What do you see in a guy?

Phisically his perfect smile ^^
personality- fun, smart, skills,committed , passionate, sexy, family oriented... So much to say...

That's funny.... I'm all of those things!!!

he's got to be funny, have a brain, be extroverted, and I have some biased like I prefer brown hair :P

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yep, yep, yep, and...... yep! lol

Badassery.
The first thing I notice is not the clothes, smile or "stereotype", it's the badassness with which it's pulled off.
I've met countless tough guys who were really just insecure, and more often than not, nerdy guys who didn't give a pickle whether or not anybody thought they were a loser for REALLY liking Star Wars.
The guy I'm currently into is a bit of both. He looks like a tough guy, and kind of is, but he definitely knows the difference between Cloud City and Coruscant. It's not the exterior that draws me to him, though. It's his ability to crack a joke, and not care if he offends me (he never does, I have a trucker's sense of humor). The way he won't admit that he wanted to beat the jerk up who stole my phone, or admit to how much effort he actually put in to finding it. It's the way we can go from talking about Greedo vs. Han Solo right into talking about the pros and cons of buying the newspaper in paper form, or having it emailed to you in pdf format....

I like men who are funny, motivated, well dressed, confident, but mostly one who can hold a conversation, relax and just be themselves.

Super intelligent + quick wit = Attractive

What do I see in a guy ...

Obviously looks are the first thing I notice ... I am drawn to tall, muscular guys (not overly muscular, just "he clearly works out" muscular) with friendly smiles.

But good looks quickly disappear if a guy acts like a jerk, and I can spot a jerk before he even opens his mouth. I pay very close attention to the way a guy behaves around me, and there are certain cues that immediately turn me off. For instance, if he's looking at someone/something else while he's talking to me ... jerk. If he curses in my presence ... jerk. If he makes fun of something I do or say before we've reached a certain level of familiarity with each other ... jerk. If he talks about women like we exist only to be visibly and sexually pleasing to men ... jerk. If he walks through a door in front of me ... jerk.

So yeah, I cut through the BS very quickly with pretty boys. And even if you aren't all that attractive, if you behave like a gentleman, you will get my attention. I will want to be around you.

Looks: Tall, in shape, I appreciate a nice lookin' *kitten*, muscular arms

Personality: must have a sense of humor..I LOVE a guy that can make me laugh, honesty. Even if I guy doesn't fit the looks standards that I posted, if he has an awesome personality, that will make him more attractive to me.