Things People Need to Hear...

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  • covetthycarbs
    covetthycarbs Posts: 300 Member
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    If you find someone annoying, more often than not it is you who needs to change, not them (I tried explaining this to my 6 year old. He wouldn't listen and so the girl in his class still happily annoys the heck out of him with her loud voice and he is the only one who suffers)

    Try it this way.... yes, she is super annoying. And that sucks. But right now, it sucks to be you because you are letting her annoy you. Why don't you close your ears when she talks, and hum inside your head and not listen to her? That way, she is being super silly because she is talking so loud and you can't even hear her. Now it sucks to be HER. And she doesn't even have to know about it. It can be your secret power.
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
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    If you find someone annoying, more often than not it is you who needs to change, not them (I tried explaining this to my 6 year old. He wouldn't listen and so the girl in his class still happily annoys the heck out of him with her loud voice and he is the only one who suffers)

    Try it this way.... yes, she is super annoying. And that sucks. But right now, it sucks to be you because you are letting her annoy you. Why don't you close your ears when she talks, and hum inside your head and not listen to her? That way, she is being super silly because she is talking so loud and you can't even hear her. Now it sucks to be HER. And she doesn't even have to know about it. It can be your secret power.

    Thanks! That is a great approach!
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
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    you don't have to eat everything on your plate. its ok to have leftovers

    Thanks. I needed to hear this.
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
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    you don't have to eat everything on your plate. its ok to have leftovers

    But then I can't have pudding 😭
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,239 Member
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    It's not the jeans that make your butt look big! :smiley:
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,239 Member
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    DWBalboa wrote: »
    It's not the jeans that make your butt look big! :smiley:

    im glad u noticed ;)

    I have! You must work out. :lol:
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
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    you don't have to eat everything on your plate. its ok to have leftovers

    But then I can't have pudding 😭

    ah well, its because ur not full, u can have pudding :)

    one of my problems is I EAT EVERYTHING no matter how much is on my plate and I have little to no room for desert.

    every time im at the cheesecake factory, waitress goes " room for dessert" ?

    I always say no with a sad face :(

    There is always room for dessert! Even if you need to eat it first!!
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
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    you don't have to eat everything on your plate. its ok to have leftovers

    But then I can't have pudding 😭

    That’s just your...meat.
  • hipari
    hipari Posts: 1,367 Member
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    Doorways, stairways and escalators in public spaces and transportation are not there for your personal use only. Stop standing in or directly in front of them and let other people through.

    Let others out from the train or subway car before entering. You'll have more room inside if you let others out first.

    Yes, your personality is special and unique and we all respect that. All the same rules still apply to you.
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    It's ok to put yourself first. Remember that. 🙂
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
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    There's nothing so important as giving and receiving love.
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
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    SwannySez wrote: »
    These people are NOT your friends. You don’t know a damn thing about them. Quit acting like the internet is a safe place. It’s not.

    Yeah, but some of us are possibly ... Gullible I guess. 😐😖😕
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
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  • Pour_Decisions
    Pour_Decisions Posts: 1,053 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    SwannySez wrote: »
    These people are NOT your friends. You don’t know a damn thing about them. Quit acting like the internet is a safe place. It’s not.

    Yeah, but some of us are possibly ... Gullible I guess. 😐😖😕

    Did you know it's impossible to bob your head back and forth while you have your mouth open?

    I wonder how many people will actually try.
  • Keto_N_Iron
    Keto_N_Iron Posts: 5,385 Member
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    You deserve to be happy
    You are more than enough
    You are a catch
    You are beautiful/handsome
    You can make the hard decision
    You will be ok
    You are stronger than you think
    You can reach your goals
  • 4legsRbetterthan2
    4legsRbetterthan2 Posts: 19,590 MFP Moderator
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    pudgy1977 wrote: »
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    Hey, I earned this one time!

    It made me feel a little bad for my rant too....
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
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    You need to stop obsessing.
  • Pipersmomma1
    Pipersmomma1 Posts: 235 Member
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    Please stop answering the phone in the bathroom.