A housewife and a techie in need to be in better shape

sophie_zengainz
sophie_zengainz Posts: 22 Member
edited November 2024 in Introduce Yourself
I'm a 31 years old housewife and a homeschool mom to 2 special needs children. I'm also a blogger on my spare time, and used to be a computer technician before deciding to be a stay-at-home mom.

I've got various chronic health issues:
  • PCOS
  • Uterine Prolapse
  • Symptoms of Endometriosis
  • Chronic uterine pain (it's debilitating with some days keeping me in bed and depressed)

My eating habits were not that bad to begin with, I like to follow the 80/20 rule, and Intermittent Fasting (Have breakfast and lunch, skip dinner), but due to my problems above, I'm having a hard time getting the courage and strength to exercise, as well as keeping below calories (weakness, anemia, low sugar and high blood pressure issues). Because of my problems above, it's also a challenge getting rid of the weight.

I'm fairly active, as I clean and cook, and do yoga and stationary bike when I can (with the occasional pushups etc when at my best).

I'm at 74 kg at the moment. Even though the calculators say I should be at 60 kg tops ( which I had successfully reached that goal in the past), I want to be and stay at 65 kg.

Any further advice on how to reach that goal despite my health issues is always welcome.

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  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,588 MFP Moderator
    It is between you and your doctor, but it seems like a hysterectomy might give you a much better quality of life if you have not thought about it before.

    There have been lots of members who were successful despite not being able to exercise, it is not essential for weight loss. Sounds like you would want to stay away from low carb type diets if you have issues with low blood sugar.

    Other than that, just try to log as accurately as you can. Lots of people find a foodscale really helps them be more accurate than measuring other ways.

    ~best wishes
  • sophie_zengainz
    sophie_zengainz Posts: 22 Member
    Thank you for your reply.

    I've tried opting for hysterectomy, but they said I'm too young, and they are even reluctant when I asked them to do a laparoscopy to check if it's really endometriosis.

    I'm dying with the pain most days, but despite my long search over the past 2 decades, I have yet to find a doctor who would listen and do something more than just prescribing antibiotics for infections that are not there and birth control pills that don't even work and just give me loads of side effects.

    I've tried the following for more than a year at a time with each one to no avail:
    1. Osteopathy and acupuncture
    2. Agnus castus herb
    3. Homemade turmeric capsules
    4. Homeopathy
    5. Lovage seed tea
    6. Primrose oil capsules
    7. Omega 3 capsules

    Now I started taking wild yam extract capsules, I don't know how much that can help, along with apple cider vinegar in fresh mint tea. Daily yoga with specific poses have helped reduce my prolapse and the back pain that comes with it, but not cure it.

    I have recently increased the exercise despite my pain, and it has helped a bit more. I really could use with improving my eating habits though.
  • tlpina82
    tlpina82 Posts: 229 Member
    Thank you for your reply.

    I've tried opting for hysterectomy, but they said I'm too young, and they are even reluctant when I asked them to do a laparoscopy to check if it's really endometriosis.

    I'm dying with the pain most days, but despite my long search over the past 2 decades, I have yet to find a doctor who would listen

    This is insane. I am really sorry you're going through this. No one should be in continuous pain because they're "too young".
    If the doctors won't operate, have they considered at least adding a pessary to help "Hold things in place"?

    Yoga is fantastic for your health. Bending and elongating has tons of health benefits.

    There's one problem thou. For weight loss, you need to increase your metabolism and the only way is through exercise. Plus, strengthening your core, could help with the prolapse.
    If you can bare it. Try working your whole body. Putting on a little muscle mass goes a long way to reducing the symptoms of PCOS as well, by using up some of the androgen and the insulin your body is most likely resistant to.

    Also, have you considered going plant based? Only asking, because PCOS is mostly affected by insulin resistance and testosterone.
    A Whole Foods, Plant based diets have been shown to improve the quality of life of those with PCOS, by regulating those 2 factors.

    Hope this helps.
    Good luck.
  • sophie_zengainz
    sophie_zengainz Posts: 22 Member
    tlpina82 wrote: »
    Thank you for your reply.

    I've tried opting for hysterectomy, but they said I'm too young, and they are even reluctant when I asked them to do a laparoscopy to check if it's really endometriosis.

    I'm dying with the pain most days, but despite my long search over the past 2 decades, I have yet to find a doctor who would listen

    This is insane. I am really sorry you're going through this. No one should be in continuous pain because they're "too young".
    If the doctors won't operate, have they considered at least adding a pessary to help "Hold things in place"?

    Yoga is fantastic for your health. Bending and elongating has tons of health benefits.

    There's one problem thou. For weight loss, you need to increase your metabolism and the only way is through exercise. Plus, strengthening your core, could help with the prolapse.
    If you can bare it. Try working your whole body. Putting on a little muscle mass goes a long way to reducing the symptoms of PCOS as well, by using up some of the androgen and the insulin your body is most likely resistant to.

    Also, have you considered going plant based? Only asking, because PCOS is mostly affected by insulin resistance and testosterone.
    A Whole Foods, Plant based diets have been shown to improve the quality of life of those with PCOS, by regulating those 2 factors.

    Hope this helps.
    Good luck.

    It is insane indeed, if you think how many doctors, hospitals and countries I've switched over the years. It is depressing to say the least.

    They said a pessary is not a good solution and they don't recommend doing it.

    Indeed yoga has helped tremendously so far. And I agree, yoga alone is not enough for weight loss. The poses I do are for strengthening the core as well.

    Thank you for your suggestions. I do try occasionally to add some strength exercises (push-ups, squats etc) but like I mentioned, the pain sometimes gets worse with exercise and that deters me from exercising further. Lately I do at least an hour of stationary bike cycling 5 days a week, so I'm hoping it gives enough calorie deficit at the very least.

    I think healthy eating is my biggest problem right now, as I have picky eaters at home, including a husband from another country, and don't exactly have the time nor energy to cook more than 1 main meal a day for each person. My breakfasts are fairly healthy, but our main meal of the day and time management is my main issue right now.

    I wish there was an easy planner that had everything planned out for me with meals that every one is happy with. I will definitely have to think this one through.
  • tlpina82
    tlpina82 Posts: 229 Member
    I wish there was an easy planner that had everything planned out for me with meals that every one is happy with. I will definitely have to think this one through.

    There are some great dieticians and nutritionists that provide assistance like that online.
    They trace every meal for you and in my case, I cook for the whole week in one big batch on sundays.

    It's not hard. With some youtube time, you may be able to plan those yourself, but if you can't, there is a lot of cheap assistance.

    Good Luck.
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