Do you think vulnerability is a turn off or attractive

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  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies

    We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials :'(
  • Calliope610
    Calliope610 Posts: 3,771 Member
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    Vulnerable, as in "I acknowledge my feelings and emotions and am comfortable sharing this", is attractive and appreciated.

    Vulnerable, as in "I'm insecure, I need someone strong to take care of me", is GTFO, I don't have time for that *kitten*.

  • go_cubs
    go_cubs Posts: 1,183 Member
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    Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies

    We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials :'(

    Now if we’re talking Sarah mclachlan commercials I’ll let it slide
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies

    We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials :'(

    Now if we’re talking Sarah mclachlan commercials I’ll let it slide

    More like Wendy’s commercials cause that *kitten* is tasty and I’m jealous.
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,857 Member
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    To me it means that you open yourself up and let down barriers for someone that you wouldn't normally open. I think that it's important to do this when a relationship reaches a certain point..If you can never let the walls down, the relationship will stall. So yes, I think it's attractive when appropriate because it means you've reached a milestone.

    However, if you're opening up to the cashier at Publix. . well, that's kind of annoying. . especially if I'm behind you with my 11 items.
  • go_cubs
    go_cubs Posts: 1,183 Member
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    Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies

    We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials :'(

    Now if we’re talking Sarah mclachlan commercials I’ll let it slide

    More like Wendy’s commercials cause that *kitten* is tasty and I’m jealous.

    Cut it out!
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
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    Meh, I am how I am. If they don't like it - if I am too hard or vulnerable - go find someone that is more suited to your tastes.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    TheRoadDog wrote: »
    Vulnerable -- in need of special care, support, or protection because of age, disability, or risk of abuse or neglect.

    By the definition above, I would say that I wouldn't want to seek out a person displaying vulnerability. I prefer persons that are capable of taking care of themselves.

    Not sure what the question is, but I would say I don't want someone that needs me. I want someone that doesn't need me, but, wants me in their life.

    I’m going to be really annoyed when you retire and don’t come around anymore.
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
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    https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

    Vulnerability is so sexy.....;)
  • go_cubs
    go_cubs Posts: 1,183 Member
    edited June 2018
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    bojack5 wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

    Vulnerability is so sexy.....;)

    What are you doing in a tree T?!
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
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    bojack5 wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

    Vulnerability is so sexy.....;)

    What are you doing in a tree T?!

    Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

    Vulnerability is so sexy.....;)

    What are you doing in a tree T?!

    Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol

    Ummm are you a real man...and can you come help me before this dead tree falls on my house :|
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
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    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

    Vulnerability is so sexy.....;)

    What are you doing in a tree T?!

    Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol

    Ummm are you a real man...and can you come help me before this dead tree falls on my house :|

    I'm fairly close to being a real man I believe :).....well cutting down trees is not my profession but I didn't fall to my death, cut my leg off, or crash a tree through the house, so maybe I can help you out :)
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

    Vulnerability is so sexy.....;)

    What are you doing in a tree T?!

    Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol

    Ummm are you a real man...and can you come help me before this dead tree falls on my house :|

    I'm fairly close to being a real man I believe :).....well cutting down trees is not my profession but I didn't fall to my death, cut my leg off, or crash a tree through the house, so maybe I can help you out :)

    I already had one tree fall in the street and yard...and either due to their kindness or anmoyance...some random person cut it up for me....i don't think I'll be so lucky the next go around...
  • go_cubs
    go_cubs Posts: 1,183 Member
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    bojack5 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

    Vulnerability is so sexy.....;)

    What are you doing in a tree T?!

    Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol

    Wowowow


    Dude of all trades