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LaurenMT96
LaurenMT96 Posts: 184 Member
edited November 2018 in Motivation and Support
Answered thankyou everyone
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  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
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    I'd stop talking about it at work. 🤷🏼‍♀️
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    I'd stop talking about it at work. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    Jinx! :laugh:
  • LaurenMT96
    LaurenMT96 Posts: 184 Member
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    The thing is, I really don't though unless asked, sometimes they ask me what i lost this week etc and I will respond but I never openly tell them
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
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    I'd stop talking about it at work. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    Jinx! :laugh:

    😆😂🤣
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,644 Member
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    LaurenMT96 wrote: »
    The thing is, I really don't though unless asked, sometimes they ask me what i lost this week etc and I will respond but I never openly tell them

    I'd shift the conversation elsewhere. Eventually they will get the point.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    LaurenMT96 wrote: »
    The thing is, I really don't though unless asked, sometimes they ask me what i lost this week etc and I will respond but I never openly tell them

    From now on I'd answer with 'i haven't... nice weather isn't it?'
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,874 Member
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    LaurenMT96 wrote: »
    The thing is, I really don't though unless asked, sometimes they ask me what i lost this week etc and I will respond but I never openly tell them

    If that happens again, ask them how much they gained this week :tongue:
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
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    Just to add, people are mean... groups of women are especially mean....

    Alternate a soft drink with an alcoholic drink on your Christmas do and enjoy!
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,874 Member
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    pinuplove wrote: »
    LaurenMT96 wrote: »
    The thing is, I really don't though unless asked, sometimes they ask me what i lost this week etc and I will respond but I never openly tell them

    If that happens again, ask them how much they gained this week :tongue:

    (Don't actually do that)
  • LaurenMT96
    LaurenMT96 Posts: 184 Member
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    Yeah I think I will just not involve them. and haha @pinuplove I might do :p
  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,874 Member
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    Just to add, people are mean... groups of women are especially mean....

    Alternate a soft drink with an alcoholic drink on your Christmas do and enjoy!

    *kitten* yes! I work in an office comprised of 8 women, no men at the moment. It's a wonder we haven't burned to the ground yet...
  • LaurenMT96
    LaurenMT96 Posts: 184 Member
    edited November 2018
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    pinuplove wrote: »
    Just to add, people are mean... groups of women are especially mean....

    Alternate a soft drink with an alcoholic drink on your Christmas do and enjoy!

    *kitten* yes! I work in an office comprised of 8 women, no men at the moment. It's a wonder we haven't burned to the ground yet...

  • catherinew24
    catherinew24 Posts: 1 Member
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    ^^^ I agree with all of the above! I can relate, the minute I started talking about this stuff at work (my weight-loss journey has been on & off for about 4 years at the same job), everyone ALWAYS has an opinion or an off-handed comment.

    Just don't talk about anything food/weight related. Keep it to yourself.

    And if you have a social media you're sharing this stuff on, make sure they're not following you (or block them from your content, or create a separate account if it's Instagram, etc.) - that could be the culprit for their "explosion." I had a coworker following my fitness account & it caused an unnecessary amount of drama.
  • DaisyHamilton
    DaisyHamilton Posts: 575 Member
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    Wow if someone yelled at me like that I'd have a huge problem :D
  • shaf238
    shaf238 Posts: 4,021 Member
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    At work, talk about work...
  • LaurenMT96
    LaurenMT96 Posts: 184 Member
    edited November 2018
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  • shaf238
    shaf238 Posts: 4,021 Member
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    I absolutely have. I managed medical secretaries and holy crap they could talk for hours. I just never got involved.