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SurfyReturnZ wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »SurfyReturnZ wrote: »Attacking my physical appearance using my age had the desired effect you intended.
Surfy.. be thankful he showed his true colours.. what an *kitten*
I know it still hurts though.. hugs
Jo, it's like I now have this insecurity that I will carry into future relationships. I am sensitive about aging..I am 45 years old soon and I don't care if people think me to be vain but there are days I don't like what I am seeing in the mirror. I still feel 20 oui..but his vindictive comments which included comparisons to younger women he was attracted to, have done something detrimental to my esteem and confidence that I'm afraid I cannot get back.I earned every crease by my eyes, every laugh line , every silver hair, both droopy t*ts, the crepey skin on my hands, the huge scar on my belly from the major surgery that saved my life, every creaky joint, every visible cord on my neck, and every visible spider vein on both my legs.
I put the years in and I earned it all and I wear it all as a badge of honor and seniority.
Nothing some little hard on says to me is going to change my attitude about that.
The thought of anyone trying to make me feel bad about that stuff is laughable. No wonder no one even tries.
So chin up, shoulders back and don't let it even break your stride lady.
I need to adopt your attitude. I will keep reading your response because even as I was reading 'chin up, shoulders back...' I was doing so. I really value your input, merci x
You can take on this attitude. You really can, don't doubt it for a second.3 -
SurfyReturnZ wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »SurfyReturnZ wrote: »Attacking my physical appearance using my age had the desired effect you intended.
Surfy.. be thankful he showed his true colours.. what an *kitten*
I know it still hurts though.. hugs
Jo, it's like I now have this insecurity that I will carry into future relationships. I am sensitive about aging..I am 45 years old soon and I don't care if people think me to be vain but there are days I don't like what I am seeing in the mirror. I still feel 20 oui..but his vindictive comments which included comparisons to younger women he was attracted to, have done something detrimental to my esteem and confidence that I'm afraid I cannot get back.I earned every crease by my eyes, every laugh line , every silver hair, both droopy t*ts, the crepey skin on my hands, the huge scar on my belly from the major surgery that saved my life, every creaky joint, every visible cord on my neck, and every visible spider vein on both my legs.
I put the years in and I earned it all and I wear it all as a badge of honor and seniority.
Nothing some little hard on says to me is going to change my attitude about that.
The thought of anyone trying to make me feel bad about that stuff is laughable. No wonder no one even tries.
So chin up, shoulders back and don't let it even break your stride lady.
I need to adopt your attitude. I will keep reading your response because even as I was reading 'chin up, shoulders back...' I was doing so. I really value your input, merci x
I'm not far from your age. And I can relate 100%. Aging scares me and when I talk about it it does make me feel vain. But my feelings about it are still my feelings.
I'm sorry you had hurtful things said to you. I wish bullies didn't have mouths. Or arms. Or legs.
Hell, I wish they didn't exist entirely.2 -
WEEKEND!
Now let's get our drank on.3 -
RomaineCalm wrote: »WEEKEND!
Now let's get our drank on.
Yuusssss!1 -
Chael2dot0 wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »WEEKEND!
Now let's get our drank on.
Yuusssss!
I mean if you twist my arm and all...0 -
Tenebrous_D wrote: »One of you two has a conscious. You didn't have to change your woo to an insightful on my support group post. I don't need your pity. Let me have it. Unless you're that one guy. Your insightful's annoy me
I told people never to drink alcohol in the sage advice thread and they wood me. Also they woo me whenever I chat about interpersonal relations between men and women, and on Paleo threads, and when I mentioned Ron Jeremy and so on.8 -
SurfyReturnZ wrote: »Attacking my physical appearance using my age had the desired effect you intended.
You were insulted by a blind moron?5 -
This may be true but please take into account:
Gerry Rafferty Baker Street Long Version
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dU6w56epBdc1 -
Kind of miss you, kiiiind of want to punch you in your junk. I'm sure the first of the two will pass.5
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Tech abuse: Tech safety ... Pacified incitement to violence - clique mentality, and the subtlety telling; The abuse of status and influence and its effects.2
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