep my abs tight all the time, particularly while sitting at a desk all day. It keeps me mindful of my posture and helps strengthen the core.3 -
People store body fat in different places. Unless you completely shred and are super strict it isn’t going anywhere. Most guys store it in their gut do to testosterone lvls (hence why roided dudes have big bellys even if shredded) and women usually in there hips because of estrogen and hormone levels. Maybe something to think about. It’s probably achievable but your going to have to make it number 1 priority0
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Gainsngrub wrote: »Hey guys I am new to my fitness pal, but I have always used a calorie and exercise tracker. I am coming to you guys today with an issue that involves my biggest insecurity ! I am skinny fat, specifically in my stomach area. I always make sure I get in my calories for the day, and try to keep all my foods as whole and pure as possible. I rarely have cheat days, and when I do its usually a meal and not an entire day.... I exercise frequently, 3-5x a week. When possible I go to the gym to do lifting and weight training, but because its a half hour from my house between work and juggling life its very hard to get there. So most my workouts are at home HIIT training. I have been at it for almost a year now and I've seen minimal change in my biggest problem area you can see my abs underneath so clearly when I flex, but there is such a thick layer of fat that simply wont burn. I will put a picture in the post of a front and side view. Does anyone have ANY advice to get rid of this? I feel like I am never going to be satisfied with my progress if I cant get rid of this area
This is so weird!!! I have that bra and also we have very similar body shapes, eerily similar. It's like I'm looking a pic of myself especially since I was wearing that bra earlier today too. I too would love to get rid of that stomach layer.
Everywhere else I'm happy with, but that stomach layer just bugs me. I think partially it is do to how I am built cause even if I had the fat layer gone I still think my stomach would stick out more than normal. I don't have the mental strength to do bulk/cut right now so I'm just aiming for a long slow recomp.0 -
I call mine cheese fry abs.
It would require losing a lot of body fat percentage, and I don't have the desire to do such a major cut right now.2 -
Your profile says that you're recovering from anorexia and binge eating and I think a lot of the comments here have good intentions but are maybe inappropriate for someone in recovery. I hope you'll talk with your doctors and counselors about how you're feeling.
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It's all in your head. You look good, but the problem is your weight training, you said it yourself, you're not consistent, that probably answered your own question.4
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I am no expert and only speak from experience. I used to be skinny fat. My problem was bad posture and weak core muscle which was made worst by typical 6 pack abs exercises because it made my belly bigger. I had to start by strengthening my obliques and transverse abdominals first. The difference was mind blowing.3
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FitSeachely wrote: »I am no expert and only speak from experience. I used to be skinny fat. My problem was bad posture and weak core muscle which was made worst by typical 6 pack abs exercises because it made my belly bigger. I had to start by strengthening my obliques and transverse abdominals first. The difference was mind blowing.
Same. While I have fat on my stomach sure, the appearance is so much different with better posture. I've been trying to do core exercises in my workout regime and I do notice a marked difference in how my stomach appears even through I haven't lost much for inches in my stomach area so far. I'm still pretty new at it and have a ways to go though.
OP- I personally think you look fine. What I see is maybe relaxed muscles but not fat. It would be good as others have suggested to incorporate strength training to get the look you may desire. You don't even need a gym. Body weight workouts and things like Pilates or yoga can be very effective in building strength, and improving posture.
ETA: Just in case you've been perusing Instagram and Pinterest for fitness inspiration just know while these ladies might be fit, they are looking their best while they model. Things like camera angle, body positioning, lighting, and whether they have eaten or not all have impact on what their photos look like. I'm posting a link because I feel it's important. (Ignore the Keto adverts though unless you're into that sort of thing.) In the world of social media, every one is posting their best angle & not what they look like on a daily basis. Just remember that, and don't be down on yourself.
https://theheartysoul.com/before-and-after-photos/0 -
You can always try vacuum stomach exercises. Not so much squeezing your abs, but sucking your belly button into your body as much as possible and holding. Breath out and hold when you do it. You should see your ribs stick out. Keep the shoulders back. Just my opinion. Strengthens the internal muscles that hold the intestines in. Also getting your body to run on it's own fat could help( I.E Ketosis). Just trying to help.3
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okay, so I am I the only one who thinks the OP is cute AF.
I wouldn't change a thing on you. Have you seen pulp fiction, the scene where Bruce Willis has to explain to blueberry pancakes how cute a girls tum is?
and pps - you are NOT skinny FAT2 -
okay, so I am I the only one who thinks the OP is cute AF.
I wouldn't change a thing on you. Have you seen pulp fiction, the scene where Bruce Willis has to explain to blueberry pancakes how cute a girls tum is?
and pps - you are NOT skinny FAT
No, I was one of the first to respond and said she looked great.
RE: the comment about recovering from anorexia... I'm on mobile and hasn't seen the OP's profile. I agree, there is nothing wrong with you physically, and you may need to talk to someone. You look really good, but lifting weights can improve your bone density, musculature, and body composition.2 -
"Abs are made in the kitchen"!
What does your diet look like? Are you taking any type of toning product? Are you incorporating any core strengthening exercises or isolated ab work during your workouts?15 -
originalmotivation wrote: »"Abs are made in the kitchen"!
What does your diet look like? Are you taking any type of toning product? Are you incorporating any core strengthening exercises or isolated ab work during your workouts?
Toning product?2 -
originalmotivation wrote: »"Abs are made in the kitchen"!
What does your diet look like? Are you taking any type of toning product? Are you incorporating any core strengthening exercises or isolated ab work during your workouts?
What are you talking about?5 -
okay, so I am I the only one who thinks the OP is cute AF.
I wouldn't change a thing on you. Have you seen pulp fiction, the scene where Bruce Willis has to explain to blueberry pancakes how cute a girls tum is?
and pps - you are NOT skinny FAT
Wrong. His girlfriend is trying to explain to him why she thinks a pot belly is sexy. Common get with your fandom.2 -
I agree with the comments that there is nothing wrong with you, but your posture could be better. A good weights program would help, but I also really like my abs roller. It really strengthened my core and costs like eight bucks. Push-ups are another core strengthener you can do with no equipment.
Not every woman needs visible abs. It irks me that visible abs have become the standard - for many women this look is not sustainable or healthy. Particularly for someone recovering from an eating disorder it's not the best goal. Work on becoming strong and healthy!3 -
I think your body is fabulous, and is the type of body I find most attractive on a woman.1
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To add to what @FitSeachely stated, there is a very specific order in which we can optimize ab training. Jeff Cavelier at AthleanX has those youtube videos. I am starting tomorrow (and gonna have a six pack - something that I have NEVER had, even as athletic as I have been most of my life - at age 51!). Put the science back in training, folks (yes, stolen from one Jeff Cavalier!)1
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