Do you think vulnerability is a turn off or attractive
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spanish_liza wrote: »Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies
We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials1 -
Vulnerable, as in "I acknowledge my feelings and emotions and am comfortable sharing this", is attractive and appreciated.
Vulnerable, as in "I'm insecure, I need someone strong to take care of me", is GTFO, I don't have time for that *kitten*.
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_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies
We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials
Now if we’re talking Sarah mclachlan commercials I’ll let it slide1 -
spanish_liza wrote: »_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies
We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials
Now if we’re talking Sarah mclachlan commercials I’ll let it slide
More like Wendy’s commercials cause that *kitten* is tasty and I’m jealous.3 -
To me it means that you open yourself up and let down barriers for someone that you wouldn't normally open. I think that it's important to do this when a relationship reaches a certain point..If you can never let the walls down, the relationship will stall. So yes, I think it's attractive when appropriate because it means you've reached a milestone.
However, if you're opening up to the cashier at Publix. . well, that's kind of annoying. . especially if I'm behind you with my 11 items.3 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »Mmmm like how vulnerable? Cause I don’t like cry babies
We could have really had something special, but I cry at commercials
Now if we’re talking Sarah mclachlan commercials I’ll let it slide
More like Wendy’s commercials cause that *kitten* is tasty and I’m jealous.
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Vulnerable -- in need of special care, support, or protection because of age, disability, or risk of abuse or neglect.
By the definition above, I would say that I wouldn't want to seek out a person displaying vulnerability. I prefer persons that are capable of taking care of themselves.
Not sure what the question is, but I would say I don't want someone that needs me. I want someone that doesn't need me, but, wants me in their life.5 -
Meh, I am how I am. If they don't like it - if I am too hard or vulnerable - go find someone that is more suited to your tastes.1
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TheRoadDog wrote: »Vulnerable -- in need of special care, support, or protection because of age, disability, or risk of abuse or neglect.
By the definition above, I would say that I wouldn't want to seek out a person displaying vulnerability. I prefer persons that are capable of taking care of themselves.
Not sure what the question is, but I would say I don't want someone that needs me. I want someone that doesn't need me, but, wants me in their life.
I’m going to be really annoyed when you retire and don’t come around anymore.2 -
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What are you doing in a tree T?!2 -
spanish_liza wrote: »
What are you doing in a tree T?!
Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol4 -
spanish_liza wrote: »
What are you doing in a tree T?!
Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol
Ummm are you a real man...and can you come help me before this dead tree falls on my house1 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »
What are you doing in a tree T?!
Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol
Ummm are you a real man...and can you come help me before this dead tree falls on my house
I'm fairly close to being a real man I believe .....well cutting down trees is not my profession but I didn't fall to my death, cut my leg off, or crash a tree through the house, so maybe I can help you out3 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »spanish_liza wrote: »
What are you doing in a tree T?!
Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol
Ummm are you a real man...and can you come help me before this dead tree falls on my house
I'm fairly close to being a real man I believe .....well cutting down trees is not my profession but I didn't fall to my death, cut my leg off, or crash a tree through the house, so maybe I can help you out
I already had one tree fall in the street and yard...and either due to their kindness or anmoyance...some random person cut it up for me....i don't think I'll be so lucky the next go around...1 -
Lucky for me this tree was nothing more than a real tall Christmas tree.....if your tree is like a normal tree I may have a problem lol5 -
spanish_liza wrote: »
What are you doing in a tree T?!
Had to take down 2 pine trees at a new flip house I got. There wasn't enough room to just cut them at the base so I had to climb them and take it down in sections. I wish a had a funnier answer for ya lol
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